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The Inclusion Bites Podcast

Brave Learning, Bold Leadership

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Pippa O'Brien

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Joanne Lockwood

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00:00 Understanding Diverse Life Scenarios 06:21 Immersive Learning Programme Design 07:34 "Challenging Generational and Gender Biases" 13:13 Embracing Flexible Remote Work 14:07 Flexible Work: Trust and Leadership 17:46 Stifling Innovation with Whack-a-Mole 21:06 "Politicians' Post-Election Revelations" 25:36 "Trans Visibility and Misunderstandings" 29:26 Challenging Stereotypes and Banter 30:41 Addressing Casual Racism…

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“So what we designed was a programme where from the moment they arrived they were immersed into a real life drama, if you want to call it that. We had the characters in the drama welcoming them.”
— Pippa O'Brien
“Challenging Biases "as individuals and as human beings we're always looking to confirm biases unless we actively are challenged on them.”
— Pippa O'Brien
“But the second thing that happens is this person becomes enlightened. Their change in them is far greater than the change in people who actually get it.”
— Joanne Lockwood
“The Demographic Divide in Return-to-Office Mindsets: "And actually, when you look at them, there's a certain demographic that says that, and typically they would be male, white, probably over 50 now.”
— Pippa O'Brien
“Rethinking Company Culture After the Pandemic: "What you're trying to do me is exchange culture for commute is what you're saying. You give me, I commute for you and then you give me a culture. And I said, now, hang on a minute. I want my culture, like my pension. It's a personal pension, I could take it anywhere.”
— Joanne Lockwood

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Pippa O'Brien

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Joanne Lockwood

Welcome to Inclusion Bites, your sanctuary for bold conversations that spark change. I'm Joanne Lockwood, your guide on this journey of exploration into the heart of inclusion, belonging and societal transformation. Ever wondered what it truly takes to create a world? Remember, everyone not only belongs, but thrives. You're not alone. Join me as we uncover the unseen, challenge the status quo and share stories that resonate deep within.

Joanne Lockwood

Ready to dive in?

Joanne Lockwood

Whether you're sipping your morning coffee or winding down after a long day, let's connect, reflect and inspire action together. Don't forget, you can be part of the conversation too. Reach out to jo.lockwood@seechangehappen.co.uk to share your insights or to join me on the show. So adjust your earbuds and settle in. It's time to ignite the spark of inclusion with Inclusion Bites.

Joanne Lockwood

And today is episode 175 with the title Brave Learning, Bold Leadership. And I have the absolute honour and privilege to welcome Pippa O'Brien. Pippa is a learning innovator and founder of Proda, transforming how frontline teams experience inclusion through immersive drama and authentic conversations. And when I asked Pippa to describe her superpower, she said, it is turning everyday people into empowered learners to through real world storytelling. Hello, Pippa. Welcome to the show.

Pippa O'Brien

Thank you so much for inviting me. I feel really privileged and honoured to be the guest on episode 175. I'm in very safe hands, clearly. And looking at your nails, I think beautifully manicured. Safe hands as well. Mine are under the table for a reason. Not so manicured. Right? Beautiful.

Joanne Lockwood

Oh, thank you. We met probably 18 months ago. Must be to work with Tallis, wasn't it? We did a storytelling. I was one of your protagonists in a story, wasn't I?

Pippa O'Brien

Yes, definitely. And then we took that input and we used it for some drama where we showcased what allyship should and could look like and involved the learners in feeding lines to the actors so they could be really fully immersed and involved in the story as well.

Joanne Lockwood

Well, yeah, and it was all around transgender inclusion, if I remember rightly, with. And my wife Marie was involved and we. We did a kind of a dual perspective on workplace and how she felt and how I felt, which is quite powerful, wasn't it?

Pippa O'Brien

It was really powerful. And I think one of the lessons that that organisation took from that session was, yes, it could be transgender, it could be any other situation that somebody is facing in their life and that there's no playbook out there that covers every possible scenario that could be going on. In somebody's life. And actually the using your and Marie's story, if you like, to set the scene was so powerful and really thought provoking. And then in the drama we flipped it and we had the actor from memory. The scenario that I'd written was a gay couple where one of the members of the one partner in that partnership was wanted to transition. That was the way that we flipped it. And actually you never know what's going on for people.

Pippa O'Brien

People show up for work, they do the best that they can in the moment and what's under the surface is like this massive iceberg that you just don't see. But it comes out through people's behaviour. It's what they say and what they do that gives clues to what's going on to the surface. And quite often that's the time when somebody needs to reach out and say, when what's happening? Tell me. And doing so from a position of where there's trust between the two people and the leadership behaviour then is really around not just trust, but the integrity piece as well. Like, I need you to trust me and I'm going to trust you, but actually I need you to treat that information with integrity and be there to support me as a person. Really, that's. That's kind of the message that I wanted to come out from that session.

Joanne Lockwood

Because we hear that lived experience talking and stories are really, really powerful. And they are, yeah. But in my experience, the learning doesn't always occur. I. I don't go and watch a Netflix or go to the cinema and hear these powerful stories, whether they're real drama or interpreted, and always take learning away from them. So what we're going to try and do is take a two dimensional story and create rumination, creating firing points in our brains. And that's where the experiential, the storytelling with interaction kicks in, isn't it?

Pippa O'Brien

Totally. And that's really what we've done with a programme that we've been running quite recently. And this is, this is something that was really a little bit of a. Well, I'm going to suggest this, this is a bit out there, if you know what I mean. And I was really expecting the client to come back and go, oh, no, that's. Well, we couldn't do that. And actually they didn't. They went, okay, let's do it.

Pippa O'Brien

And I was okay. So a bit surprised, but also really honoured that they had trusted me to do a great job for them. And not just me, but my whole team, the whole team here at Poda and though their population and workforce, although there's a number of them who are really highly qualified professionals, the bulk of their workforce is people who are really skilled but they're manual workers. So they do manual work outside in all weathers. That's pretty unpleasant at times. I'll be honest. The average reading age for a lot of these operatives is 11. Age 11.

Pippa O'Brien

So when I was designing something I had to be really mindful that for whatever reason they had this lower literacy level but that could be caused by a number of different reasons. But whatever for, but for whatever reason school had failed them in some way or another or education had failed them. So putting them in a classroom environment with. And here's slide 199 which just describes the Equality act of 2010 probably wasn't going to be the real way forward for this audience. So what we designed was a programme where from the moment they arrived they were immersed into a real life drama, if you want to call it that. We had the characters in the drama welcoming them. Oh dear, my words got a little bit mumbled up there, mumbled up, inviting them and welcoming them and I still can't say it, welcoming them to the session and then allowing them to observe a meeting where there was some extremes of opinion being expressed. Okay.

Pippa O'Brien

And what we asked them to do was just listen and then talk about it afterwards. Okay, so what did they notice? What behaviours did they notice, what words did they hear and what did that mean for them? So how did that resonate with them and their own personal experiences. So the lived experiences then came from within the room as much as anything. And we, we really wanted people who were maybe of a generation, I think Gen Z, I think is a, is a, is one way to describe them, to talk about how people have made assumptions about them and what they were capable of based on their age. We wanted people to talk about gender. We wanted to talk about people who had and really explore a whole range of labels really which that people give other people that are really, that are really about bias, aren't they? You know, there's, there's nothing else to describe it. Oh, there are this, there are that, that's a label and actually the label is the bias and it can be positive or not so positive. But equally there's something here around challenging those biases and really reminding people that actually as individuals and as human beings we're always looking to confirm biases unless we actively are challenged on them.

Pippa O'Brien

So the data that sticks is the data that confirms the biases that we already hold and the opinions that we already hold. So. And that's kind of linked to also. And then with these people we were talking about, well why is that then? And they were talking about, well, it's social media in it. You know, we had some great discussions around social media, the role of the press and then moving into allyship and how to challenge and how to challenge up. And we used our drama team to role play like a more senior member of staff and then how they could challenge that in a way that was going to be non threatening for them individually. And we had some great outcomes from that. Really great, some really great conversations.

Pippa O'Brien

You've got some people that go, no, he's right, he's wrong and that was it. But everybody else in the room was saying, you don't think that, do you? Well, yes, I do. And that's great because you're bringing it all out into the open in one go. The only way we could do that was to create a really safe environment where people felt they could genuinely say what they believe and to be prepared to be challenged by other people in a way that was appropriate. Okay, yeah, we're really pleased with that one. It landed well. And you can see from my face that we actually really enjoy doing it as well. And I'm doing it this week for a company down in Winchester.

Pippa O'Brien

So I'm quite excited about that. It's one that I love doing.

Joanne Lockwood

Yeah, I found, you know, I've run a lot of training sessions on inclusive recruitment. Inclusive best practise, whatever it may be. And sometimes you walk into the room and you can see people with their arms folded. You know, I don't want to be here. This is all a bunch of woke nonsense. And they have that face on, don't they? And then you do the introductions in a room.

Pippa O'Brien

Yeah.

Joanne Lockwood

And I said, what are you hoping to get out today? And this person's always kind of making some sort of remark about whatever because I have to be whatever and. But I find that those people do two things. One is they enlighten the rest of the room as to the importance of why we're here today. Because they're doing my job there. They're saying, well, I haven't got to say the anti pushback on this. There's already that person's in the room. But the second thing that happens is this person becomes enlightened. Their change in them is far greater than the change in people who actually get it.

Joanne Lockwood

So I always come at the end of it. I've had these people come out to me or at the end of the day, so what have we got out of it? Oh, I've seen a new perspective and I never really thought about this. And it's like, you think, wow, I've made a immeasurable difference in this one person. My job is done. Everybody else got it already. All I've done is nudge them a bit. This person here went from being uninformed to being embracing it. You think, wow, how powerful is that? And I think that's what frustrates me.

Joanne Lockwood

Sometimes when we have these conversations, we always end up with the echo chamber in the room, not the people who should be in the room, but who aren't. Do you find it's easier to get people in the room when you're doing the storytelling and this is role playing, than it would be through traditional training?

Pippa O'Brien

100%. And that's regardless of the organisational level, if you like, it's just as powerful at exec level. For example, if we were looking at a DEI programme, then we would start at the top, obviously, and really explore, well, why is this so important? But with that team, and then obviously bring in some data at that point. But also, more importantly, do something around allyship, because that's their role, that's what they should be doing every single day, is being the ally for people in their organisation and making sure that their organisations reflect the communities and the organisations that they serve as well. And when I see so many people who. I'm going to use example here of back to the office, you know, going back to the office and you hear so many people at exec level that are saying, everybody should work from the office. This is, you know, the people. And actually, when you look at them, there's a certain demographic that says that, and typically they would be male, white, probably over 50 now.

Pippa O'Brien

Yes. For them, I'm sure that going to the office is structure, it's routine. And then when they get home, there's somebody who's made sure that their shirts are ready for the next day, that they've got everything that they need to be for them to be successful, if you see what I mean, on the.

Joanne Lockwood

Table, the kids are looked after.

Pippa O'Brien

Yeah.

Joanne Lockwood

The cat has been fed everything else.

Pippa O'Brien

Yeah, yeah, you're right. And when you. When you look at people who, during lockdown, who were loving it, were the people who had that flexibility of being able to. To do a bit of work, look after their children, be the best person that they could be for their families, do things like the school pickup and the things that they just didn't have a chance to do. And I did a bit of research for a company at the back end of lockdown around whether going back to work was, was really the way to go, or whether they could actually consider closing down some of their sites and going to a fully remote model, but with some hubs where go for meetings, you know, face to face meetings if needed. I ran some focus groups for them and universally there was a demographic that was like, this is brilliant, I love this. I can get up, I can do two hours work, I get the kids packed, lunches in the bags, I get them to school, I come back, I do more. And it's.

Pippa O'Brien

For them, it was just what they've always needed and just what they've always needed to be able to be the best person that they can be at work and also the best person that they can be for their family as well. Surely that's what organisations need to ensure is available, is people to have the flexibility of what works for them, but also make sure that they are. They know how to manage people in a completely different environment. Because I think a lot of people tried to manage people as they always had done from home and it didn't work. So they've all got to come back to the office. Not what we do needs to change, but. Or the way that we do this needs to change, but let's just take away all the bits that work for a good percentage of the workforce and impose bits that don't work, you know, so it's like, for me, it's a real fundamental of flexibility, is that you trust people to do a great job, you explain the why and you're the leader that they need in order to be the best that they can be. It's quite simple in my opinion.

Joanne Lockwood

Yeah. When I was doing some events, some roundtable type discussions around the time where we were just about to take our face masks off on trains, you know, sort of that early stage, remember back in that time, back in that history, and I remember that lots of big companies were trying to sell their culture. We need to get you back in the office because we've got our culture, we've got our way of talking, we've got our way of being, we've got a fantastic culture, we want to. I took a step back and said, well, hang on a minute, what you're trying to do me is exchange culture for commute is what you're saying. You give me, I commute for you and then you give me a culture. And I said, now, hang on a minute. I want my culture, like my pension. It's a personal pension, I could take it anywhere.

Joanne Lockwood

So when I leave you, I take it with me and go somewhere else. So my personal culture, my family culture, my community culture should be first. And your culture is this something I borrow while I'm here. I have to like it, I have to fit in with it. But I would rather you encourage me to build community links, to co work in my local community to have more family time so that my culture is now my own. And we meet because your culture and my culture meet. But don't tell me that I have to have your culture because, yeah, you may have this belief that your culture is amazing, but actually my family is amazing, my friends are amazing, my hobbies and I want that time back. I don't want to give you two and a half hours of commute each direction because that's my time that I'm giving you for free.

Pippa O'Brien

100%. I completely agree with that. And I think that's where having values and actually within an organisation can bridge that gap. Because if you make values meaningful in people's daily behaviour in an organisation, that's one way of bridging the gap between the culture and like personal culture and organisational culture, if you want to call it that, because it's making sure that, for example, if you've got a innovation as a value, which a lot of organisations do, then if somebody asks a great idea, oh, I've got an idea, the hand goes out and then you get, no, that's not going to work. Or really. Or no, then it's. I would liken that to that whack a mole game. You know, that you get in the fun fair with the hammer and you get the little mole and you stick your chin up like that, that's my mole impression for the morning.

Pippa O'Brien

And then the manager's there with a hammer, whacking it down. After a while, that mole's going to go, I'm nice and warm and cosy in my hole. I'm not going to get up because if I stick my head up, I'm going to get whacked on the head with a hammer. So that whack a mole culture, where people say, oh, we believe in innovation. No, they don't. You've got. If somebody comes up with an idea, then you need to give it the airtime, explore it. It might not work in that circumstance, but you've got to be really clear with the person, why not? Rather than just that dismissal piece because the one idea that that little mole may have in the future, that could be the salvation of whatever, that you're never going to hear it because they're never going to tell you.

Pippa O'Brien

And that's what I mean about living values and bringing values to life.

Joanne Lockwood

Yeah, it's not always a bad idea. Because if you were to enlighten the person who came up with that thought that didn't work for whatever reason as to the reasons why right now it doesn't work, then they go, I get that now let me have small thinking.

Pippa O'Brien

Correct.

Joanne Lockwood

Because one person's thought isn't always one person's thought. A lot of people are often thinking the same thing. I mean, I look at what the government do and think that's crazy. Why are they doing that? I look at what's going on across the water in the States, I think that's crazy why they're doing that. Maybe there's information, I don't know, the media, the military, there's data, there's awareness, there's briefings that politicians have, there's big think tanks going on. And my bias says I know better because I'm more intelligent, I'm cleverer. That's not a bias I have. We all have that.

Joanne Lockwood

So we're almost saying, well, that they don't know what they're doing. They must be less intelligent than me. But we've got to accept that they have some good ideas as well. That I don't know is why they think that. And that's what I need to know if they tell me. Actually, Joe, the reason we're doing this, the reason we're invading that country and it looks to be a little bit one sided here, is because there's some threat intelligence that we see that you don't. Okay, now I get it. So if we listen to people's ideas and dismissing them, we need to give them the why.

Joanne Lockwood

Because if you tell me the why, I can challenge your why with, huh, how about this? And maybe that's what people don't want. They don't want the debate, do they?

Pippa O'Brien

They don't want the debate. And I think also there's this I know better than you syndrome as well, which goes back to trust. And I think, I think I know nothing about government, please, but accept what I see and hear and read like everybody else. But equally what I do know is I struggle to trust people that don't do what they say they're going to do. And if, if you want people to, to accept what you say because you know facts and information that can't be revealed, whether that's within an organisation or. Or nationally or internationally. Globally. You have to prove that you are trustworthy because why would you trust somebody that says one thing and then does something else? Okay, so it's around building a culture that's based on trust.

Pippa O'Brien

And then people might not like what you do. They may not fully understand the reasons, but if they trust that you are a leader with integrity, then they will go with it and they'll buy into it.

Joanne Lockwood

Because I think worse than being told there's a reason, I can't tell you. It's like, oh, so I'm not worthy of that. I'm aloof here. I've got stuff you don't know. So I guess sometimes you can't be told that you don't know something you don't know. It's trying to sell that, as you say in a trust. I look at the government in opposition or the potential government, all the politicians sit there going, making these really wacky statements about, oh, yeah, we cut this, we do this and we do that. When they get into power, they go, actually, now, now we've got the books open, we see the data.

