### Focus Keyword: Positive People Experiences
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#### Title:
Claiming Each Other: Positive People Experiences & Culture Change | #InclusionBitesPodcast
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#### Tags:
Positive People Experiences, Inclusion, Diversity, Culture Change, Joanne Lockwood, Lorie Solis, Somatics, Conflict Resolution, Community Building, Ancestral Connection, Decolonisation, Reindigenization, Belonging, Trauma Recovery, Somatic First Aid, Political Views, Brain Structure, Emotional Intelligence, HR, Diversity & Inclusion, Societal Transformation, Personal Growth, Healing
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#### Killer Quote:
"Conflict can be a generative force, leading to healing and new possibilities." - Lorie Solis
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#### Hashtags:
#PositivePeopleExperiences, #InclusionBites, #JoanneLockwood, #LorieSolis, #Somatics, #ConflictResolution, #CommunityBuilding, #AncestralConnection, #Decolonisation, #Reindigenization, #Belonging, #TraumaRecovery, #SomaticFirstAid, #PoliticalViews, #BrainStructure, #EmotionalIntelligence, #DiversityAndInclusion, #SocietalTransformation, #PersonalGrowth, #Healing
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#### Why Listen:
Our latest episode of “The Inclusion Bites Podcast” titled "Claiming Each Other" is a riveting discussion with Lorie Solis that delves deep into the transformative realm of Positive People Experiences and Culture Change. Hosted by me, Joanne Lockwood, this episode isn't just another discussion on diversity and inclusion; it’s a call to unearth and tackle the nuanced layers of our societal and personal dynamics.
Lorie Solis, a renowned somatic trauma worker, bodyworker, educator, herbalist, and healer, joins us to explore her life's work and methodology encapsulated in "Claiming Each Other." This episode brings forth profound insights into how we can navigate conflicts, build resilient relationships, and foster an inclusive culture within our communities.
One of the pivotal discussions centres on the concept of **Slowing Down in Urgency**. Lorie elucidates the value of slowing down when faced with urgent and high-tension situations. This technique not only brings ease but also aids in maintaining balance, ultimately contributing to more effective conflict resolution and personal peace.
Lorie also invites our listeners to connect with her physically in Portugal, or digitally via her websites, claimingeachother.org and somasantum.org, and through her active social media presence. Furthermore, she is launching the spring cohorts for “Claiming Each Other Somatic First Aid Training,” a globally accessible 12-week course accredited by the UK Complimentary Medical Association.
During our conversation, we highlighted fascinating research connecting political views to brain structure. Self-identified conservatives, with their larger amygdalas, may experience heightened fight or flight responses, whereas liberals, engaging the insula more, can better manage complexity. Lorie offers a unique somatic perspective to understand these tendencies without passing moral judgment, encouraging listeners to view these insights through a compassionate and inclusive lens.
A significant portion of our discussion also revolves around **self-awareness and understanding oneself through the perspectives of loved ones**, especially in moments of loneliness or disconnection. Lorie candidly discusses how loneliness can breed resentment, hostility, and conflicts due to lack of connection, touching upon the importance of relational repair and the skills needed to connect, even imperfectly.
Through the Somatic First Aid Protocol, particularly the technique called "claim us," Lorie explains how one can maintain care for all parties involved in a conflict. The process includes an initial step to "connect to love," which might be as simple as physically leaning back to engage a different part of the nervous system, opening up new possibilities beyond the immediate tension.
Lorie's deep connection to her American Indian (indigenous American) and multifaceted cultural heritage informs much of her work. She discusses decolonisation and reindigenization—reconnecting to ancestral knowledge and landscapes—as essential to understanding broader contexts of conflict and healing. These practices contribute significantly to Culture Change by fostering a deeper understanding and respect for diverse cultural narratives.
Joanne Lockwood shares her reflections, expressing envy towards Lorie's profound connection to lineage, which brings into focus the sometimes stark disconnect from history some individuals feel. This includes a discussion on how being part of a majority group might obscure the importance of protecting cultural and historical heritage, contrasted with the keen sense of protection felt within queer communities owing to societal oppression.
