The Building Heroes Podcast - #109: How to face homeschooling challenges

🔖 Titles

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1. Homeschooling: Connection over Efficiency 2. The Tension of Going Against Cultural Norms in Homeschooling 3. Building Character: Teaching Children through Action 4. Living Your Convictions: The Homeschooling Journey 5. Finding Freedom and Progress in Homeschooling 6. Homeschooling: Breaking away from Standardization 7. Overcoming Homeschooling Guilt 8. The Fear of Falling Behind in Homeschooling 9. The Hero's Journey of Born Learners 10. Homeschooling Mindset Shift: Putting Together the Puzzle

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homeschooling, connection, individualization, efficiency, routine tasks, public school, building character, pressure, support, community, born learner, factory model of education, guilt, reflection, awareness, growth mindset, perfectionism, child learning, fear of falling behind, FOMO, isolation, boundaries, hero's journey, non-speaking autistic child, acceptance, challenge, vision, de-schooling, mindset shift, Type A personalities, born learners

💡 Speaker bios

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Laura Swain is a homeschool mom of four children aged 5 to 10, living in Southwest Ohio. She recently moved onto a bit of acreage and is working on becoming an aspiring homesteader, although she admits that they're at stage zero of that journey. Laura and her family spend a lot of time outdoors, and they are currently figuring out the garden stuff and planning to add some animals in the future. Fortunately, they have some amazing neighbors who are showing them the ropes, making the learning process much smoother.

ℹ️ Introduction

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On this episode of The Building Heroes Podcast, we explore the idea that children are not distractions but actually the whole point of homeschooling. Our guest, Laura Swain, shares her insights on why the factory-style homeschooling approach doesn't work and explains how a mindset shift is needed for parents to connect with their children and cultivate their innate curiosity instead of focusing on efficiency and standardization. She also talks about handling guilt and pressure, finding a supportive community, embracing the hero's journey, and offers practical tools such as a free de-schooling guide and a Type A checklist. Whether you're a homeschooling parent or just interested in alternative education, this episode will inspire you to rethink your beliefs and actions.

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01:41 Countryside move requires patience and gardening passion.

04:56 "Parental worry: good and bad tendency"

09:32 Building character through homeschooling challenges.

11:40 Recovering perfectionist homeschools children, changes mindset.

18:05 Leaving the school model for something different.

20:43 Beach vacation, first time kids saw ocean.

27:02 Fear of falling behind due to FOMO.

33:35 Moms struggle with guilt and FOMO.

37:53 "Acceptance and vision lead to growth."

41:58 Help with mindset shift for homeschool moms.

44:02 Freedom journey feels beautiful, appreciate you.

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Episode Summary: How Homeschooling Can Shape Connection, Education, and Growth
- Homeschooling as Connection and Individualization - The Faults of Factory-Style Homeschooling and Its Focus on Efficiency - The Importance of the Mindset Shift in Homeschooling - Challenges in Building Character Through Homeschooling - Laura Swain's Excerpt on Overcoming Guilt, Perseverance, and Challenges in Homeschooling - Overcoming Pressure and Fear in Homeschooling - Laura Swain's Personal Journey and Insights on Boundaries, Growth, and Acceptance - Mindset Shifts in Homeschooling and Laura Swain's Free Deschooling Guide
Key Takeaways:
- Children are born learners with natural curiosity and parents can cultivate that through homeschooling. - Standardized efficiency should not be the priority in homeschooling as it can lead to missing out on organic moments and connections. - Building character through homeschooling requires a mindset shift and parents need to connect with their children and cannot homeschool like a public school. - Guilt is normal in the homeschooling journey, but it's important to use it as a teaching and learning opportunity for children. - Homeschoolers can relieve the pressure of standardization by finding a supportive community of like-minded people. - Laura Swain's journey is an inspiring example of overcoming challenges, guilt, and self-doubt while prioritizing what matters most in homeschooling. - Holding seemingly opposite values, such as accepting and challenging a child with special needs, can lead to growth and progress. - Mindset shifts in homeschooling require time, effort, and the willingness to put together a puzzle. - Laura Swain offers a free de-schooling guide to help pull out old beliefs and replace them with new ones.

🎞️ Clipfinder: Quotes, Hooks, & Timestamps

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Laura Swain 00:01:41 00:02:58

Living on a Farm: "So we're just taking it bit by bit. And I've just been enjoying like I think my favorite time of the year is spring now as an adult, because I love seeing green things coming up."

Laura Swain 00:08:09 00:09:32

The Importance of Perseverance: "Yeah, I think that's true of most of our convictions that we hold dear. It's so much simpler to say we believe them than to live like we believe them."

Laura Swain 00:11:40 00:15:37

The Flaws of a Factory Model of Education: "My kids are born learners that have, that came into this world with this, like, inborn desire to explore and discover and grow, that that, like, that's something that's already in them, then that changes everything."

Laura Swain 00:18:05 00:20:41

The Importance of Finding a Homeschooling Community: "The best way to fortify your mindset and resolve against, um, this culture that you're deciding not to partake in is to find other people who are doing the same thing."

Laura Swain 00:20:43 00:23:24

The Importance of Community: "Partnering with friends or mentors or investing in a tight knit community is an amazing way to protect your heart and mind in this world and say, yes, every day, even though it's hard and the world might tell me I'm wrong, I'm gonna choose this born learner mindset."

Laura Swain 00:24:31 00:25:38

Trusting Your Curiosity: "It starts with that curiosity and like listening to that curiosity and really taking time and like, I guess, energy to dig into those questions."