Joanne Lockwood

Actually, we know we can't now, but we can't say we didn't. Yeah, yeah, we can't tell.

Pippa O'Brien

That's really difficult as well. And I think often when you look at. When you observe, think, particularly the UK Parliament, I find it's not about debate, it's just about mudslinging and almost playground behaviours as well, which I think devalues the whole process. There's no. There's no structured debate. It's just who can slag the other party off with the greatest panache in the moment. You know, it's like, it's point scoring but not real points, if. If you see what I mean, it's not about the topic, it's about.

Pippa O'Brien

It's about visibility. That's my perception.

Joanne Lockwood

Public school debate society of the past, isn't it?

Pippa O'Brien

Yeah, yeah, it is.

Joanne Lockwood

And it's. And I think our media don't help either. The media, the mainstream media, social media, they like this polarisation because polarisation creates tribes. Tribes create revenue and advertising and clicks and discussions and people get fired up because unless we have emotion attached to a thought, it doesn't happen, does it? You know, we have to. Negative or positive emotions, they mean. He knows that negative emotions are stronger than positive emotions. So it drives. It drives engagement.

Pippa O'Brien

This is it. And if you look at a technique, say, like transactional analysis where you've got, you know, people that are behaving adult to adult, which is rational, listening, giving and giving. It doesn't make for great tv. Let's be fair. It's when you've got people who are acting as like the critical parent with the finger out or where you've got people who have been in child. I don't like this. That under foot stamping that's what makes for good watching. Anything in the middle ground is just.

Pippa O'Brien

Is sensible, rational and maybe not so appealing.

Joanne Lockwood

Yeah, there's a couple of. An author I quite enjoy reading is Ricker Bregman. He's done two books that I really found inspiring. One is Utopia for Realists which is a great read if you've not read it. Humankind. Humankind is. It's about analysing the human being and the human psyche. It really summed up the whole idea of reality TV and what happens is in these scenarios, you know, who wants to be.

Joanne Lockwood

I'm sorry to get me out of here. Big Brother or Love Island. What they found was these would be very benign, very controlled. If you just put a group of people in the room, they'll get on largely they'll get on, they'll have a good time. They'll start forming little communes and Kumbaya and sitting around the campfire. You say not great telly. So what they have to do is they have to starve them. They have to put a.

Joanne Lockwood

A grenade in there like a. A. A rogue personality who's going to disrupt. They're gonna have to create a love interest, a power base, create a. Create a leader who has power that others don't like. Suddenly you've got. You've got this disrupted human environment that creates great telly and then so they have to prod the bear and the beast to make it. To make it interesting.

Joanne Lockwood

Otherwise people will just go so what we assume that people are antagonistic and aggressive towards each other, but that's manufactured by the media.

Pippa O'Brien

Agree. And I think in most cases I think yes and I think I would say that manufactured by the media. But I think in face to face, 100% I agree. I think the challenge comes now with social media where people say. Feel that they can say all sorts of chisel, which is a technical term, all sorts of chisel with. Under the COVID of. Of. Of being a keyboard warrior and they don't have to actually sit in front of somebody and say well I think this, that and the other because in the real life they wouldn't actually Risk that antagonistic behaviour because it could be risky for them.

Pippa O'Brien

It's the old who's the bigger dog in the pack type scenario. You know, they might get bitten back, but on a keyboard they can be as unpleasant as they wish.

Joanne Lockwood

Yeah, I mean, we're recording this on 31 March 2025, which is trans day of visibility. And as a, As a trans woman myself, I'm well aware that people have opinions against trans people in the whole. Not necessarily against me specifically, but against people like me. But there's no accountability to those views and often it's born out of tropes around, oh, we're protecting women and girls, or it's just unnatural. It's like there's only two sexes. It says so in my biology book or the Bible or something. And people can go unrestrained, as you say, keyboard warriors, because there's no human at the end of their keyboard, it's electrons. And when people meet you face to face, they hear your story, they listen to you, it becomes powerful.

Joanne Lockwood

But again, as I said earlier, hearing a two dimensional story doesn't necessarily create change. You've actually got to have that engagement, the why? Fill my soul, fill my heart, feel my pain, feel my family for my wife's pain. And that's where what you're doing with stories and acting brings it out, doesn't it?

Pippa O'Brien

Sometimes I'm really humbled by little old me, and I mean that sincerely. Little. Well, not that little, but older me. It's people that can. I've written that and I've thought, oh, it might work, who knows? And then when we've done it, it's had such a powerful reaction and response and how people have. Teams have gone on to come up with safe words that they can use around the banter. I think when I'm working with some teams, they're terrified that they won't be able to, to, to have any banter at all. You know, that it's all got to be terribly polite from now on.

Pippa O'Brien

And of course, who doesn't like a bit of banter? We all like a bit of bance. And the line is flexible, the line's fluid. It depends who's there. It depends on how people are feeling that day. That's the big thing as well. And what else they've got going on in the background and how well you know each other, what you know about what's inside that iceberg for that person as well. And all of those factors influence people's banter tolerance, shall we say. I think that one of some of the work that we've done with those teams is around encouraging them to come up with a safe word that they can.

Pippa O'Brien

Anybody can use where on that day. I'm not feeling it. And it stops. Please. Okay. And that's it. That's full. Stop the band.

Pippa O'Brien

That's. No. No explanation needed. Not having a bad day, are we? Or anything like that. Okay. Oh, somebody's grumpy. None of that. It's just.

Pippa O'Brien

It just stops. And that's. That's it. Which is quite a healthy way to manage it, I think. It's where teams manage their own. Their own behaviour, if you like. They're accountable for their own behaviour in that way.

Joanne Lockwood

Wasn't it Roma S Ranganathan, the British comedian that tried to come up with the safe word of mate? You know, mate with a elongated 8 in the middle?

Pippa O'Brien

Yeah.

Joanne Lockwood

So when you hear your. Your mate say something inappropriate, you just go, mate. And that's a code word for, yeah, it's too far.

Pippa O'Brien

Yeah, you've gone too far. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Well, this. This one particular organisation I've been working with, they've gone with not cool. Oh, mate, that's not cool. And then it just stops. Okay, so you could have. Mate, that's not cool.

Pippa O'Brien

But you could even just say, not cool. And then that's it. Stop, stop, stops. So that's worked for them. Yeah.

Joanne Lockwood

Because none of us want to be the inclusion police. None of us. People have stopped talking. I'm 60 years old. I've. I've lived a pretty colourful life, both genders. And I'm not trying to say I'm perfect. I've got some high ground here of righteousness.

Joanne Lockwood

I'm a human. I. I laugh. I laugh at comedy. I call myself out sometimes, thinking, actually, no, that's not right. No, stop. Yeah, still funny. But no, it's not really funny.

Pippa O'Brien

And I think it's just there's so. I think the more we call ourselves out, and also I'm going to say appropriate or gently challenge other people as well, the more. The more human we can be about not being the police in this way. You know, the banter police or the inappropriateness. Please. And my husband Joey, who have been married to Jerry for six years now, I know he. I know he's Scottish and when he first came to London, he would often have people say, come on, Scotsman, get your hand in your pocket and buy us a drink. And that he found that really annoying because he's probably the most generous person you'd ever Meet.

Pippa O'Brien

Except when I think when you met him, Joanne, he came to your house and he ate all of your biscuits. So he does owe you at least a couple of the last biscuits.

Joanne Lockwood

He had the last biscuit on the plate.

Pippa O'Brien

I know. Which I couldn't believe. I was like, if I could have said, mate, I would have done then, right. But this happened Even recently, in 2024, probably just before Christmas. He was in our local pub and somebody who we'd never met before, who came in as a guest, you know, with somebody else that he did know, said, oh, let the Scotsman get the drink, get his hand in his pocket. And it's like Jerry came home and he went. I said, well, what did you say to him? And he said, well, I didn't say anything. I said, you.

Pippa O'Brien

If you don't challenge that, people will continue to do it. So it's around how you challenge and it's kind of like, oh, that's a bit of a, you know, casual racism going on there, isn't it, or something like that. Or, oh, I can hear a stereotype, can't I? So how you do it is the thing. And not getting on your. I think. Not getting on your high horse. I think in the moment, people may not go, oh, you're so right, I'm so sorry, you know, or, oh, my bad. But they might think about it afterwards.

Pippa O'Brien

That's. And it goes. They may. May reflect on it afterwards and go, yeah, maybe. Maybe that's not appropriate, really. But if we don't say anything, then nothing's going to change.

Joanne Lockwood

Yeah. And I think also, as someone on the receiving end, I have to put a little bit of a buffer between my hearing and reaction, because I was. Happened to me yesterday, I think. Well, no, I was in Asda's. Asda's shopping. There are other supermarkets available, obviously. And a man came around the corner and he kind of bumped into me a little bit and said, sorry, mate. And I just thought.

Joanne Lockwood

I was about to react because I really detest the word mate being used to me. Yeah. You wouldn't call my wife mate if you do with me. I thought. I didn't say anything because I thought, hang on a minute. There are some people who call everybody mate. It's just their default.

Pippa O'Brien

My husband does, I'm afraid.

Joanne Lockwood

Yeah. And so I just thought, whatever. I'm not going to take it as some personal offence. And some people do it. You could tell. Some people do it deliberately.

Pippa O'Brien

Yeah.

Joanne Lockwood

But I've had ice cream salesman give me an ice cream. I said, there you go, mate. Really? Will, you said that to my. I sent my wife to the ice cream once, Marie, who you've met, and he called her love. And I said, yeah, that's right, yeah, he calls you love, he calls me mate. So next time I said, I prefer you called me love next time, if that's okay. And he went, oh, sorry, love. And I go back and, you know, we have a good chat and a good bit of banter.

Joanne Lockwood

So sometimes that friendly calling it in rather than aggressively calling it out, you win hearts and minds over, don't you? Because nobody wants to be told they're a bad person or imply they're a bad person because they're not. They're just misguided, misunderstood, not reacting. Their bias has kicked in and suddenly they say something and I think nobody wants to be shot down in flames for. Yeah, obviously, if they're repeatedly in the context or they're malicious weaponizing it.

Pippa O'Brien

Yeah, I think, I think most people, if they understand it's accepting and they are accepting, I think being, having empathy for them in that moment that they. You don't want them to feel really bad, but equally you don't want them to carry on with that behaviour is the way to go. So it's around as you, as you sort of beautifully described it, it's being quite gentle about it as well, like now.

Joanne Lockwood

Yeah, but I will remember the negatives, you know, we talked about negatives, emotions being stronger. But the number of times I get people bump into me, I'll say, oh, sorry, love, are you okay? And. Or love, can I help you with your case? Up those stairs I go, yeah, sure, please go. Go for it. Go.

Pippa O'Brien

Yeah, yeah, yeah. No one does that for me, Joe, or telling you. So you've obviously got something going on then.

Joanne Lockwood

Yeah, well, I look quite helpless sometimes on the underground with laptop bags and cases and things. And sometimes people go, they take pity on me. I go, come on, then.

Pippa O'Brien

And there are good people around still. You know, I think, I think you're right about. It's that confirmation bias place piece. You know what I was. I always use the analogy of the labels when we're talking about how we have bias about others. And one of the examples that I use quite often is about drivers and cars and it was always, it's the car, not the driver. It's interesting when you talk about it because it's, oh, it's Audis that, that cut me up. It's not the person driving the Audi or it's up flipping BMWs.

Pippa O'Brien

Right. And then of course, now it's Tesla's, but there's all sorts of reasons for that as well. But there you are. But it's got nothing. But I completely miss all the times when an Audi might flash me out a junction or an Audi driver might flash me out at a junction that goes. Because it doesn't fit the buys that I already hold about that particular group of people. So it doesn't fit.

Joanne Lockwood

But sometimes you play to the stereotype. I mean, I've. I've got Mercedes at the moment. I've had BMWs in the past and Audis in the past. I remember, I think that's when I had my 4 Series BMW. I parked it and I wasn't quite in the space. Marie said to me, don't you. Yeah, you're not quite in the middle space.

Joanne Lockwood

I said, that's why it's a BMW. People don't expect me to park correctly anyway. So I left it there. It's like. So I played that stereotype and maybe other BMW drivers cut people up and go, it's all right, it's a BMW. The indicators don't work.

Pippa O'Brien

They don't have indicators on a BMW. Yeah, I've just. Yeah, just found that out. Yeah.

Joanne Lockwood

So you started life as a chef?

Pippa O'Brien

I did.

Joanne Lockwood

So. So what was the ambition to be a chef? Was it a.

Pippa O'Brien

Okay.

Joanne Lockwood

I think that.

Pippa O'Brien

Well, in those. Let's rewind a little bit because actually I had. I was. As a young person, I didn't have the best start. I'm going to say that I think one of my real challenges today even is a massive imposter syndrome that sits around me because as a youngster I was repeatedly told, you're rubbish, you're useless, you'll never be any good at that. So that was kind of the bad side. On a good day, nothing was said. Okay.

Pippa O'Brien

So there was no positive affirmation. I didn't really feel comfortable at school at all. And that resulted in me not really applying myself and having been told that you're useless then if you don't do well, it kind of reaffirms the belief system that you have. Well, what do I expect? You know, of course I'm going to leave with a handful of nothing because everybody told me that I wasn't going to amount to anything. So, you know, that's kind of what I expected. I loved cooking, I still love cooking. So I started as a chef and in those days it was really rare for women to be in the kitchen. It was very male dominated and I do Remember once we had a new head chef come into the kitchen and I was standing facing the stove to have my back to the pass and he came in, he went, you get your flipping haircut.

Pippa O'Brien

All right, lad, get. You know, and it's. So there was an assumption that everyone in the. Oi, you lad, get your flipping haircut. And that was it. So there was an assumption that everyone in there was male. I had to be tougher, harder, stronger, work longer hours, be generally deal with a lot of really difficult banter as well in that environment. I think I loved it.

Pippa O'Brien

I love the challenge of it. I love the Friton that you get from. You've got so many. You've got to get this out, you've got to get that done. And you're juggling a lot of things at the same time in a hugely pressurised environment. And it's got to be really well done. And I don't mean that steak had to be really well done. I mean, you know, it's gotta be professionally produced.

Pippa O'Brien

It's incredibly. It takes an incredible toll on your social life. And I think as a youngster I was then working five and a half day week and then I had Sunday afternoons and Mondays off and Monday was my college day. So that meant that actually you don't have any time off at all, which is quite hard work, quite hard for a youngster. I made a sort of transition into working more in hotel management, but I couldn't really get that far because I didn't really have great qualifications. I then worked for when after I met Geri, who became my husband, working shifts wasn't really working for me. And so I had the opportunity to work for quite a big, well known company in the UK as a facilities manager. If you can run a hotel, you can run a couple of buildings with one hand tied behind your back because it's not a 24 hour operation.

Pippa O'Brien

Catering is much simpler and although you've got still got to deliver a high level of customer service and facilities, it's way easier. And all the mechanical engineering stuff and all of that, it's way easier than actually running a hotel. Much, much easier. A you know how many people you're going to have through the door every day, you know how to staff yourself. For example, that organisation then moved to a centralised site and I was going to be made redundant and they said, well, how about a role in our training team, learning and development. And I was like, yeah, okay. Then off I go. And that's when everything happened for me.

Pippa O'Brien

It Was like, I had the best ever leader and he was somebody who. I find it quite hard to talk about him because I get emotional in a really positive way because for the first time, he was somebody who really trusted me. He recognised that I had something a bit more than just get the coffees in, Pippa, or do this or do that. He recognised that I had potential and he so challenged me every single time that he gave me insight. We'd go right here, you are going to drop the bomb on you here. Fine. How do you think you're going to start this one, Pip? And he'd start by. What I didn't realise was he was coaching me.

Pippa O'Brien

And what that coaching did was it totally unlocked my potential. It got me critically thinking for myself and it enabled me to actually realise that I could actually be successful. There was a bit of a blip. I can tell this story now because it's a lot of years down the line, there was a bit of a blip because he. On my application for that organisation, I slightly exaggerated some of my school qualifications, shall we say, my leaving qualifications. And that year, that particular year, the company that I was working for, this person, my manager, recommended me to do a degree, fully sponsored degree course, which for me was terrifying because having always been a failure and you won't amount to anything, all of a sudden I've got to do this. But more urgently for me was this. I haven't actually got the A levels that I said that I had at the time.

Pippa O'Brien

So a bit of blagging had gone on, may I say, and I had to talk my way into a course which actually was not as hard as you think as a. As a mature student, you can, you can get in on an interview if you. If you can prove that you're, you know, lived experience.

Joanne Lockwood

Yeah.

Pippa O'Brien

Yes. And I actually did really well. I blew myself out of the water, literally, because I applied all the skills that I'd learned on the job to how to manage the project, which is actually delivering your coursework and getting all that done. And I was quite surprised at myself. That was probably a massive stepping stone in my confidence and becoming me. That would never have happened if it hadn't been for that one leader who saw something in me, trusted me, gave me massive exposure, but was there as a safety net and questioned me, got me to critically question how I was going to do everything. He was somebody that I would. I really wanted to be like.