The episode doesn't shy away from addressing current and impactful societal issues such as the pandemic, Me Too, and Black Lives Matter movements, illustrating how these have led to conflicts within relationships and communities. Through these discussions, Lorie underscores the importance of engaging with diverse perspectives empathetically and respectfully, a key tenet of bringing about Culture Change.
In wrapping up, we delve into the emotional vs. logical responses in conflicts. Lorie advocates respecting the emotional content within conflicts as a new way to navigate through them successfully. This ties back to the broader theme of Positive People Experiences by aligning our actions with our values and recognising the mind-body integration essential for authenticity and agency.
This episode offers actionable insights, grounded theory, and real-life applications to foster inclusive cultures and nurture belonging. Whether dealing with immediate conflict or contemplating larger societal issues, "Claiming Each Other" provides a rich tapestry of strategies and perspectives to usher in a more inclusive and connected world.
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#### Closing Summary and Call to Action:
As we reach the end of this enlightening episode, let’s summarise the key learning points and actionable insights that you can integrate into your life and work to foster Culture Change and Positive People Experiences:
1. **Acknowledging the Power of Slowing Down**: In urgent situations, consider grounding yourself by slowing down. This technique brings ease and helps maintain balance, preventing escalation of tensions.
2. **Connect with Lorie Solis**: Lorie invites you to connect through her websites and social media, and consider joining her spring cohort for the “Claiming Each Other Somatic First Aid Training.” This 12-week course is designed to equip you with vital skills to handle conflicts and emergencies with compassion and efficacy.
3. **Understand the Brain's Role in Political Views**: Reflect on the research linking brain structure to political views, and use this understanding to approach conflicts with empathy, recognising the underlying neurobiological responses.
4. **Relational Repair and Conflict Management**: Embrace the importance of relational repair. Conflicts are inevitable but can be opportunities for growth and deeper connections when managed with care and understanding.
5. **Implement the Somatic First Aid Protocol**: Practise the "claim us" technique by starting with "connect to love." Physically leaning back to engage different parts of your nervous system can open up new, constructive ways to handle conflicts.
6. **Reflect on Your Ancestral Connections**: Engage with your heritage and lineage. Whether you feel a strong connection or a sense of disconnect, exploring your roots can provide greater understanding and resilience.
7. **Decolonisation and Reindigenization**: Consider how decolonisation and reindigenization practices can contribute to broader societal healing. Recognising and reconnecting with indigenous landscapes and wisdom is crucial for Culture Change.
8. **Find Joy in Authenticity**: Reflect on the concept of ikigai and find personal joy by aligning your actions with your intrinsic values. Recognising societal pressures and consciously deviating from unfulfilling paths is a step towards personal and collective healing.
9. **Engage with Complex Identity Narratives**: Dive deep into the complexities of identity and cultural lineage. Approach these conversations with curiosity and respect for boundaries, fostering a richer understanding of self and others.
10. **Community Building and Handling Loneliness**: Recognise that loneliness is a feeling, but interconnectedness is intrinsic to human existence. Build and engage with communities, utilising somatic practices to handle feelings of isolation constructively.
Every episode of "The Inclusion Bites Podcast" is a step towards transforming our collective understanding and approaches to inclusivity. As Joanne Lockwood, I urge you to not only listen but take these insights into your daily life, fostering environments where everyone feels seen, heard, and valued.
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#### Outro:
Thank you for tuning in to this episode of "The Inclusion Bites Podcast." Your engagement and curiosity are what drive these essential conversations. Be sure to like and subscribe to our channel for more insights on inclusion and belonging. For more information on SEE Change Happen and additional episodes, visit our website at [https://seechangehappen.co.uk](https://seechangehappen.co.uk).
Stay curious, stay kind, and stay inclusive - Joanne Lockwood