Laura Swain 00:27:02 00:32:18

The Lessons of FOMO: "...always looking around frantically for like what other people's decisions are because of FOMO is not just a distraction, but it's going to harm my family."

Laura Swain 00:35:41 00:37:30

Guilt in Homeschooling: "Maybe the second step in your maturity might be in your journey with this might be to feel guilt about the guilt. And that happens too when you, but, but I think that, um, it's, it's a good thing to recognize the guilt. It doesn't mean that you're doing it wrong or that you're bad because like you said, even seasoned homeschoolers like you, Molly will have, will bump up against it from time to time."

Laura Swain 00:37:53 00:40:16

Holding Two Seemingly Opposite Values: "The more comfortable we get with this, like holding 2 things that seem like the opposite. For example, my 1 of my close friends is a homeschool mom and she has a child with autism who's non speaking, and he's experiencing some incredible growth with this method of communication she's learning to teach him."

Laura Swain 00:41:58 00:43:50

De-schooling Made Simple: "I love helping people systematically pull out old beliefs by the root and replace them... with those beautiful flower seeds that you want instead." - Laura Swain

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Hey there, entrepreneurs! In my latest podcast episode, we talked about the power of homeschooling and why children are not distractions, but the whole point of it. We debunked the factory-style homeschooling model and how it lacks individualization and connection. Instead, we should focus on improving routines and building character in our children. But homeschooling isn't easy and we can fall victim to guilt and perfectionism. That's why we need to shift our mindsets and connect with supportive communities. Our journey may be complex, but it leads to growth and progress. So, let's seize this season and learn from it. Check out my latest episode for more tips and tricks on the hero's journey of born learners. #homeschooling #entrepreneurs #herosjourney #podcast

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In the latest episode of The Building Heroes Podcast, Laura Swain shares her insights on homeschooling and the hero's journey of born learners. Here are three key takeaways for you: - Homeschooling is not about treating children as distractions but about connecting with them and individualizing their education. - Homeschooling should not mimic the factory model of education, which prioritizes efficiency and standardization over connection and individualization. - It's important to have a supportive community of like-minded people to navigate the challenges of homeschooling and going against cultural norms. Check out the full episode for more valuable insights and don't forget to follow Laura Swain on Facebook and Instagram at learn with Laura Swain for more homeschooling tips.

🗞️ Newsletter

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Dear homeschooling community, We hope this email finds you well in your homeschooling journey. In our latest episode, we explored the idea that efficiency should be applied to routine tasks, not all aspects of homeschooling. We discussed the pitfalls of the factory-style homeschooling model and the importance of connection with our children. We also delved into the challenges that come with homeschooling and how the pressure to perform perfectly can affect mothers. We were delighted to hear from Laura Swain, a recovering perfectionist who has found her way on the homeschooling journey. Laura shared her insights on how homeschoolers often face guilt and fear of missing out on a traditional school experience. She provided valuable advice on how to shift one's mindset and make the most of this journey, emphasizing the importance of recognizing one's limitations, accepting challenges, and focusing on what truly matters. Laura has a free de-schooling guide and a checklist for type-A personalities to help make the transition to a new mindset easier. We urge you to check out her website deschoolingmadesimple.com and follow her on social media at learn with Laura Swain. As always, we hope our episode and Laura's insights provide you with value and support in your homeschooling journey. Remember, you're not alone, and there is a supportive community out there who understands the challenges you face. Best regards, [Your Name]

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1/ Homeschooling is not just about avoiding distractions or getting things done efficiently. It's about connecting with your children on a deeper level and fostering their innate curiosity and love of learning. 2/ The factory model of education that dominates public schools is not designed for connection or individualization. Homeschooling parents need to shift their mindset and approach education in a new way that nurtures their child's natural learning abilities. 3/ Homeschooling can be challenging, especially when it comes to building character and teaching values. Parents can feel pressure to perform perfectly and prove that homeschooling is better than other options. But support and community can make a difference. 4/ Laura Swain, a former public school teacher and recovering perfectionist, helps homeschooling parents make the transition to a new and more effective mindset. She believes that homeschooling is about following the hero's journey and letting go of old beliefs. 5/ Laura Swain offers a step-by-step de-schooling guide to help homeschooling parents systematically replace old beliefs with new ones. She also helps Type A personalities make the transition and move forward with a new mindset. 6/ When we recognize the gap between our beliefs and actions, we feel tension. But this is a symptom of growth and can lead to progress on the homeschooling journey. It's important to work through challenges and push ourselves to propel forward.

❓ Questions

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1. How does Laura Swain's perspective on homeschooling differ from the factory model of education? 2. In what ways do parents feel pressured to perform and make their children learn perfectly to prove that homeschooling is better than the alternative? 3. How can homeschool parents use the tension between their beliefs and actions as opportunities for growth and progress? 4. Why is it important for homeschool parents to avoid using the factory model of education and instead focus on individualization and connection with their children? 5. How can a homeschool parent balance routine tasks with organic moments and connections? 6. What can supportive communities do to help homeschool parents who are feeling isolated or overwhelmed? 7. How can homeschool parents effectively deal with feelings of guilt when they believe they aren't meeting their educational goals? 8. Can seemingly opposite values, such as acceptance and challenge or vision, lead to growth and progress in homeschooling? If so, how? 9. How can a type-A personality homeschool parent undergo a mindset shift and have a healthier approach to their children's education? 10. What benefits will homeschool parents gain if they accept the complexities of their journey, rather than seeking out simple solutions or immediate gratification?

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