Pippa O'Brien

And that's really why I ended up. I ended up in, I think it was 1999. 2000, 2000, being head of L and D for another big household name company in the uk. And then I thought, you know what, I'm just a desk jockey now and I'm, I'm budgeting, I'm trying to work out how I can create efficiencies. And that's not about supporting people to learn and be the best that they can be. So I jacked it, walked away, started PODA in December 2000, which is a bit scary, but huge. At that point I had some huge belief that it would work out. And here we are 25 years later.

Pippa O'Brien

Not global domination, but I'm really happy with where we are.

Joanne Lockwood

2000. I mean, the world was significantly different. You know, Tony Blair was Prime Minister doing Auld Lang Syne at the Millennium Dome.

Pippa O'Brien

Things will only get better and all of that.

Joanne Lockwood

Yeah, yeah. But computing, you just think about the world, the way we're connected. I mean, I was running my IT business back in 2001. It was pre 9 11, it was pre iPhone, pre social media. Most people had dial up Internet still. There was no, just the whole computing revolution. There was no phone in your pocket, Google, the things we see is couldn't get Deliveroo or an Uber in those days. So the world was different.

Joanne Lockwood

It was very much more hands on in people's offices, wasn't it? So how have you adapted what you do, I guess to technology and expectations?

Pippa O'Brien

Yes, I think, I think expectations are a movable feast because if people trust you, and I've used the word trust a lot in this, I know, but that's because it's super important to me, then you can manage those expectations jointly so that everybody is comfortable with what's happening. I think in terms of how we changed, lockdown was an enormous catalyst for change for us. And at the beginning, I think on the day one when it all kicked off and it, right, everything's shut down, we're only a small company and on that one day we had cancellations and most people took the trouble to phone us to say we're going to have to cancel everything. We had £250,000 worth of cancellations in a day and we were, we were just like, okay, no, we understand, thanks very much and blah, blah, blah, looking forward to working with you when we can and all that good stuff. And I think we had to learn on a vertical learning curve. So what I started to do is reach out to all of our existing clients and say, right, how can we support you to manage people remotely? Because this is the new normal for the, for the foreseeable. And I used that to run loads of free sessions and using that as an opportunity to get my head around using some of the technology that was available. And it was, some of it was pretty sketchy right back then.

Pippa O'Brien

You know, there was. And then there was almost like the VHS Beta max was for anybody that's old enough to remember that around which platforms were going to be the ones that were adopted. And I think that was, that was one element of change. I think people went from big multi day programmes, if you like, to wanting to see greater embedded results in the organisation. So what we started to do was really more around takeaways, if you like. So people do a little learning module, they go away and apply it and then they come back and chat about the results. And that actually has the impact of really being motivational for the rest of the cohort as well. Somebody thinks, oh well, they've done it so I could do it, you know, so it's really powerful stuff.

Pippa O'Brien

I think the other thing that I did during lockdown was to support my own learning was I did a course within sead, the Global Business School, on innovation, managing innovation during disruption. So I mean, how much more disruption were we going through at the time? It couldn't have been a better example. And off the back of that we came up with some virtual reality AI modules that we partnered with another organisation to develop and then market, which it's interesting because I thought they would go really crazy and really take off and people have gone. We prefer the actors actually. So it's interesting where you offer people this great solution where they can access any time and it was ideal for shift workers or people who have got downtime in their day job and then they can just do a little. I'll just do that module. So they want real people, whether that's real people through a screen or real people face to face in the room. So that was a really interesting piece of learning as well.

Pippa O'Brien

But yes, so keeping it current, seeing what other people are doing is important. The key thing I think is listening and listening to what our clients need, what their aspirations are, what they want to achieve. And then it goes in, it goes in here and then I go away and mulch it down. It sort of composts away in here for a bit and then I then think about a solution. It does take a while to think about, well, how can I take this and make it into something that's. That's really going to get people's attention and it might be attention to Challenge. It might be attention to go, aha, but how can I do that? And that does take a little bit of pain. I think, oh God, how am I going to do that? And then it always comes.

Pippa O'Brien

I have to trust the process, the composting process. So when I'm too busy, I find I don't get composting time. So that's a little bit frustrating.

Joanne Lockwood

Yeah, I think you're right. I'm not sure I call it compost and time, but I find that I need to have those stare in space moments to sit on the sofa. Maria will come up to me and said, what are you thinking about? I said nothing really because I'm not really thinking about anything. I know that somewhere in my head my neurons are firing off, reprocessing everything, re indexing my brain. And then things become clear. And you're right, I can go on a car journey, drive for three hours. I get to the end of it, I think at all what happened. I come out and go, right, ping, ping, ping, ping, ping.

Joanne Lockwood

All these ideas are firing off where my brain has sort of used that opportunity to do that. And you can't do that while you're interacting with people or you're stressed or you're busy or you're focusing on.

Pippa O'Brien

No, you can't, you need that space. Jerry, who now, who's my husband, who now works with our business, he's really a great implementer, transactional person and he gets everything done. He finds it hard to understand that I need that time to just be a bit vague for a while. And that's an important part of the process as well. It's almost like in a, in a project based world world, he would want a time code for that, you know, want a thinking time code so that he can make sure that we're making the best use of everything that we've got available. Yeah, yeah, it's.

Joanne Lockwood

I mean people sometimes will equate that to procrastination, I guess, where you want to just keep playing with it. And I, I don't know about you, but I find that if I've got a three week deadline, everything happens the day before because I'm thinking about things, I'm remodelling it and tweaking it in my mind and when I actually got to put it on paper, it comes straight out. I don't think as I write, I've kind of got the ideation down there and I need that, that evaluation time in my brain to get to that point where suddenly now I can do.

Pippa O'Brien

It that's real, what we call reflective behaviour. And whereas I'm much more of a. Get something, think about it, get something down and then leave it and then come back and tinker with it. So I maybe do the tinkering in a different. You're doing the tinkering up here and I'm doing the tinkering in a different way. And sometimes in organisations there's challenges where if you've got a real activist leader and a reflector team member, Jo, that task to do 10 days ago and she hasn't even started it yet, you know, and actually have. It's all going on up here. It's all clicking away up here.

Pippa O'Brien

So it can cause all sorts of conflicts as well.

Joanne Lockwood

Yeah, I think it serves me well sometimes where I don't have to. I don't have to have the world mapped out. Some people need to have their together for want of a better expression. I'm quite happy to go into. I can exist in chaos because I trust my brain to be able to assemble what I need in a moment. The moment is now. Make it happen. I know I can trust my brain to do that.

Joanne Lockwood

Where some people go, well, I can't start until I can start. I've got to have this. All my ducks in a row. I've got to have this planned out. And when I get there, I've got certainty. I can turn up at an event and the organiser can say, well, do you mind if we change everything? I go, okay, I'm not wedded to it. What are you thinking? I go, okay, I can do a bit of that and a bit of this and a bit of that.

Pippa O'Brien

That's born from your confidence in yourself.

Joanne Lockwood

Yeah, yeah, I guess that's. My brain works. But I've been through phases where I needed certainty, but I spread my IT background. You never knew the result or the answer because people say to me, why did it take you four days to fix that server? You go, well, because it was a problem. Well, I said, if it hadn't been a problem, I'd have fixed it immediately. But the problem needs investigating. You need to try different scenarios, different thought processes in order to get to the point where I said, well, I still don't understand. But, you know, a problem's a problem because it's a problem.

Joanne Lockwood

You know, it just is. How many things do we do every day that aren't actually problems? They just solve first time. And it's easy to say, well, if I'd done the last thing first, but then there were Times I'd probably do the last thing first. You just don't realise it or I don't realise it. And that's experience as well, going be on a cut short circuit. And I guess I've been used to having that analytical mind where you try different scenarios and some of those are happening in your head and you go no, have I tried that before? Yeah, I've done that. The probability of that. Yeah.

Joanne Lockwood

Almost like my own GPT in my head. If you like all these scenarios, kick out. So yeah, I guess we all think differently but yeah, that works for me.

Pippa O'Brien

Yeah, I think that's another piece around supporting people to understand that actually we all approach tasks in different way and that's equally valuable in teams that we all approach tasks in different way, we all think in different ways, our brains work in different ways and what collectively we bring is what makes the team successful. And I see and it goes back to a little bit about what I was saying earlier on about people who are, have got very fixed views about how people should work is quite often that they're a very fixed and defined group of people. So they're not looking for that richness of diversity within their teams. They want everybody to think like them, be like them, look like them, because that's the right way to be.

Joanne Lockwood

Yeah. And also when we're delivering training we have to recognise that as well, don't we? We have to fire the neurons in different ways for different people.

Pippa O'Brien

Yeah, totally. 100%. I love it. I'm still loving it now I'm 64 next month. Well in fact this coming month, very soon, 31st of March, April. I can't keep going forever obviously. But what I say is as long as I'm still relevant, I'll. I'll be continuing.

Pippa O'Brien

I don't, I couldn't imagine retiring really. So it's.

Joanne Lockwood

I saw a keynote From Lindsay at 55 redefined the other day and she's talking about the ageism is the next barrier.

Pippa O'Brien

I've read that as well. Yeah.

Joanne Lockwood

And when we look at the workforce, millennials will turn 50 in six years time, I think.

Pippa O'Brien

Yeah.

Joanne Lockwood

So the bulk of our workforce will suddenly become over 50 because our population is shrinking now we may have to have two point something children to create a sustainable population and women are giving birth at a rate of 1.2 or something. I can't remember the exact figure she said. So basically our population and the global population is now shrinking. So Gen Alphas and Gen Zs will be the smallest cohort in for many, many Many generations. So we have to start Investing in our 50s, our Gen X's, even our boomers still, and our millennials. So we have to find a career that lasts us into our 80s because we can't afford to retire. Retirement was meant to be five years and then you die. It's now seen as a 40 year birthright.

Joanne Lockwood

You know, you retire in your 60s, live to your hundred and unless we got a mega pension, which my generation just don't have mega pensions anymore, I.

Pippa O'Brien

Think that's another reason for keeping going is the financial one. But equally, I don't feel, I don't feel ready, I don't feel ready to stop yet. I still reading things and get excited about things and as long as I'm still getting excited, then it's got to happen, hasn't it?

Joanne Lockwood

Yeah, I'm excited too. I think I see innovation every day. I mean, see AI coming on board, we see Internet and technology and computing getting faster and phones and the attitudes of people. You think, well, there's so much more to do. I think going back to what we talked about earlier, about working from home, working from the office, I don't feel that I have to exhaust myself commuting, travelling, being a slave to someone else's culture and environment. I create my own culture. I feel very empowered to have this gig economy, this multi career, multi idea, entrepreneurial, make money in different directions so I can keep my brain firing on different things and not feel I'm in this trudge. When people say, oh, I'm looking forward to retiring next year, I think, to do what?

Pippa O'Brien

I completely agree with you and you know what? Nothing, nothing disappoints me more is when I meet people and they are moaning about their job, the organisations that they work in and everything about it, any change that's going on, colleagues, how they're being managed, I said, well, why don't you do something else? Why don't you leave? Oh no, I can't do that. Well, why not? Pension in seven years. It's like, so you're going to completely burn the next seven years of your finite resources of life doing something that for a third of your week you clearly hate and if you clearly hate it, you're not going to be doing the best job. May I say that as well? Because you might be doing an adequate job or they might be doing an adequate job, but they're not gonna be doing the best work. So how can people waste their life? That's what I don't understand.

Joanne Lockwood

It's like it's like the old adage, you know, if someone says they're too busy, it means it's not a priority.

Pippa O'Brien

Yeah, absolutely, yeah.

Joanne Lockwood

You've always got time to do something you want and you enjoy and you're interested in. Yeah. So maybe if you're thinking I need to retire. Retire from what? Which part of what you're doing do you want to retire from? Do you want to retire from being engaged and passionate and creative? No, you don't. You want to be retired from being told what to do, to commuting, to being a slave, to getting up at five in the morning to jump on it. Yeah, great, we'll retire from that bit. But find yourself a passion and purpose, otherwise you'll just be floating around, having arguments at home, kicking the cat, getting bored. I've got time to go on holiday.

Joanne Lockwood

I've got time to wake up at 8 o' clock in the morning, have a lay in, do what I want to do, work with clients, not work on Friday afternoons. I've got time to do what I need to do. Yeah. I've also got time to really be passionate about what I do as well. So, yeah, you can reprioritize.

Pippa O'Brien

That's exactly what I believe as well. There we are. Full alignment. Love it.

Joanne Lockwood

And that's the future. Future of work is that. That's the future of work.

Pippa O'Brien

Agree.

Joanne Lockwood

Pippa, We've been yakking on now.

Pippa O'Brien

We have.

Joanne Lockwood

Thank you for. And thank you to you who are listening to this. We've been yakking on there for nearly an hour and a half because we had a good old chat and catch up before we went. Press the record button, as I always do. So how can people get hold of you?

Pippa O'Brien

Well, poda.co.uk is a good start. Is our website or pippa@poda.co.uk. you can look me up on LinkedIn. Pippa O' Brien and. Or just kind of shout, I'll. I'll hear you somewhere. Right. Don't worry at all.

Pippa O'Brien

If you are listening and you think we could help you in any way, do get in touch. But more importantly, Jo, thank you for listening, really, and thanks to everybody else for listening. It's been a really interesting experience.

Joanne Lockwood

Thank you.

Pippa O'Brien

Thank you. Take care.

Joanne Lockwood

That was great.

Pippa O'Brien

Thank you. That was interesting.

Joanne Lockwood

Refresh the page. As the problem persists, as we bring.

Joanne Lockwood

This conversation to a close, I want to express my deep, deepest gratitude to you, our listener, for lending your ear and heart to the cause of inclusion. Today's discussion struck a chord. Consider subscribing to inclusion bites and become part of our ever growing community driving real change. Share this journey with friends, family and colleagues. Let's amplify the voices that matter.

Joanne Lockwood

Got thoughts, stories or a vision to share?

Pippa O'Brien

I'm all ears. Reach out to jo.lockwood@seechangehappen.co.uk and let's make your voice heard. Until next time, this is Joanne Lockwood signing off with a promise to return with more enriching narratives that challenge, inspire and unite us all. Here's to fostering a more inclusive world one episode at a time. Catch you on the next bite.

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Primary Category: Inclusive Leadership
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🔖 Titles
  1. Brave Learning and Bold Leadership: Transforming Inclusion Through Storytelling and Immersive Drama

  2. Turning Everyday People into Empowered Learners: The Power of Real-World Inclusion

  3. Building Trust and Allyship: Experiential Learning for Inclusive Workplaces

  4. From Banter to Belonging: Challenging Bias with Safe Words and Authentic Conversations

  5. Drama at Work: How Storytelling Drives Inclusive Behaviour and Allyship

  6. Inclusion on the Frontline: Innovating Learning for Every Literacy Level

  7. The Iceberg Beneath the Surface: Leading with Empathy and Trust

  8. Human Stories, Real Change: Creating a Culture Where Everyone Thrives

  9. Disrupting Workplace Bias: Drama-Based Learning for Brave Leaders

  10. Creating Safe Spaces for Learning: How Bold Conversations Foster Inclusive Cultures

A Subtitle - A Single Sentence describing this episode

Pippa O'Brien explores the impact of immersive storytelling, brave learning, and bold leadership in cultivating genuine inclusion, psychological safety, and empowered allyship across every level of the workplace.

Episode Tags

Brave Learning, Bold Leadership, Inclusive Storytelling, Experiential Training, Immersive Drama, Frontline Teams, Transformative Conversations, Allyship at Work, Challenging Bias, Workplace Belonging.

Episode Summary with Intro, Key Points and a Takeaway

In this episode of The Inclusion Bites Podcast, Joanne Lockwood is joined by Pippa O’Brien for a vibrant discussion on brave learning and bold leadership in the pursuit of workplace inclusion. Drawing on innovative approaches, the conversation explores how drama-based experiences and authentic storytelling can transform the learning journey, especially for frontline and manual workers who are often overlooked by traditional training models. Joanne and Pippa dissect the power of creating psychologically safe environments, where challenging topics like bias and allyship are brought to life, not with slides or theory, but through lived experiences and open, sometimes uncomfortable dialogue. The importance of real engagement—moving beyond box-ticking and echo chambers—is woven throughout, with both sharing their journeys in breaking down resistance and enabling true transformation within teams and leadership.

Pippa O’Brien is a seasoned learning innovator and founder of Proda, renowned for designing immersive programmes that make inclusion tangible for people at every organisational level. With a background that started in the high-pressure world of professional kitchens, Pippa brings unique perspectives on resilience, adaptability, and breaking gender norms. Her personal story, marked by overcoming imposter syndrome and being bolstered by authentic, values-led leadership, fuels her dedication to empowering everyday people to become confident learners. At Proda, she champions a culture of storytelling, active participation, and reflective thought, pushing against rigid, one-size-fits-all approaches to organisational development and DEI training. Pippa’s commitment to embedding trust, flexibility, and integrity in leadership is evident as she shares methods for making company values meaningful, challenging entrenched bias, and giving every voice an audience.

Listeners are invited to reflect on how immersive learning, meaningful allyship, and a willingness to see beyond surface-level differences can drive inclusion across every sector. A key takeaway from this episode is the transformative impact of making learning experiential and personal: change happens when people are engaged, trusted, and given space to reflect and challenge each other, creating workplaces where everyone can belong and thrive. Tune in for actionable insights and human-centred practices that inspire bold leadership and authentic belonging.

📚 Timestamped overview

00:00 The organisation learned that everyone's life situation is unique, with no universal guidebook, emphasised by a thought-provoking exercise involving a transgender scenario within a drama.

06:21 Created an immersive programme using real-life drama to engage individuals with lower literacy, avoiding traditional classroom settings.

07:34 Participants listened, shared personal experiences, and discussed generational and gender biases, exploring how labels reflect biases and emphasising the importance of challenging these assumptions.

13:13 During lockdown, people appreciated the flexibility of remote work, balancing professional and family responsibilities. Research suggested considering a fully remote work model with occasional in-person meetings at designated hubs.

14:07 Flexibility and trust are essential for organisations, allowing employees to thrive at work and home, adaptable to new environments rather than adhering strictly to old management methods.

17:46 A culture that dismisses ideas stifles innovation and discourages future contributions.

21:06 Feeling unworthy due to withheld information parallels politicians making promises without knowing the full picture.

25:36 Trans Day of Visibility highlights issues trans people face. Misconceptions and lack of accountability fuel transphobia, often countered by personal interactions.

29:26 Encourage self-reflection and gentle challenges to promote understanding rather than policing others' behaviours. The writer's husband, a generous Scotsman, found stereotypes about Scottish people frustrating upon moving to London.

30:41 Challenge casual racism and stereotypes tactfully; it might prompt reflection later.

36:10 Lack of affirmation led to self-doubt and disengagement at school. Despite this, a passion for cooking led to a career as a chef, facing gender bias in a male-dominated kitchen.

37:43 Demanding schedule impacted social life; transitioned from hotel management to facilities management due to shift work challenges and lack of qualifications.

43:24 Expectations can be managed with trust. Lockdown prompted significant change; we faced £250,000 in cancellations in one day but adapted quickly, offering remote support and free sessions to clients.

45:36 During lockdown, I took a course on innovation at SEAD. We developed virtual reality AI modules, but people preferred real actors, highlighting a preference for human interaction.

49:20 Reflective thinkers process mentally before acting, which may clash with more immediate activist approaches, leading to organisational challenges.

53:34 Populations are shrinking with lower birth rates, resulting in an ageing workforce. Future careers must support working into one's 80s, as retirement now spans decades rather than years. Investing in older generations, like Gen X and Boomers, is essential.

55:37 People often complain about jobs they dislike but choose to stay due to future benefits like pensions, wasting years doing something they hate and not performing at their best.

58:37 Grateful for your support; subscribe, share, and amplify inclusion efforts.

📚 Timestamped overview

00:00 Understanding Diverse Life Scenarios

06:21 Immersive Learning Programme Design

07:34 "Challenging Generational and Gender Biases"

13:13 Embracing Flexible Remote Work

14:07 Flexible Work: Trust and Leadership

17:46 Stifling Innovation with Whack-a-Mole

21:06 "Politicians' Post-Election Revelations"

25:36 "Trans Visibility and Misunderstandings"

29:26 Challenging Stereotypes and Banter

30:41 Addressing Casual Racism Tactfully

36:10 Overcoming Expectations Through Cooking

37:43 Balancing Work with Limited Time

43:24 Trust and Adaptation During Lockdown

45:36 "Lockdown Learning: Innovation Module Insights"

49:20 Reflective vs. Activist Behaviour

53:34 Ageing Workforce Challenge

55:37 Stop Complaining, Change Your Job

58:37 "Join the Inclusion Journey"

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💥 What does it take to turn everyday people into empowered learners—and spark genuine inclusion at work? Grab 60 seconds of thought-provoking insight in this must-hear audiogram! 💥

This week, I’m joined by the marvellous Pippa O’Brien, founder of Proda and a true innovator in immersive learning. She’s dedicated to transforming how frontline teams experience inclusion—through storytelling that brings real life into the room.

Together, we explore:

  • 🔑 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗜𝗰𝗲𝗯𝗲𝗿𝗴 𝗕𝗲𝗻𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗵—Why you never truly know what your colleagues are facing, and how compassionate leadership and integrity build an environment of trust.

  • 🔑 𝗦𝘁𝗼𝗿𝘆𝘁𝗲𝗹𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗲𝘀—How drama-based, experiential learning helps break down bias, encourage challenge, and nurture authentic allyship at every level.

  • 🔑 𝗦𝗮𝗳𝗲𝗿, 𝗕𝗼𝗹𝗱𝗲𝗿 𝗕𝗮𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗿—Practical ways teams can create safe words and accountable behaviours so that inclusion isn’t policed, it’s lived, every day.

Why Listen?
"Inclusion is about understanding, and this episode is packed with insights to help you create more #PositivePeopleExperiences."

As the host of Inclusion Bites, I share new episodes weekly—designed to confront norms, ignite change, and inspire you to think differently about belonging.

💬 Have you tried immersive learning in your organisation? What’s your top tip for building psychological safety on a team? Drop your thoughts and experiences below 👇—let’s get the real conversation rolling.

Listen to the full conversation: https://seechangehappen.co.uk/inclusion-bites-listen

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Don’t forget to like, subscribe, follow, and pass along to a colleague who needs a bite of inclusion today!

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Focus Keyword: Culture Change


Title:
How Brave Learning Drives Culture Change | #InclusionBitesPodcast


Tags: culture change, inclusion, positive people experiences, workplace culture, brave learning, bold leadership, allyship, immersive drama, storytelling, leadership integrity, psychological safety, employee engagement, belonging, HR, diversity and inclusion, organisational change, experiential learning, team values, banter boundaries, trust in leadership, safe work environments, human-centred culture, flexible work, bias in the workplace, inclusive leadership,


Killer Quote:
"Flexibility at work is a real fundamental of culture change—trust people to do a great job, explain the why, and be the leader they need to be their best." - Pippa O'Brien


Hashtags:
#CultureChange, #InclusionBitesPodcast, #PositivePeopleExperiences, #BraveLearning, #BoldLeadership, #WorkplaceInclusion, #Belonging, #TeamValues, #Storytelling, #Allyship, #LeadershipIntegrity, #DiversityAndInclusion, #OrganisationalChange, #ExperientialLearning, #TrustAtWork, #DEI, #PsychologicalSafety, #SafeSpaces, #ImmersiveLearning, #FlexibleWork


Summary Description:
In this compelling episode of The Inclusion Bites Podcast, I’m joined by learning innovator Pippa O'Brien as we uncover what it truly takes to drive real culture change and shape Positive People Experiences. We dive into the power of brave learning and bold leadership, revealing how immersive drama and real-world storytelling move us beyond tick-box training towards genuine belonging at work. Whether you’re leading a team or building inclusive spaces, this episode unpacks how trust, integrity, and challenge fuel lasting impact. Discover actionable insights for fostering an environment where everyone has a voice, and where flexible, human-centred workplaces become the foundation of culture change. Ready to spark transformation? Listen now and join the movement for inclusion.

Call to Action:
Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts—let’s drive Positive People Experiences together through authentic conversation and action!


Outro:
Thank you for tuning in to The Inclusion Bites Podcast. If today’s conversation inspired you to champion culture change and Positive People Experiences, please like and subscribe to the channel. For more thought-provoking content and resources, visit SEE Change Happen at https://seechangehappen.co.uk

Listen to the full episode here: The Inclusion Bites Podcast

Stay curious, stay kind, and stay inclusive - Joanne Lockwood

ℹ️ Introduction

Welcome to this episode of the Inclusion Bites Podcast, titled “Brave Learning, Bold Leadership,” where host Joanne Lockwood is joined by learning innovator Pippa O’Brien. Together, they explore the power of real-world storytelling, immersive drama, and authentic conversations in transforming inclusive learning for frontline teams.

Listen in as Pippa shares her journey from a male-dominated kitchen to founding Proda—an organisation committed to empowering everyday people to become empowered learners. Joanne and Pippa delve into how lived experiences, honest dialogue, and brave leadership can challenge unconscious biases, foster trust, and create workplaces where everyone feels safe to speak up. They discuss the importance of experiential learning over traditional training, the value of flexibility at work, and how allyship thrives when it is driven by empathy and integrity.

Expect insightful anecdotes, candid reflections on challenging bias, practical tips for embracing diverse learning needs, and thought-provoking discussions about the intersection of personal and organisational culture. This episode promises to ignite the spark for meaningful change, whether you’re leading a team or seeking new perspectives on inclusion in action.

So plug in, get comfortable, and prepare for a bold and inspiring conversation that will empower you to turn brave learning into bold leadership.

💬 Keywords

inclusion, belonging, diversity, allyship, storytelling, immersive drama, workplace culture, transgender inclusion, lived experience, bias, psychological safety, labels, experiential learning, leadership behaviour, trust, integrity, social media, generational perspectives, flexible working, remote work, organisational values, innovation, banter, microaggressions, ageism, learning and development, authenticity, safe environment, challenging assumptions, team dynamics

About this Episode

About The Episode:
In this energising conversation, learning innovator Pippa O’Brien joins Inclusion Bites to explore how brave learning and bold leadership drive more meaningful inclusion at work. Pippa draws on her experience transforming frontline teams through immersive drama, sharing practical ways to go beyond surface-level D&I and create cultures where everyone can thrive. This episode challenges conventional training by highlighting the power of storytelling, authenticity, and vulnerability to foster trust and lasting change.

Today, we’ll cover:

  • The importance of using real-life storytelling and immersive drama to shift inclusion from theory to lived experience in the workplace.

  • Why trust and integrity are foundational to effective leadership and creating psychological safety for authentic conversations.

  • The impact of moving away from classroom-based, literacy-heavy training approaches towards experiential learning, especially for employees with diverse backgrounds and educational needs.

  • How interactive scenarios and lived experiences can challenge entrenched biases and foster reflection, debate, and meaningful behaviour change.

  • Strategies for addressing resistance and echo chambers, ensuring inclusion initiatives engage sceptics as well as allies.

  • The evolving role of organisational culture, values, and the need for flexibility in work arrangements to respect individual and community needs post-pandemic.

  • Techniques for calling in inappropriate behaviour and managing workplace banter in ways that build collective accountability, not fear or division.

💡 Speaker bios

Certainly! Here’s a brief bio for Joanne Lockwood in a story-inspired, British English format, based on the themes and essence of your provided text:


Joanne Lockwood has always believed in the transformative power of stories. Throughout her life, she has heard countless voices speak passionately about the importance of lived experience—how stories can truly move people. Yet Joanne recognises that true learning demands more than just listening; it calls for rumination, thought, and meaningful interaction. She knows that it’s all too easy to watch a compelling film or show, to be swept away by drama, yet leave without having learned a thing. Joanne’s mission, therefore, is to turn storytelling into something richer and more engaging—bringing stories off the screen and into the heart and mind, making them not just two-dimensional tales but powerful, interactive experiences that ignite real understanding and change.

💡 Speaker bios

Pippa O’Brien is a skilled facilitator and storyteller, celebrated for her thought-provoking approach to diversity and inclusion training. She is known for harnessing personal and shared stories—such as her collaboration with Marie—to spark meaningful discussions in organisational settings. In her work, Pippa has designed impactful scenarios, such as dramatising the complex experiences of a gay couple navigating gender transition, to demonstrate the wide variety of situations people may face in life. Her powerful sessions remind organisations that there is no universal playbook for understanding individual journeys, and highlight the need for empathy, open-mindedness, and flexibility in supporting others.

❇️ Key topics and bullets

Certainly! Here is a comprehensive sequence of topics covered in the "Brave Learning, Bold Leadership" episode of The Inclusion Bites Podcast, with sub-topics detailed below each primary heading:


1. Introduction to the Podcast and Guest

  • Overview of Inclusion Bites: purpose and ethos

  • Introduction of Joanne Lockwood as host

  • Welcoming Pippa O'Brien: her background as a learning innovator and founder of Proda

  • Discussion of Pippa’s superpower: empowering learners through storytelling

2. Meeting and Previous Collaboration

  • When Joanne and Pippa first met, and initial work together

  • Storytelling as a tool for inclusion, featuring real lived experiences

  • Specific focus on transgender inclusion using dual perspectives

3. The Power and Application of Storytelling in Inclusion

  • Lessons learnt from using authentic, real-world stories in organisational settings

  • Exploration of intersectionality and broadening perspective beyond the original context

  • Iceberg theory: visible and invisible elements of people’s lives at work

  • Importance of trust and integrity in leadership

4. Experiential Learning Versus Passive Storytelling

  • Limitations of two-dimensional storytelling in creating actionable learning

  • Importance of rumination and interaction for deeper engagement

  • Transition from passive narratives to immersive, interactive experiences

5. Designing Inclusive Learning for Frontline and Manual Workforces

  • Adapting learning for audiences with lower literacy levels and practical roles

  • Immersive drama and role play from the outset, engaging participants from arrival

  • Encouraging discussion of behaviours, biases, and labels

  • Bringing lived experiences into the room via open conversations

  • Managing and challenging social biases, confirmation bias, and social media influence

6. Safe Environments and Open Dialogue

  • Strategies for fostering psychological safety

  • Role of drama and facilitation in surfacing challenging opinions safely

  • Importance of respectful challenge and growth through debate

7. Training Room Dynamics and Resistance to Inclusion

  • Managing scepticism and resistance (“arms folded,” “woke nonsense” tropes)

  • Transformative power of participation for resistant learners

  • Comparison between echo chambers and reaching sceptical audiences

8. Storytelling and Role Play at All Organisational Levels

  • Application with executives compared to frontline employees

  • The importance of allyship from senior leadership

  • Relevance of demographic differences in preferences for traditional office or remote working

9. Flexible Working, Organisational Culture, and Belonging

  • The impact of working from home versus in-office mandates

  • Comparing personal and organisational culture: which should take precedence?

  • Necessity for trust, values, and meaningful daily behaviours to bridge the culture gap

10. Psychological Safety and Innovation in Teams

  • The challenge of ‘whack-a-mole’ cultures where ideas are dismissed

  • Emphasis on making values actionable and transparent

11. Bias, Decision-Making and Organisational Trust

  • The importance of explaining the ‘why’ behind decisions

  • Trust as a foundation for leadership, integrity, and organisational buy-in

  • Observations on government, oppositional politics, and public trust

12. Media, Social Media, and Narrative Manipulation

  • The role of mainstream and social media in polarising debate and shaping tribes

  • Reality TV and manufactured conflict versus real human collaboration

13. Psychological Safety and Managing Banter

  • Nuances of banter in teams and establishing boundaries

  • The concept and practical use of ‘safe words’ to manage workplace interactions

  • Gentle challenging versus policing and the impact on inclusion

14. Microaggressions, Stereotypes, and Real-Life Examples

  • Joan’s experiences with gendered language in public and workplace interactions

  • Approaches to calling in rather than calling out inappropriate behaviour

15. Bias, Labelling, and Confirmation Bias

  • The psychology of labels: cars and driver stereotypes as a bias analogy

  • How confirmation bias manifests in everyday perceptions

16. Early Career and Resilience

  • Pippa O’Brien’s background as a chef and experiences in a male-dominated environment

  • Overcoming imposter syndrome and negative self-beliefs from early life

  • Transition to facilities management and the pivotal role of a supportive leader

17. The Transformative Power of Positive Leadership

  • Coaching and genuine trust as levers for unlocking potential

  • Personal and professional breakthroughs enabled by encouragement and self-belief

18. Adapting to Change: Technology, Lockdown, and Learning Innovation

  • The pivot necessitated by pandemic lockdowns, embracing virtual and digital solutions

  • Differences in preferences for digital versus live, interpersonal learning experiences

  • Feedback loops, listening to clients, and the importance of ‘composting’ ideas

19. Cognitive Diversity in Teams and Ways of Working

  • Different approaches to learning, productivity, and problem-solving

  • Balancing activists and reflectors within project teams

20. Age, the Future of Work, and Retirement

  • The growing importance of addressing ageism in the workforce

  • Future demographic trends and the need for lifelong learning and flexible careers

  • Rethinking retirement and redefining fulfilment in later life

21. Maintaining Passion, Relevance, and Wellbeing at Work

  • The importance of personal fulfilment and ongoing engagement

  • Reflections on the value of remaining active and contributing meaningfully

22. Closing and Contact Information

  • Ways to connect with Pippa O’Brien and Proda

  • Reinforcing the call to action for listeners to engage and contribute

  • Joanne Lockwood’s closing remarks and invitation for listeners to participate


This outline captures the broad themes, sub-topics, and the rich, reflective conversation woven throughout this episode.

The Hook
  1. Ever thought you were destined for more—but STILL waiting for someone to unlock that hidden door? What if the key isn’t technical skills or fancy titles, but something hiding just beneath the surface... Would you dare to challenge your own story?

  2. Forget "business as usual". What if the REAL magic starts when you throw out the rulebook and let your lived experiences drive your leadership? Brace yourself—because the next conversation you hear might change the way you think about belonging. For good.

  3. Stop. Think about the last time you wanted to speak up but didn’t. Ever wonder why some teams actually transform—while others just tick boxes? (Clue: It’s not the policies. It’s the POWER of story + authentic connection.)

  4. How brave are you—REALLY—when inclusion gets uncomfortable? What would it take to spark that shift from watching to participating... from following the script to rewriting it altogether? Hint: The answers might surprise you.

  5. Ever felt boxed in by labels, or typecast by someone else’s bias? Ready to strip all that back and see what’s possible when you’re truly SEEN at work—or in life? Now’s your moment (if you’re bold enough to take it).

🎬 Reel script

On this episode of Inclusion Bites, we explored how authentic storytelling and immersive drama can transform workplace inclusion. Together with learning innovator Pippa O’Brien, we unpacked the real impact of allyship, the nuances of banter and bias, and why brave, bold leadership starts with trust and empathy. If you want to ignite meaningful change and empower everyone to thrive, start by listening deeply—and never underestimate the power of real conversations. Join us on Inclusion Bites for more inspiring insights that drive progress.

🗞️ Newsletter

Subject: Brave Learning, Bold Leadership – New Episode of Inclusion Bites Podcast


Dear Inclusion Bites Community,

This week, we invite you to immerse yourself in Episode 175: Brave Learning, Bold Leadership. Host Joanne Lockwood is joined by Pippa O’Brien, learning innovator and founder of Proda, for an unforgettable exploration into the evolution of inclusive learning, the real power of bold storytelling, and what it truly means to lead with integrity.

🔥 Highlights from This Episode:

Experiential Learning That Sticks
Pippa explains how Proda uses immersive drama and authentic conversations to empower frontline teams—especially those with lower traditional literacy levels. Through live role play and interactive storytelling, even the most sceptical learners become engaged and inspired to challenge their own biases.

Allyship and Trust in Action
The conversation delves into why one-size-fits-all “playbooks” are ineffective. True leadership means building trust, nurturing integrity, and equipping people with the tools and confidence to challenge inappropriate behaviour at all organisational levels.

Workplace Flexibility and Real Belonging
Joanne and Pippa reflect on post-pandemic shifts, with the “return to office” debate taking centre stage. They challenge the notion that workplace culture is tied to location, advocating instead for flexible structures that focus on outcomes—and honour personal, family, and community culture.

Banishing the Echo Chamber
Why do we too often preach to the converted? Pippa reveals how drama-based learning breaks traditional barriers, encouraging even reluctant participants to embrace new perspectives and drive genuine behavioural change.

Ageism, Lifelong Learning, and Purpose
As our workforce ages and demographics shift, Pippa underscores the importance of lifelong learning, adaptability, and retaining passion throughout our careers. Retirement, she argues, should be about stepping away from constraints—not from creativity and contribution.


🎧 Listen Now

Unlock new insights on inclusion and leadership.
Catch this episode and more at: Inclusion Bites Podcast


We want to hear from you!
Have a story or insight to share? Interested in joining the podcast?
Email Joanne directly at jo.lockwood@seechangehappen.co.uk.

Let’s keep sparking change—one bold conversation at a time.

Warm regards,
The Inclusion Bites Team

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🧵 Thread: #InclusionBites Episode 175 — Brave Learning, Bold Leadership w/ Pippa O’Brien 🌈

1/ On the latest Inclusion Bites, host @JoLockwood sees the real impact of immersive learning for workplace inclusion. Guest Pippa O’Brien, founder of PODA, shows why storytelling and drama aren’t just nice-to-haves—they transform teams. 👇

2/ Forget death-by-PowerPoint! Pippa reveals that when 80% of a workforce are manual workers with an avg. reading age of 11, “slide 199 of the Equality Act 2010” is irrelevant. So what does work? FULL immersion—real drama, relatable characters, honest conversation.

3/ The brilliance? Learners feed lines to the actors. The story evolves, with everyone reflective & challenged—no echo chambers. As Pippa says, we’re all “icebergs”: what we don’t see shapes what happens above the waterline. 🧊

4/ Real change comes when people feel safe to challenge bias—without finger wagging. Teams create safe words like “Not cool” to pause banter gone too far. Inclusion isn’t about shutting down fun; it’s about respecting each other’s boundaries every day.

5/ Jo nails the frustration of “preaching to the choir.” But she notes: the biggest sceptics often become the most passionate allies once they’re truly engaged. Change starts with conversation, not confrontation.🎭

6/ Execs, this is for you: True allyship isn’t about tick-boxing. Are you reflecting the diversity of those you serve? Pippa warns against “whack-a-mole culture”—where brave ideas get smacked down. Want innovation? Nurture it.

7/ Remote work, flexible hours, and trust were game-changers in the pandemic. Pippa argues culture shouldn’t be exchanged for a commute. “My family, my community, my hobbies—that’s MY culture.” Let employees bring their real selves, not just tick your boxes.

8/ A big lesson: Listening to lived experience is powerful, but interaction turns insight into action. Drama, safe spaces, real talk—these spark the brain, the heart, AND tangible change.

9/ As Jo reflects, the future of work is flexible, multi-faceted, and human. Age is no barrier—purpose and passion trump a countdown to retirement. “As long as I’m still relevant, I’ll be continuing.”

10/ Ready to disrupt, learn, and lead with heart? Listen to the full episode 👇
🔗 seechangehappen.co.uk/inclusion-bites-listen

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Brave Learning, Bold Leadership: My Experience as a Guest on the Inclusion Bites Podcast

Being invited as a guest on episode 175 of the Inclusion Bites Podcast, hosted by Joanne Lockwood, was both a privilege and a profound opportunity to reflect on what it truly means to drive change in the sphere of learning and inclusion. As the founder of PODA and a passionate advocate for immersive, experiential learning, I found the podcast to be the ideal platform for exploring how bold leadership can empower everyday people to become lifelong learners—especially through authentic storytelling and drama.

An Environment that Celebrates Real Conversations

From the outset, the Inclusion Bites Podcast stood out as a unique space—one that thrives on deep, often challenging conversations, dismantling stereotypes and championing positive change. Joanne’s ability to create a sense of safety and curiosity was palpable, setting the tone for a candid dialogue in which both vulnerability and practical wisdom were celebrated.

During our conversation, we unpacked the realities of inclusion within organisations, highlighting how traditional training methods often leave learners disengaged, particularly those who have been underserved by formal education. We discussed PODA’s approach to drama-based learning—a method designed to immerse frontline workers in real-life scenarios, regardless of reading age or background, allowing every individual to find their voice. I’ve always believed that genuine learning happens not from reading slides or memorising legislation, but by engaging with the lived experiences, emotions, and perspectives of real people. The podcast allowed these principles to shine through in a way that was both relatable and inspiring.

Challenging Bias and Embracing Allyship

One of my favourite moments on the podcast was delving into the invisible “icebergs” people carry into their workplaces—those unseen factors affecting their day-to-day behaviour and wellbeing. The conversation covered the absence of a playbook for inclusion, reinforcing instead the need for leaders to respond with integrity, curiosity, and trust. We shared how our innovative drama sessions have enabled participants to challenge biases, embrace meaningful allyship, and create safer, more authentic team cultures—even introducing practical tools like ‘safe words’ to ensure psychological safety during everyday banter.

Adapting to a Changing World

Lockdown, remote work, and generational shifts were key themes we explored, examining how organisations must rethink structures and cultures to meet modern workforce needs. We also acknowledged the importance of balancing personal and organisational culture, championing flexibility, trust, and a values-driven approach to leadership.

From my journey as a young chef—often the only woman in a male-dominated kitchen—to establishing a business that challenges norms, my story weaves through the systemic barriers individuals face and what it takes to nurture genuine confidence and progression. The podcast’s conversational style allowed me to reflect honestly on these experiences, emphasising how coaching, trust, and belief in people’s potential can unlock transformative results.

Why This Conversation Matters

Inclusion Bites isn’t just another diversity podcast—it’s a call to action. By joining the show, I was reminded why these dialogues are vital. They remind us that learning should be brave, leadership should be bold, and real change requires disrupting outdated norms with empathy, integrity, and authenticity.

I wholeheartedly encourage anyone passionate about driving inclusion, challenging bias, or rethinking learning in their own organisations or spheres of influence to tune in—not just to hear stories like mine, but to be inspired to action. You can listen to my episode and more inspiring stories at Inclusion Bites.

If you’d like to talk further about how drama-based experiential learning can create real impact in your teams, please feel free to connect with me at pippa@poda.co.uk or via poda.co.uk.

Let’s keep the conversation going—real change starts with being brave enough to have it.

Pain Points and Challenges

Certainly. Drawing directly from the transcript of “Brave Learning, Bold Leadership” on The Inclusion Bites Podcast, here are the key pain points and challenges discussed, alongside content focused on practical ways to address them:


Pain Points & Challenges Highlighted in the Podcast

  1. Surface-Level Understanding Without Real Change

    • There is frustration that lived experiences or powerful stories alone do not necessarily create learning or behavioural shifts (“…the learning doesn't always occur. I don't go and watch a Netflix or go to the cinema and … always take learning away from them”).

  2. Low Engagement With Traditional Training

    • Particularly amongst people with negative preconceptions about inclusion or those who are disengaged from classroom-style learning, especially in manual or frontline roles with lower literacy levels.

  3. Trust and Integrity in Leadership

    • Leaders often fail to create trust and demonstrate integrity, especially in handling sensitive information or lived experiences.

  4. The “Echo Chamber” Effect

    • Inclusion conversations typically attract those already invested in the topic, missing those most in need of mindset change.

  5. Managing Bias and Labels

    • Workplace bias persists through unconscious labelling and assumptions, making it crucial but difficult to challenge and shift perspectives.

  6. Challenging Upwards/Safe Challenge

    • Employees frequently lack the skills or courage to challenge inappropriate behaviour, particularly with more senior staff, or there is fear of repercussions.

  7. Banter/Bullying Boundaries

    • Fear amongst teams that inclusion initiatives mean the end of workplace camaraderie or banter, and confusion as to where boundaries lie.

  8. Fixed Leadership Mindsets on Flexible Work

    • Resistance to flexible and inclusive working practices is often concentrated amongst senior leaders with a particular demographic background and traditional views.

  9. Ageism and The Ageing Workforce

    • Forthcoming demographic challenges with a shrinking younger workforce and growing over-50 cohort, accompanied by persistent ageism in career progression and recruitment.


Targeted Content to Address These Issues

1. From Storytelling to Change: Embedding Learning Through Drama and Immersion

  • Addressing Surface-Level Impact: Move beyond storytelling as a passive tool by using immersive drama and interactive role play, allowing individuals to reflect, intervene, and see the impact of different choices in real time.

  • “When we used real life-based drama and let learners feed lines to actors, it enabled rumination and deeper neural engagement, making learning stick.”

2. Inclusive Engagement Methods For All Literacy Levels

  • Addressing Low Engagement: Ditch “slide 199” and legal jargon in favour of experiential, accessible activities. Anchor learning in shared experiences, real language, and practical scenarios.

  • “We designed sessions where characters welcomed delegates to the room and set real, relatable scenarios, then discussed observations and personal reactions.”

3. Building Trust and Modelling Integrity in Leadership

  • Addressing the Trust Gap: Leaders must show vulnerability, keep confidences, and act with consistency and openness. Train leadership to recognise and reinforce psychological safety.

  • “The integrity piece is… I need you to treat my information with integrity and be there to support me as a person.”

4. Breaking the Echo Chamber: Inclusion for the Reluctant

  • Getting Buy-In from the Unengaged: Frame inclusion work with those resistant or indifferent as an opportunity for their growth, not a punishment; acknowledge and legitimise their feelings, building connection through shared, sometimes challenging dialogues.

  • “Those with the most resistance often have the biggest change… their journey is the most profound.”

5. Bias Interruptions: Making the Invisible Visible

  • Addressing Assumptions and Labels: Use facilitated, safe discussions and role play to bring underlying bias to light, and equip teams with practical language to challenge labels and explore nuance.

  • “We wanted to talk about labels… and remind people we’re always looking to confirm our biases unless we challenge them.”

6. Practical Allyship and “Challenging Up” Skills

  • Embedding Safe Challenge: Train on challenging inappropriate behaviour up the hierarchy by modelling language that is assertive but non-confrontational, supported by leadership visibly backing non-retaliation policies.

  • Role play and scripting can help normalise these conversations.

7. Demystifying Boundaries Around Banter

  • Addressing Banter Anxiety: Co-create team “safe words” (e.g., “not cool”) that anyone can use to pause banter without judgement, allowing banter to continue within understood boundaries and fostering mutual respect.

  • “It just stops, and that’s it—no explanation needed.”

8. Championing Flexible Leadership and Inclusive Working Practices

  • Addressing Fixed Mindsets: Use data and employee-led focus groups to demonstrate the real benefits and employee preferences for flexibility. Train leaders to manage outputs, not presenteeism.

  • “Explain the why and be the leader they need in order to be the best that they can be.”

9. Proactive Age Inclusivity and Future-Readiness

  • Addressing Ageism: Prepare for shifting workforce demographics by embedding age-friendly practices in recruitment, training, and career development. Celebrate experience and nurture talent pipelines for all life stages.

  • “We have to find a career that lasts us into our 80s because we can’t afford to retire."


Conclusion: Turning Challenges into Inclusive Practice

Addressing these pain points demands more than policy – it requires a deliberate shift in mindset, methods, and leadership approach. Use immersive, accessible learning, foster trust and open dialogue, and equip everyone—regardless of level or background—to be an active participant in building inclusion. By doing so, organisations move towards not just compliance, but a culture where every individual feels they truly belong—and thrive.

For more inspiration and practical insight, listen and subscribe to Inclusion Bites at https://seechangehappen.co.uk/inclusion-bites-listen. Connect with Joanne Lockwood at jo.lockwood@seechangehappen.co.uk to share your story or join the conversation.

Questions Asked that were insightful

Absolutely, the transcript for this episode of The Inclusion Bites Podcast—"Brave Learning, Bold Leadership"—contains several rich exchanges that lend themselves well to a thought-provoking FAQ series. Here are some specific questions that prompted especially insightful or meaningful responses, along with summaries that could form the basis for FAQs for your audience:


1. What makes lived experience storytelling so powerful yet challenging in workplace learning?

Pippa and Joanne discuss the importance of real-world stories in creating empathy and awareness, yet both acknowledge that stories alone rarely drive true behaviour change. Pippa articulates how immersive, interactive drama helps move beyond passive listening to active rumination and deeper learning, engaging people on a visceral level.


2. How can organisations meaningfully engage employees who may be sceptical or resistant to inclusion training?

Joanne candidly describes encountering resistance (“arms folded”, “woke nonsense”) but notes that those most sceptical sometimes undergo the most profound transformation. Both agree that interactive storytelling and role-play break down barriers faster than traditional training, creating space for even the most resistant to reconsider their perspectives.


3. Why is psychological safety non-negotiable in difficult conversations about inclusion?

Pippa speaks about the deliberate creation of a “safe environment” where people feel able to voice genuine beliefs and biases without fear. This safety is foundational, not just for openness, but for being able to challenge—and be challenged—in productive ways.


4. How do biases and labels operate in the workplace, and what can individuals do to challenge them?

Pippa shares insights from her drama-based workshops, demonstrating that labels—whether positive or negative—act as shortcuts for bias. She encourages active, mindful challenge of biases within ourselves and others, and highlights how social media and lived experience feed into this dynamic.


5. How does allyship shift across organisational levels, and what does bold leadership look like in practice?

Both speakers stress that allyship must be modelled at the executive level, not simply in word but through daily action and by making allyship integral to senior roles. Pippa notes that leadership should prioritise trust and integrity, especially when dealing with hidden aspects of employees’ lives (“the iceberg” analogy).


6. What role does flexibility play in fostering inclusion in modern workplaces?

The debate around remote versus office culture is addressed, with Pippa advocating for a shift from rigid models to trust-based flexibility, allowing people to thrive both at work and at home. Joanne challenges companies that equate commuting with “buying culture,” advocating for personal and community culture to take precedence.


7. How can organisations make their values tangible and avoid the 'Whack-A-Mole' effect?

Pippa offers the incisive “Whack-A-Mole” analogy to show how cultures that nominally value innovation can stifle it through dismissiveness. She emphasises the need for leaders to offer honest explanations and encourage risk-taking, rather than shutting down contributions out of hand.


8. Why is empathy and gentle challenge crucial in calling out inappropriate behaviour or microaggressions?

Specific anecdotes highlight the everyday nature of casual stereotypes—such as jokes about nationality or gendered language in customer service. Both Pippa and Joanne recommend a gentle “calling in” approach (e.g., using safe words like “mate” or “not cool”), focusing on education rather than public shaming.


9. How do personal journeys—from challenging starts to successful careers—illuminate broader themes of inclusion and leadership?

Pippa’s own story—starting as a chef, moving through facilities management, and landing in learning and development—offers a window into the power of supportive leadership, trust, and overcoming imposter syndrome.


10. What does the future of work look like in the context of demographic shifts and ageism?

In their concluding discussion, the speakers raise pertinent questions about age diversity, the necessity of ongoing purpose beyond traditional retirement, and the imperative to create inclusive workplaces for all generations.


These themes, drawn directly from the transcript, can be developed into informative FAQs for Inclusion Bites listeners—each grounded in stories and insights from the episode. If you’d like specific language to accompany these queries or deeper dives into any of the topics, feel free to ask!

Blog article based on the episode

Brave Learning, Bold Leadership: The Drama of True Inclusion

What if the real driver of workplace inclusion isn’t another policy, e-learning module, or tick-box training—what if it’s the courage to learn, the humility to lead, and the drama of everyday stories? Inclusion isn’t just a value we post on our walls; it’s a skill we practise on the frontline, moment by moment, with all the messy humanity that entails. This is the message that resounds from episode 175 of The Inclusion Bites Podcast: “Brave Learning, Bold Leadership,” featuring learning innovator Pippa O’Brien as our inspiring guide.

The Problem: Why Inclusion So Often Falls Flat

Despite more organisations pledging to build inclusive cultures, many initiatives stall or falter. Traditional workplace training—slide decks, compliance courses, or generic case studies—often fails to reach the hearts and minds of those who need to shift the most. Why? Because true inclusion is lived and felt, not passively absorbed from a PowerPoint.

As Pippa O’Brien puts it, learning is rarely transformative when it remains a “two-dimensional story.” You might watch a tear-jerking film, read a powerful account, or even listen to a lived-experience panel—yet how often does that spark actual change in our behaviours, decisions, or ways of leading? At worst, we walk away unchanged. At best, we might become more aware, but equipped for action? Rarely.

Frontline workers, in particular, are not always reached by conventional learning. Many have not thrived in formal educational settings, with content pitched at the wrong level or irrelevant to their realities. Is it any wonder that information-heavy sessions backed by the Equality Act 2010 leave people cold?

Agitating the Status Quo: Why We Need Brave, Bold Change

Joanne Lockwood highlights the frustration: Why do the same “echo chambers” attend inclusion training sessions, while the people who truly need them opt out or resist? Pippa shares a vivid example—teams of skilled manual operatives, many with an average reading age of 11. Bombarding them with legal jargon is futile; so, what works?

The answer, both simple and radical, lies in experiential immersion. By bringing drama directly into the workplace, O’Brien and her colleagues at Proda have pioneered a way to make learning a visceral, participative, and empowering experience. Participants do not just witness stories; they help shape them, stepping into scenarios, feeding lines to actors, and exploring, live, the complexities of allyship, bias, and belonging.

This approach removes the façade of “right answers,” revealing the hidden iceberg beneath the surface—personal struggles, family challenges, latent biases, and unspoken assumptions. As O’Brien notes, “there’s no playbook out there that covers every possible scenario that could be going on in somebody’s life.” Inclusion, therefore, hinges on the willingness to ask, to listen deeply, and to build trust so that the unsaid can be voiced safely.

Actionable Strategies: How Can You Practise Brave Learning and Bold Leadership?

  1. Create Immersive Experiences

    • Move away from dry, didactic training. Whether through drama, role-play, or lived-experience storytelling, allow people to feel the issues through real-life scenarios that cut through defensiveness and spark empathy.

  2. Lower the Barriers to Engagement

    • Consider the diverse educational backgrounds, literacy levels, and life experiences in your workforce. Design learning experiences that include everyone, not just those comfortable with jargon or formal settings.

  3. Normalise Open Conversation—Not Policing

    • Empower teams to self-manage their culture. O’Brien describes establishing simple “safe words” for banter that goes too far (“not cool” or even just “mate” with the right intonation). This enables real-time course correction, fostering mutual accountability rather than punitive policing.

  4. Challenge from a Place of Trust and Integrity

    • Encourage courageous conversations, especially when senior leaders or influential colleagues get it wrong. As both guest and host emphasise, challenging inappropriate behaviours—respectfully and directly—creates a climate where silence is not the default, and reflection replaces resentment.

  5. Value Lived Experience—But Make it Meaningful

    • Use personal narratives to open hearts, but pair them with interactive reflection and dialogue. Change doesn’t come from passively absorbing stories; it comes from the discussion, rumination, and questioning that stories provoke.

  6. Champion Flexibility and Agency

    • Recognise that inclusion is inseparable from autonomy and flexibility. Lockwood’s reflections on remote working illustrate how rigid, one-size-fits-all mandates rarely serve diverse needs. Leaders should trust their people to do great work and align expectations with values, not just “office culture.”

The Way Forward: Are You Ready to Lead Boldly?

The thread running throughout “Brave Learning, Bold Leadership” is that inclusion is both an individual and collective endeavour, requiring vulnerability and grit from every participant. It demands not only that leaders model trust and openness but also that teams take responsibility for crafting a culture that allows missteps, reflection, and growth.

The episode’s closing reflection could not be more pertinent: we are all capable of change—sometimes, the most resistant learners become the most powerful advocates for inclusion, once they feel seen and heard.

If you are tired of superficial approaches to inclusion and are ready to drive real, lasting change—start by rethinking your learning strategy. How might you use storytelling, drama, and real-world dialogue to awaken a spirit of curiosity and courage in your workplace? Are you giving people at all levels licence to share not just their triumphs, but their questions, mistakes, and stories of becoming?

Pippa O’Brien’s work is a testament to the impact that is possible when we dare to make learning brave and leadership bold. The transformation happens not in the abstract, but in the messy, human drama of our everyday working lives.

Your Call to Action

Take inspiration from “Brave Learning, Bold Leadership”—and from Pippa O’Brien, whose innovative methodologies are breathing new life into the practice of inclusion. Commit, today, to move beyond the echo chamber. Try just one of the tangible steps above: bring drama into your training, experiment with safe words, or spark open dialogue about the behaviours and stories that make your culture unique.

And if you need more inspiration or support, listen to the full episode of The Inclusion Bites Podcast here, or reach out directly to Joanne Lockwood (jo.lockwood@seechangehappen.co.uk) to share your story.

Inclusion doesn’t happen by accident—it happens when we are bold enough to learn, lead, and listen deeper than before.

#InclusionBites #BraveLearningBoldLeadership #PositivePeopleExperiences

The standout line from this episode

The standout line from this episode is:

"People show up for work, they do the best that they can in the moment and what's under the surface is like this massive iceberg that you just don't see. But it comes out through people's behaviour. It's what they say and what they do that gives clues to what's going on to the surface."

❓ Questions

Certainly! Here are 10 discussion questions crafted specifically from the episode "Brave Learning, Bold Leadership" of the Inclusion Bites Podcast, drawing directly on themes and ideas raised in the conversation between Joanne Lockwood and Pippa O’Brien:

  1. How does immersive drama in training sessions, as practised by Pippa O’Brien’s team, create a different impact compared to traditional classroom-based learning, particularly for frontline workers?

  2. The episode discusses the role of lived experience in developing empathy and inclusion. Do you think storytelling alone is sufficient to drive behavioural change, or does it require an interactive approach to be meaningful?

  3. Pippa speaks about tailoring inclusion training for people with lower literacy levels, such as manual workers. What are some effective methods organisations can employ to make inclusion accessible to everyone, regardless of educational background?

  4. How does the concept of allyship change depending on one's position within an organisation, such as senior executives versus front-line staff? What responsibilities are unique to each?

  5. Joanne and Pippa discuss the generational impact on assumptions and biases within the workplace. To what extent do generational divides influence the effectiveness or reception of inclusion strategies?

  6. The hosts mention the use of safe words like “Not cool” to manage workplace banter. What are the strengths and potential challenges of introducing such a concept into team culture?

  7. Reflecting on the episode’s theme of building trust in leadership, what practical steps can leaders take to foster both trust and integrity when discussing sensitive inclusion topics with their teams?

  8. Both Joanne and Pippa highlight how personal and organisational cultures can sometimes clash, especially with changes to working practices post-pandemic. How should employers balance preserving an organisational culture with embracing employees’ personal and community cultures?

  9. The conversation addresses ageism and the shifting demographics of the workforce. What proactive steps can be taken to ensure older employees remain valued, engaged, and included in an environment where traditional retirement is being redefined?

  10. Pippa shares a personal story about overcoming imposter syndrome and the game-changing effect of a supportive leader. How can organisations create systems that consistently recognise and nurture hidden talent, especially amongst those who may doubt their own capabilities?

These questions are ideal for sparking meaningful reflection and debate, whether in a corporate workshop, inclusion forum, or individual coaching session.

FAQs from the Episode

FAQ: Brave Learning, Bold Leadership — Inclusion Bites Podcast, Episode 175

1. What is experiential learning and why is it effective for inclusion training?
Experiential learning immerses participants in live scenarios or interactive dramas rather than relying solely on lectures or slide presentations. In the episode, Pippa O’Brien highlights how this approach enables frontline teams—especially those with varying literacy levels—to engage authentically. When people participate in realistic situations, they’re more likely to reflect deeply, connect the experience with their lives, and internalise inclusive behaviours.

2. How does storytelling enhance inclusion and learning in the workplace?
Storytelling transforms abstract diversity concepts into personal and relatable experiences. As discussed by Joanne Lockwood and Pippa O’Brien, lived experiences, when shared openly, foster empathy and challenge ingrained biases. Stories provide the emotional engagement needed to provoke meaningful self-reflection and cultural change.

3. Why is there an emphasis on creating safe learning environments?
A psychologically safe environment encourages honesty and vulnerability. The episode stresses that people must feel safe to voice opinions—even contentious ones—without fear of reprisal. In such settings, biases and assumptions can be surfaced and sensitively challenged, unlocking powerful dialogue and growth.

4. What challenges do trainers face with participants resistant to inclusion topics?
Some individuals might initially resist sessions perceived as “woke” or unnecessary. However, the podcast notes that these participants often experience the most transformation when they are respectfully engaged. Their objections can spark vital discussions and, more often than not, such individuals leave with broadened perspectives.

5. How does roleplay or drama facilitate learning about allyship and challenging inappropriate behaviour?
Roleplay, as described by Pippa, allows participants to practise challenging discriminatory statements safely, especially when dealing upwards with authority figures. This rehearsal of real-life scenarios provides scripts, techniques, and confidence for speaking up, promoting practical allyship in everyday settings.

6. What is the role of leadership in fostering inclusion?
Leaders set the tone, model key behaviours, and are pivotal in building trust and integrity within teams. Authentic leadership means more than espousing values; it involves transparent communication, genuinely trusting teams to do their best, and living the inclusion agenda actively.

7. Why is flexibility in work approaches important for inclusion?
The episode explores how rigid office cultures often contradict the needs of a diverse workforce. Providing flexibility enables individuals—such as carers or parents—to balance personal and professional demands. This responsiveness supports wellbeing, retention, and ensures all talent can thrive.

8. How can teams manage ‘banter’ or boundary-pushing interactions inclusively?
Pippa shares the importance of co-creating mechanisms like ‘safe words’ (e.g., “not cool” or “mate”) that any team member can use to signal discomfort with banter. This empowers self-management, reduces escalation, and acknowledges that boundaries may shift daily based on individual circumstances.

9. In what ways does the media (including social media) impact workplace inclusion?
Media and social platforms can perpetuate polarisation and stereotype-based narratives, making it harder to sustain constructive, empathetic dialogue. The episode urges a move towards adult, rational conversations, resisting the ‘tribal’ allure that sells stories but erodes understanding.

10. How does intergenerational and demographic bias manifest in the workplace, and how should it be addressed?
Assumptions about age, gender, capability, or background frequently surface as labels and biases. The podcast advocates for challenging these through shared lived experiences, open discussion, and recognising that everyone brings unique strengths. Building awareness of confirmation bias—where we seek data supporting our preconceptions—is key to dismantling stereotypes.

11. Why is there a need to rethink the future of work in terms of ageing populations?
With shrinking younger demographics and people living—and working—longer, the episode argues that workplaces must embrace older workers, value continuous learning, and create environments that support multigenerational success rather than relying on outdated retirement frameworks.

12. What are some practical steps organisations can take towards authentic, bold inclusion?

  • Embed values into daily behaviours, beyond just mission statements

  • Involve those most affected by policies in their creation and review

  • Prioritise psychological safety and active listening

  • Offer flexible working arrangements

  • Employ experiential learning methods and storytelling

  • Coach leaders to model trust and integrity

  • Foster accountability and co-created boundaries for team interaction

For more in-depth discussion and actionable inclusion insights, listen to the full episode at Inclusion Bites Podcast or contact Joanne at jo.lockwood@seechangehappen.co.uk.

Tell me more about the guest and their views

The guest on this episode is Pippa O'Brien, a learning innovator and the founder of Proda. Her expertise lies in transforming frontline team experiences around inclusion using immersive drama and authentic conversations. Pippa’s distinctive approach is rooted in real-world storytelling—her stated “superpower” is empowering everyday people to become engaged learners through this storytelling lens.

Pippa’s Core Views and Approach:

  • Immersive, Experiential Learning:
    Pippa is a firm advocate for moving beyond traditional classroom-based or lecture-heavy training, particularly in contexts such as diversity, equity, and inclusion education. She believes that involving learners directly through experiential methods—like drama where participants can interact with actors and observe lifelike scenarios—creates deeper understanding. Rather than passively listening to stories, this method encourages participants to ruminate, reflect, and even voice their thoughts within a safe environment.

  • Inclusion on the Front Line:
    Her work frequently targets frontline employees, often with lower formal literacy levels, who may have been underserved by conventional education. Pippa tailors her programmes to be accessible and engaging for all, intentionally avoiding jargon and legalistic slides in favour of role play and lived experience discussions.

  • The Power of Lived Experience:
    Pippa views storytelling rooted in lived experience as powerful, but she is also clear-eyed about its limitations. Simply hearing a compelling story, as she and Joanne discuss, does not always translate into meaningful learning or behavioural change. For her, interaction and participation are key—learners must be part of the dialogue rather than mere spectators.

  • Trust, Integrity, and Leadership:
    Central to her philosophy on leadership is trust—both trusting others and demonstrating oneself to be trustworthy. She stresses that leaders must approach inclusion with integrity, treating shared information respectfully and providing support beyond mere compliance or policy.

  • Bias and Social Conditioning:
    Pippa candidly discusses bias, stereotype, and the influence of social media and labels. She points out our human tendency towards confirmation bias, explaining that we naturally seek information that supports our pre-existing views unless actively challenged. Her approach to bias is not about shaming, but about surfacing assumptions and encouraging open, non-judgemental dialogue.

  • Allyship and Behavioural Change:
    She develops programmes focusing on allyship, both in day-to-day peer interactions and when challenging upwards within hierarchy. Importantly, she encourages practical interventions—like team-agreed “safe words” that allow colleagues to respectfully signal when banter or jokes cross a line, without policing or stifling camaraderie entirely.

  • Reflecting on Her Journey:
    Pippa’s own background shapes her approach. She speaks openly about overcoming early messages of inadequacy, underachievement in formal education, and “imposter syndrome,” emphasising how a single trusted leader’s belief in her unlocked her potential. This experience underpins her commitment to creating environments where others can thrive, regardless of their starting point.

  • Flexibility and Workplace Culture:
    She supports flexible and remote working rooted in trust and guided by meaningful organisational values, not a one-size-fits-all office-centric model. For her, authentic culture emerges not from compulsion, but from supporting people to be their best selves both at work and at home.

  • Continuous Learning and Innovation:
    Still passionate at 64, Pippa sees her work as unfinished, continually adapting her methods to technological changes and societal shifts. She believes we should all strive for work that engages us meaningfully and is less convinced by traditional views of retirement or rigid career paths.

In summary, Pippa O'Brien’s work is shaped by empathy, practicality, and a strong belief in the humanity of learning, inclusion, and leadership. Her methods are participative, her attitudes progressive yet grounded, and her impact best described as empowering ordinary people to create extraordinary change in their workplaces.

Ideas for Future Training and Workshops based on this Episode

Absolutely—this episode, “Brave Learning, Bold Leadership” with Pippa O’Brien and Joanne Lockwood, is a treasure trove of inspiration for novel training and workshop ideas. Drawing directly from the themes, practical anecdotes and innovative methodologies discussed, here are tailored concepts for impactful, future-forward learning sessions:


1. Immersive Drama-Based Learning for Frontline Teams

Concept: Practical, actor-led scenarios mirroring real workplace challenges—where participants observe, interact, and feed lines to actors.
Purpose: To overcome traditional learning resistance, especially among teams with lower literacy or classroom fatigue, by creating a safe yet vivid space for rumination and discussion.
Structure:

  • Live dramatised scenario setting

  • Participant engagement: suggest dialogue/responses for actors

  • Group reflection—What did you notice? How did it relate to personal experiences?
    Outcomes: Heightened empathy, better understanding of lived experiences, and increased willingness to challenge bias.


2. Safe Banter & Psychological Safety Workshop

Concept: Cultivating environments where informal interactions (“banter”) remain positive, respectful, and everyone feels able to call out discomfort with agreed safe words.
Purpose: To address fear of “banter policing,” encourage speaking up, and empower teams to manage their own boundaries.
Structure:

  • Debrief on what banter means and its boundaries

  • Team exercise: agreeing and practising safe words/phrases (e.g., “Not cool”)

  • Role play around real examples and gentle calling-in vs. calling-out
    Outcomes: Empowerment to set personal limits, strong psychological safety, reduced microaggressions.


3. Bias Busting—Challenging the Iceberg

Concept: Exploring the ‘iceberg model’ of unseen personal circumstances, and practising non-judgemental curiosity and support.
Purpose: To raise leaders’ and colleagues’ awareness that most life challenges are invisible yet affect behaviour, requiring trust and integrity in leadership responses.
Structure:

  • Iceberg exercise: what’s visible vs. what’s hidden

  • Empathy mapping with anonymised behavioural clues

  • Action planning for managers/supporters: how to build trust and show integrity
    Outcomes: Less judgement, more support; stronger trust cultures.


4. Allyship in Action: From the Executive to the Front Line

Concept: Experiential workshops on allyship tailored for leaders, combined with realistic role play on “challenging up” and supporting marginalised team members.
Purpose: To move beyond tick-box allyship to real, sustainable actions and sponsor behaviour.
Structure:

  • Why allyship matters: lived experience sharing

  • Role play with scenarios: challenging authority safely, advocating for others

  • Group commitment: “Ally Actions” logbook
    Outcomes: Greater executive buy-in, practical allyship, cultural trickle-down.


5. Flexible Working Futures: Cultural Exchange Not Commute

Concept: Rethinking organisational culture, personal culture, and the blend—enabling participants to map their own values, needs and “culture priorities”.
Purpose: To empower employees and leaders to challenge traditional “office culture-centred” thinking, and co-create more equitable, flexible solutions post-pandemic.
Structure:

  • Culture swap mapping: “What do I take with me, what do I borrow?”

  • Focus groups on the benefits of flexible working models

  • Scenario planning: responding to the “return to office” narrative
    Outcomes: More inclusive remote/hybrid cultures, better retention, genuine work-life integration.


6. Reflective Practice & Divergent Thinking for Leaders

Concept: Workshops giving permission—especially to managers and change agents—for reflective “composting time” to nurture better decision-making and creative solutions.
Purpose: To counter “activist-style” pressure for immediate solutions, recognising the value of slow, deep thinking for inclusion and innovation.
Structure:

  • Guided reflection and peer coaching

  • Sharing “a-ha” moments and the role of contemplation in creative leadership

  • Building reflection models into team routines
    Outcomes: Innovative leadership, better-quality decisions, improved inclusion outcomes.


7. Multi-Generational Inclusion and Age Diversity

Concept: Exploring ageism as “the next frontier,” using storytelling and data to break stereotypes about older workers and foster intergenerational collaboration.
Purpose: To prepare organisations for workforce demographic shifts, harnessing the strengths of all generations.
Structure:

  • Myths and realities: facilitated myth-busting round table

  • Intergenerational panel/Q&A

  • Career mapping exercises that support lifelong learning
    Outcomes: Reduced age bias, improved retention and knowledge transfer, support for career longevity.


8. Social Media, Confirmation Bias and Perception Shaping

Concept: Demystifying how media (mainstream and social) fuels polarisation, tribalism, and confirmation bias—and how to counteract these dynamics in organisations.
Purpose: Tackling the digital dimension of exclusion and creating more critical, inclusive conversations.
Structure:

  • Case studies: how social media shapes perceptions

  • Debates and reflective exercises on “information bubbles”

  • Media literacy tools for the workplace
    Outcomes: Greater awareness and ability to challenge divisive narratives, healthier digital cultures.


These ideas, grounded in the vivid examples and values from the episode, will foster the kind of bold learning and leadership that Inclusion Bites so passionately champions. Would you like suggested session outlines or example activities for any of these concepts?

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  1. True inclusion thrives when we move beyond policies and create space for authentic stories. Immersive drama and real conversations turn listeners into empowered learners—change starts with connection.

  2. Workplace 'banter' can be a tricky line. Giving teams the power to use a simple safe word like "not cool" helps everyone manage boundaries and keep humour inclusive—without stifling authenticity.

  3. Leadership is not just about trust; it’s about integrity. When leaders act with transparency and support, people feel empowered to bring their whole selves to work and real change follows.

  4. Flexible working is not just a perk, it’s essential for real belonging. Balancing personal and organisational culture lets people thrive at work and at home. The best workplaces trust people to do great work, wherever they are.

  5. Powerful learning happens when people see, feel, and share stories—not just listen to lectures. Experiential learning brings hidden biases to the surface, sparking honest conversation and bold leadership.

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When trust is missing, people hide mistakes, avoid sharing ideas, and put up barriers. The result? Innovation dries up, engagement stalls, and talented people don’t bring their best.

So, what can you do as a leader to foster trust? First, listen before you judge—really listen, without interrupting. Next, follow through on your promises. If you say you’ll support your team, show it through consistent actions, not just words. And third, admit when you don’t have all the answers—vulnerability goes a long way in building authenticity.

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Subject: Brave Learning, Bold Leadership – New Episode of Inclusion Bites!

Hello Inclusion Bites family,

Pull up a chair, pour yourself a brew, and get ready to dive into a truly engaging episode! This week, Joanne Lockwood welcomes the brilliant Pippa O’Brien, learning innovator and founder of Proda, for an eye-opening chat titled Brave Learning, Bold Leadership.

What’s in it for you? Whether you’re tuning in during the morning rush or winding down after a busy day, you’ll leave with more than just new ideas – you’ll get real, practical ways to make inclusion happen.

Here are 5 keys you’ll learn from this episode:

  1. Storytelling as a Force for Inclusion: Discover how immersive drama and real lived experiences go beyond box-ticking and actually spark meaningful conversations at every level of an organisation.

  2. Creating Safe Environments for Honesty: Learn how to foster psychological safety, where everyone can speak up, challenge bias, and be themselves – without fear of backlash.

  3. Why Flexibility and Trust Go Hand in Hand: Find out why enforcing a “one size fits all” return-to-office policy misses out on the rich tapestry of human experience – and how trust powers true flexibility.

  4. Banishing ‘Banter Anxiety’: Pippa shares practical ways teams can develop safe words to keep banter respectful, so everyone can enjoy camaraderie without crossing lines.

  5. Turning Sceptics into Allies: Watch the magic happen when even the most resistant team members move from cynicism (“this woke nonsense!”) to surprising enlightenment, just by engaging authentically.

A unique fact from this episode:
Did you know that Pippa’s earliest roles were as a chef and hotel manager – two fields where she had to break gender stereotypes and, in her own words, “be tougher, harder, stronger” just to be taken seriously? This lived experience fuels her passion for giving a voice to those who often feel unheard.

Ready for more?
Listen to this episode for laughter, candid stories, and that trademark Inclusion Bites mix of challenge and inspiration. There’s never been a better time to lean into bold learning and leadership.

👉 Catch the full episode now!
Listen to Inclusion Bites: Brave Learning, Bold Leadership

Enjoyed what you heard? Share your thoughts or a story of your own—Joanne loves hearing from you at jo.lockwood@seechangehappen.co.uk. And if you’d like to step up and join as a guest, don’t be shy!

Let’s keep challenging, reflecting, and building a world where everyone belongs. Until next time: stay curious, stay kind, and keep sparking change.

Warm regards,

The Inclusion Bites Team

Potted Summary

Brave Learning, Bold Leadership finds Joanne Lockwood and Pippa O'Brien exploring the transformative potential of immersive storytelling in workplace inclusion. Pippa shares her experiences as a learning innovator, explaining how drama-driven learning can challenge biases, build psychological safety, and empower authentic allyship across generational and organisational divides. Their conversation also tackles trust, flexibility, and the evolving definitions of leadership in today’s workplace, providing listeners with actionable inspiration for fostering cultures of belonging and empowerment.


In this conversation we discuss

👉 Immersive drama learning
👉 Challenging workplace bias
👉 Trust & authentic allyship


Here are a few of our favourite quotable moments

  • "People show up for work, they do the best that they can in the moment and what's under the surface is like this massive iceberg that you just don't see."

  • "The only way we could do that was to create a really safe environment where people felt they could genuinely say what they believe."

  • "As long as I'm still relevant, I'll. I'll be continuing. I don't, I couldn't imagine retiring really."


Ready to rethink learning and leadership?
Dive into this episode for powerful stories, challenging questions, and inspiring perspectives on inclusion and belonging. Hear first-hand how immersive storytelling sparks lasting change and motivates action in the workplace. Listen now at Inclusion Bites and be part of the conversation shaping tomorrow’s inclusive leaders!

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LinkedIn Poll Opening Summary:

On the latest episode of The Inclusion Bites Podcast, “Brave Learning, Bold Leadership”, Joanne Lockwood chats with Pippa O’Brien about creating truly immersive and inclusive learning experiences. From the value of storytelling and experiential drama to the necessity of trust, empathy, and genuinely embedding values, we explored what truly helps people feel included, heard, and empowered to challenge bias in the workplace.

Poll Question:
What do you believe is the most powerful driver for real inclusion at work? 💡

Poll Options:

  1. 🎭 Experiential storytelling

  2. 🤝 Trust-based leadership

  3. 🗣 Open, honest dialogue

  4. 🏆 Living organisational values

#InclusionBites #Belonging #PeopleExperience #Leadership #Inclusion

Why Vote:

Your voice shapes the conversation! 🌍 Share your view and see what others across sectors believe makes the biggest difference to fostering inclusion and belonging in the workplace. Let’s spark bold action together!

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🌟 Just listened to the latest episode of the Inclusion Bites Podcast: "Brave Learning, Bold Leadership" with Joanne Lockwood and Pippa O’Brien – and it’s a must-hear for anyone driving change in HR, EDI, or senior leadership! 🌟

What stood out? The practical power of immersive storytelling and real-world drama in fostering inclusion at every level — not just in a classroom, but on the frontline. Pippa’s approach to transforming workplace culture by meeting people where they are (especially those whom traditional learning has failed) is a wake-up call for us all. 🚚👷‍♀️

The discussion dug deep into:

  • The iceberg of lived experience beneath every colleague’s surface

  • Building trust and integrity as the bedrock of leadership 🤝

  • Challenging our own biases and breaking echo chambers

  • Making inclusion accessible, tangible, and – crucially – measurable

It’s a vivid reminder: Inclusion isn’t about policing — it’s about compassion, curiosity, and co-creating a workplace where everyone can belong and thrive.

We need more conversations like these to inspire real change, not just tick boxes. Let’s keep igniting inclusion, one bold conversation at a time! 🔥

#EDI #Leadership #InclusionBites #WorkplaceCulture #PeopleFirst #BraveLearning #Belonging

L&D Insights

Inclusion Bites Podcast | Episode 175 – Key Takeaways for Senior Leaders, HR & EDI Professionals

Top Insights

  1. Experiential Learning Transforms Behaviour
    Traditional ‘tick-box’ training is failing frontline and operational teams – especially those with lower literacy levels or limited engagement. Pippa O’Brien’s immersive drama and storytelling approach creates authentic, real-world learning scenarios, enabling learners to understand complex inclusion topics through active involvement rather than passive reception.
    “From the moment they arrived, they were immersed into a real life drama...allowing them to observe and then talk about it afterwards.”

  2. Lived Experience Brings Depth, but Interaction Creates Change
    Lived experience stories are powerful, but without thoughtful interaction and reflection, they may not produce real change. The learning happens in the dialogue—when people are invited to challenge, comment, and reflect on what they’ve seen, especially in psychologically safe environments.
    “It’s creating firing points in our brains. That’s where the experiential, the storytelling with interaction, kicks in.”

  3. Allyship is Active, Not Passive
    Leaders and managers at all levels must embody and model allyship—especially for communities underrepresented in their organisations. Pippa stresses that effective allyship means knowing how to challenge upwards and across, creating avenues for all voices to be heard, and not defaulting to easy labels or biases.
    “Their role...is being the ally for people in their organisation and making sure their organisations reflect the communities they serve.”

  4. Trust and Integrity are the Foundations of Inclusion
    Whether a person shares a sensitive experience or raises an idea, leaders must treat this input with respect and integrity. Trust enables authenticity and innovation—when leaders trust their teams and consistently follow through, teams will reciprocate and contribute more openly.
    “You have to prove that you are trustworthy...if they trust that you are a leader with integrity, then they will go with it.”

  5. The Importance of Flexible Working—One Size No Longer Fits All
    The debate on returning to the office is fundamentally about power and bias. Leaders must challenge assumptions about what ‘good work’ looks like and design policies truly inclusive of people’s family, community, and self—recognising that workplace belonging isn’t traded for someone’s personal culture.
    “I want my culture, like my pension. My personal culture should be first, and your culture is something I borrow while I’m here.”

  6. Banishing the ‘Banter Police’ – Safe Words & Self-Managed Inclusion
    Inclusion isn’t about eradicating all workplace banter but giving teams tools (e.g., safe words) for managing boundaries gracefully—allowing for candour without fear and preventing minor infractions becoming major grievances.
    “They’ve gone with ‘not cool’. Anybody can use it as a full stop. No explanation needed.”


Aha Moments 💡

  • Learning sticks when people are emotionally engaged and invested—especially through drama, role play, and challenge.

  • Bias is reaffirmed when unchallenged—diverse voices are critical to disrupting echo chambers at every organisational level.

  • Change is most profound in sceptics—those who resist may ultimately effect the biggest shifts when reached.

  • Inclusion is a leadership behaviour, not just an HR function—every leader sets the tone for speaking up, trust, and belonging.

  • Personal culture can't be subsumed by corporate culture; holistic inclusion recognises people as whole, multidimensional beings.


What Should Leaders Do Differently? 🛠️

  • Rethink your L&D toolkit—swap out dry compliance eLearning for experiential, story-driven and emotion-based learning interventions, particularly for operational and frontline roles.

  • Build safe environments for real talk—enable structured dialogue, reflection, and respectful challenge, not just one-way storytelling.

  • Champion and model allyship—especially by senior management; normalise speaking up, challenging upwards, and questioning ‘the way we do things’.

  • Codify and normalise micro-boundaries—introduce team-agreed ‘safe words’ and clear, non-confrontational signals to manage workplace culture and banter in real time.

  • Prioritise flexibility and individual needs—move beyond blanket returns-to-office; treat autonomy and hybrid models as inclusion levers.

  • Live your values, don’t just laminate them—reward behaviours that bring values to life, root out ‘whack-a-mole’ cultures where new ideas get shut down.

  • Encourage continuous reflection—embrace ‘composting’ time for idea generation and problem solving, appreciating that different minds process change in different ways.


For your network 📲
#BraveLearning #InclusionInAction #AllyshipMatters #TrustIsKey #FlexibleWorkplaces


Curious to go deeper? Listen to the full episode at Inclusion Bites Podcast or reach out to Joanne Lockwood at jo.lockwood@seechangehappen.co.uk.

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Transform Your Workplace: Real Stories, Real Inclusion #BraveLearning #InclusionMatters

Hashtags:
#BraveLearning #BoldLeadership #InclusionMatters #AllyshipWorks #StorytellingInclusion


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Inclusive Leadership in Action 🌟

Have you ever wondered why traditional diversity training doesn’t always stick? Let’s talk about what really drives inclusion at work.

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The Power of Storytelling 🎭

Storytelling isn’t just moving—it creates a safe space for lived experiences to surface and be shared. But stories alone aren’t enough. Real impact happens when people interact, reflect, and challenge their own biases.

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Immersive Learning Works 🚦

Role play, drama, and interactive workshops break down barriers and get everyone—yes, even the sceptics—involved. When participants see real scenarios and discuss their reactions, they start seeing their own assumptions and biases.

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Allyship & Trust 🤝

True inclusion isn’t about policing language or constant correction. It’s about building trust so everyone feels safe to speak up, share, and challenge respectfully. Safe words like “not cool” or “mate” can help set boundaries on banter without shutting down connection.

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Flexible Leadership = Inclusive Leadership ⏳

Flexible working isn’t just a perk. It’s essential for genuine inclusion, recognising that people thrive when they can balance work and life in their own way. Trust people, give them context, and let them bring their whole selves to work.

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How Will You Lead Differently? 🚀

If you want your team to flourish, focus on building trust, using real stories, and embracing flexible, human-first leadership. Challenge your own biases, listen deeply, and let innovation come from every voice.

Thanks for watching! Remember, together we can make a difference. Stay connected, stay inclusive! See you next time. ✨

Glossary of Terms and Phrases
# Specialist Concepts and Terminology from "Brave Learning, Bold Leadership" Episode

Below is a list of words and phrases from this episode of the Inclusion Bites Podcast that are not widely used in everyday discourse but feature in the discussion, along with their definitions as implied by the episode’s context:

- **Immersive Drama**  
  A learning technique involving participants actively engaging in realistic dramatic scenarios to simulate and explore real-world workplace inclusion challenges.

- **Lived Experience**  
  Refers to the first-hand accounts and perspectives of individuals, often used in inclusion work to emphasise authentic voices rather than theoretical or second-hand knowledge.

- **Allyship**  
  The practice of actively supporting marginalised groups, particularly in professional settings, by advocating for equity, inclusion, and standing up against prejudice.

- **Experiential Storytelling**  
  A dynamic method of using interactive, real-life narratives to engage learners, prompting reflection and emotional connection, as opposed to consuming stories passively (e.g., watching TV or films).

- **Rumination**  
  In this context, it denotes the process of deeply reflecting or thinking repeatedly about an experience or learning point, leading to a greater internalisation of inclusive behaviours.

- **Safe Environment**  
  An intentionally created space—physical or psychological—where individuals feel secure and able to express themselves honestly without fear of judgement or retaliation.

- **Echo Chamber**  
  A situation or environment where a group’s beliefs are reinforced by repetitive communication within the group and alternative viewpoints are absent or actively excluded.

- **Challenging Up**  
  The act of questioning or calling out inappropriate or non-inclusive behaviours in those of higher seniority or authority, often seen as difficult but necessary for cultural change.

- **Whack-a-Mole Culture**  
  A metaphor describing organisations where new ideas or behaviours are quickly suppressed or dismissed, rather than explored and encouraged.

- **Transactional Analysis**  
  A psychological framework referenced in relation to workplace dynamics; it categorises interactions as ‘adult-to-adult’, ‘parent-to-child’, etc., highlighting the impact of communication style on outcomes.

- **Keyboard Warrior**  
  An individual who expresses strong (often negative) opinions online under the perceived protection of anonymity, behaving in ways they would not face-to-face.

- **Band Tolerance / Banter**  
  The flexible threshold employees have for playful teasing or jokes in the workplace, which varies depending on relationships, context, and individual sensitivities.

- **Safe Word (in teamwork)**  
  A pre-agreed word or phrase used within a team to signal that workplace banter or discussion has crossed a personal boundary and should stop immediately with no questions asked.

- **Confirmation Bias**  
  The psychological tendency to notice, favour, or remember information that confirms one’s existing beliefs while ignoring contradictory data.

- **Reflective Behaviour**  
  A learning approach in which individuals or teams pause to think critically about their experiences, decisions, or learning, thereby deepening understanding and future application.

- **Composting Time**  
  A metaphor for the mental process of letting ideas develop subconsciously over time, likened to compost breaking down before producing something valuable.

- **Gig Economy**  
  The labour market characterised by short-term, flexible, and freelance work rather than traditional long-term employment agreements.

- **Culture for Commute**  
  A phrase describing the perceived organisational offer of a ‘positive workplace culture’ to justify employees’ (often burdensome) commutes, explored critically in the episode.

- **Interpersonal Integrity**  
  The quality of handling private or sensitive information shared at work with trust and honesty, underpinning supportive and safe work relationships.

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These specialist terms enrich the episode’s exploration of DEI (Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion), leadership, and innovative learning. Each reflects key themes or methods discussed by Pippa O'Brien and Joanne Lockwood in their conversation.
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Why Listen

If you’re ready to disrupt the status quo and fuel a transformation in inclusive cultures, this episode of the Inclusion Bites Podcast is your essential listen. In ‘Brave Learning, Bold Leadership,’ I, Joanne Lockwood, am joined by Pippa O’Brien—an influential learning innovator and founder of Proda—whose passion lies in transforming how frontline teams experience inclusion through immersive drama and authentic conversation. Our discussion is built around the focus keyword ‘Brave Learning, Bold Leadership’, but we go much deeper—unravelling what it truly means to drive Positive People Experiences and make Culture Change a practical reality.

Pippa’s expertise is rooted in real-world impact. She’s known for catalysing transformation by empowering people at all levels of an organisation to engage in meaningful, sometimes uncomfortable dialogue. If you’ve ever wondered how to bring genuine inclusion, trust, and psychological safety to life in the workplace—or how to move beyond the shallow tick-box exercises—this episode gives you the tools, stories, and mindset shift you need.

We begin by exploring the intricate layers beneath the surface of workplace dynamics. I recall our previous collaboration, where storytelling was harnessed as a powerful catalyst for shifting mindsets, especially around transgender inclusion. The vital lesson? Every team member brings unseen life experiences to work—there’s no ‘one-size-fits-all’ playbook. Our dialogue underscores that leadership must not just ‘talk’ trust and integrity but live it; supporting people where they truly are.

Pippa shares how drama-based learning immerses participants, even those with lower literacy or traditional educational barriers, in emotionally resonant scenarios. This method does more than tick the compliance box. It unlocks self-reflection, creating space for people to challenge their own biases and assumptions. Through her programmes, organisations see not just compliance, but genuine behavioural change—making inclusion experiential, not just theoretical.

One of the most compelling takeaways centres on the power of safe environments in fostering brave conversations. Pippa describes how creating psychological safety, even for those with initially folded arms and scepticism, paves the way for transformative insights. It’s often the loudest sceptics who, by the end, shift the furthest—proving that when done well, immersive learning reaches hearts and minds.

We also delve into the relevance of leadership modelling. Senior leaders, Pippa insists, must champion allyship from the top. When values are truly embedded—not just framed on the wall—but lived daily, organisations can bridge the gap between corporate culture and individuals’ own identities. It’s this commitment to Positive People Experiences that not only breaks down silos but forges deep, lasting connections between people.

Culture Change comes alive when we challenge the ‘whack-a-mole’ mindset, where new ideas are dismissed and difference is stifled. Pippa’s analogy illustrates how openness, feedback, and explaining the ‘why’ behind decisions lead to learning, growth, and trust. This episode doesn’t shy away from discussing how entrenched systems—whether it’s the demand to ‘return to the office’ or the inertia around flexible working—are often underpinned by unchecked privilege. We explore how truly listening and adapting to the needs of diverse talent creates a workplace where everyone thrives.

Brave Learning isn’t always comfortable. Real change requires humility—the willingness to reflect, sometimes get things wrong, to challenge, and to hold space for others’ growth. As we share stories about banter, microaggressions, and bias, we highlight practical rituals teams can adopt to manage boundaries and respect in a human, light-touch way—such as the use of ‘safe words’ to pause unhelpful chat.

If you’re an inclusion or HR leader, line manager, or simply a passionate advocate for belonging, you’ll come away with actionable insights for designing interventions that drive real impact. But more than this: You’ll feel inspired. This episode is a call to lead with courage and compassion, to cultivate environments where different brains, backgrounds, and perspectives are not just tolerated but celebrated.

Pippa’s own career journey demonstrates the power of daring leadership and personal authenticity—even when the odds stack up against you. From battling imposter syndrome to discovering her sense of purpose through the unwavering support of an inclusive leader, her story is one of resilience and hope—a beacon for anyone seeking to drive Culture Change from wherever they sit.

Tune in to find out how you can harness the energy of drama, storytelling, and Brave Learning to revolutionise your own workplace. Leave with not only big ideas but the practical details that make Culture Change stick and drive Positive People Experiences for all.


Closing Summary and Call to Action

As we close this transformative episode, let’s consolidate the essential learning points and actionable takeaways that will empower you to champion Brave Learning and Bold Leadership, driving both Positive People Experiences and systemic Culture Change:

1. Embrace Real-World Storytelling:

  • Use authentic, lived experiences to ground learning in reality and move beyond theory.

  • Storytelling, particularly when interactive and immersive (e.g. role plays, drama), helps participants resonate on an emotional level, unlocking deeper understanding and empathy.

2. Build Psychological Safety:

  • Establish environments where it’s safe to voice opinions, make mistakes, and challenge assumptions.

  • Psychological safety is the breeding ground for innovation and inclusion.

3. Champion Allyship and Trust from the Top:

  • Senior leadership must model ally behaviour, showing commitment to inclusion not just in words, but in deeds.

  • Trust is built and maintained when people see integrity in action.

4. Recognise Bias—and Actively Challenge It:

  • We are all susceptible to confirmation bias—only noticing information that reinforces our assumptions.

  • Embed bias-challenging exercises into daily work-life, ask questions, and invite multiple perspectives.

5. Engage All Learning Styles:

  • Avoid ‘one-size-fits-all’ approaches. Consider the varying educational and language backgrounds within your teams.

  • Immersive and participative programmes engage everyone, not just the academically inclined.

6. Make Values ‘Live’:

  • Ensure organisational values are reflected in everyday behaviour, not just abstract principles.

  • Equip managers to support innovation, genuinely listen to ideas, and offer constructive feedback.

7. Harness the Power of Safe Words and Gentle Call-ins:

  • Equip teams with practical rituals, such as agreed safe words (“Not cool”, “Mate”) to signal when banter or behaviour crosses a line.

  • Encourage calling people in (with empathy and understanding) rather than calling out, to preserve dignity and foster growth.

8. Bridge Organisational and Personal Culture:

  • Recognise that people bring their community and family culture to work. Organisational culture should be adaptive and welcoming.

  • Avoid the trap of enforcing a monolithic ‘corporate culture’ at the expense of individuality.

9. Cultivate Flexibility and Trust People to Deliver:

  • Offer autonomy and flexible solutions for diverse talents, recognising there’s rarely a one-size-fits-all work pattern.

  • Decouple leadership from unnecessary bureaucracy and focus on outcomes, not presenteeism.

10. Encourage Continuous Learning and Reflection:

  • Learning isn’t a one-off. Use cascading modules, reflection, and return sessions to embed new mindsets and behaviours.

  • Encourage self-awareness and vulnerability; leaders should model reflective practice openly.

11. Spotlight Diverse Journeys:

  • Acknowledge that every team member’s path, including leaders, is marked by unique challenges, setbacks, and growth.

  • Encourage sharing of career stories, fostering empathy and understanding across teams.

12. Foster Community and Positive People Experiences:

  • Prioritise belonging and connection—these drive engagement, wellbeing, and retention.

  • Make inclusion part of your brand, from onboarding to exit interviews.

13. Apply Learning Flexibly with Compassion:

  • Not everyone arrives at inclusion in the same way. Use patience and compassion when supporting others through their journey.

14. Tackle Ageism and Future-Proof Careers:

  • Recognise the demographic trends shaping the modern workplace—people are working longer and want meaning and flexibility.

  • Value the experience and perspectives of older workers as much as Gen Z and beyond.

Call to Action:

  • Take immediate action: Discuss one practical idea with your team this week.

  • Review how your organisation’s values are embedded and lived every day.

  • Pilot a drama-based learning session, or set up a storytelling circle.

  • Advocate for the use of ‘safe words’ and feedback rituals within your team.

  • Engage with and learn from sceptics—they may become your strongest allies.

  • Share this episode with a colleague or on social platforms to spark wider conversations on Culture Change and Positive People Experiences.


Outro

Thank you for tuning in to this episode of the Inclusion Bites Podcast. If you found value in these insights on Brave Learning, Bold Leadership, and how drama and storytelling can revolutionise Positive People Experiences and spark real Culture Change, please like and subscribe to the channel. For more resources and transformative stories, visit our website:

SEE Change Happen: https://seechangehappen.co.uk

Discover more episodes of The Inclusion Bites Podcast: https://seechangehappen.co.uk/inclusion-bites-listen

Stay connected, keep the conversation going, and don’t forget to share this episode with anyone interested in driving inclusivity, trust, and belonging in their organisation.


Stay curious, stay kind, and stay inclusive - Joanne Lockwood

Root Cause Analyst - Why!

Certainly. As a Root Cause Analyst, I’ll draw directly from the transcript of “Brave Learning, Bold Leadership” (Inclusion Bites Podcast, Episode 175), identify key problems brought to light in the discussion, and use the ‘5 Whys’ methodology to probe deeply into underlying causes. Finally, I’ll summarise my analysis and recommend solutions.


Key Problem Identified:
Resistance or disengagement with inclusion and learning initiatives in the workplace, particularly among frontline or manual workers and certain leadership demographics.


1st Why: Why does resistance or disengagement in inclusion and learning initiatives exist?

Because many employees—especially those in manual or frontline roles and some execs—either see these sessions as irrelevant (“woke nonsense”), intimidating, or disconnected from their lived experience and learning style.

Transcript Example: “I don't want to be here. This is all a bunch of woke nonsense... you can see people with their arms folded.”
“The bulk of their workforce is people who are really skilled but they're manual workers... the average reading age for a lot of these operatives is 11.”


2nd Why: Why are these initiatives perceived as irrelevant, intimidating, or disconnected?

Because the format of traditional inclusion training often fails to engage participants meaningfully, relying too heavily on legalistic presentations or terminology, and does not account for varying literacy levels, learning preferences, or hands-on work.

“Here's slide 199 which just describes the Equality Act of 2010 probably wasn't going to be the real way forward for this audience... I had to be really mindful that for whatever reason they had this lower literacy level... For whatever reason school had failed them in some way.”


3rd Why: Why do these traditional, inaccessible formats persist in inclusion training?

Because organisations often implement inclusion initiatives through checkbox compliance or legacy methods, lacking innovation or a tailored approach that responds to the actual needs or backgrounds of their workforce.

“We really wanted people who... talk about how people have made assumptions about them and what they were capable of based on their age... It can be positive or not so positive. But equally there's something here around challenging those biases.”


4th Why: Why do organisations stick to legacy or checkbox approaches without tailoring?

Because leaders and training designers may lack lived experience or fail to actively consult a diverse range of stakeholders when creating programmes, leading to a disconnect between intent and impact.

“With that team... bring in some data at that point. But also, more importantly, do something around allyship, because that's their role... making sure that their organisations reflect the communities...”
“It’s about listening to what our clients need, what their aspirations are, what they want to achieve.”


5th Why: Why don’t leaders and designers actively listen, consult, and co-create with those affected?

Because there is often a hierarchical or siloed culture within organisations, underpinned by lack of trust and habitual approaches where decision-makers don’t prioritise trust-building, genuine listening, or shared ownership in change initiatives.

“I struggle to trust people that don't do what they say they're going to do... you have to prove that you are trustworthy... if they trust that you are a leader with integrity, then they will go with it and they'll buy into it.”
“It's around building a culture that's based on trust...”


Summary of Findings (Root Cause)

The root cause of poor engagement and resistance to inclusion and learning initiatives is a combination of:

  • Systemic habit of deploying non-tailored, compliance-led training

  • Cultural disconnect and lack of empathy or engagement from leadership and training designers

  • Failure to invest in co-creation or genuine listening with affected employees

  • Underlying issues of organisational trust, legacy bias, and risk aversion


Suggested Solutions

1. Co-Design and Consultation:
Develop inclusion programmes in active partnership with the intended audience—across all demographics and literacy levels—to ensure relevance and buy-in.

2. Innovation in Delivery:
Employ immersive, experiential approaches such as drama, storytelling, and structured roleplay to create emotional resonance and reduce intimidation. Tailor content to participants' backgrounds and learning preferences.

3. Leadership Modelling and Allyship:
Equip leaders with the skills and accountability to act as genuine allies, modelling vulnerability and curiosity. Make trust-building a part of leadership KPIs.

4. Safe Spaces and Psychological Safety:
Foster environments where all employees feel able to share perspectives and challenge respectfully—leveraging mechanisms like shared ‘safe words’ for difficult conversations and banter.

5. Embedding Values in Daily Practice:
Rather than treating inclusion as an ‘add-on’, integrate lived values and inclusive behaviours into everyday practices, performance conversations, and reward systems at all levels.


In short: By moving away from one-size-fits-all ‘compliance’ and cultivating genuine inclusion through collaboration, trust, empathy, and innovation, organisations can unlock brave learning and bold leadership—for everyone.

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🌍✨ What does it really take for workplaces to move beyond ticking boxes and ignite true inclusion?


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💡 Did you know? The most memorable learning happens when lived experiences come alive—challenging biases, sparking empathy, and unlocking new ways to lead.


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Brave Learning, Bold Leadership: Six Transformative Conversations from My Dialogue with Pippa O’Brien
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Delve into inclusive cultures as Joanne Lockwood unpacks six transformative insights from her conversation with Pippa O’Brien. Discover the role of storytelling, allyship, trust, generational change, wellbeing, and personal growth in shaping modern workplaces that nurture belonging for all.


When I had the pleasure of sitting down with Pippa O’Brien, learning innovator and founder of PODA, we set out to explore how bold leadership and brave learning underpin truly inclusive cultures. The stories we shared and the themes we uncovered stretched far beyond traditional thinking, challenging every assumption about how people learn, thrive, and belong at work. Here’s my recount of the six major threads that wove through our engaging conversation—a journey into the real mechanics of building inclusive cultures where everyone’s story has weight.


1. Storytelling as a Catalyst: Sparking Inclusion with Every Narrative

If there’s one thing Pippa and I couldn’t stop circling back to, it was the transformational power of storytelling in shaping inclusive cultures. Too often, workplace learning is reduced to bland slides and compliance checklists, especially when aiming to explain something as nuanced as inclusion. Pippa described her immersive drama sessions, where real stories (including my own, and Marie’s) became living examples, not just dry case studies. She’s been breaking the mould by casting learners as participants in the story, asking them to feed lines to actors and see events unfold from a position of empathy. Here’s something that sparked my curiosity—have you ever considered how a simple change in perspective, such as viewing a situation through another’s eyes, might rupture our biases or habitual responses? Isn’t it intriguing to think that the “playbook” for inclusion is—by nature—unfinished, forever evolving with each unique employee story?


2. Everyday Allyship: Beyond Policy, Into Practice

Real allyship was the thread running through every practical tip and reflective moment. Pippa’s approach isn’t about ticking a box or memorising key phrases from the Equality Act—it’s about building a genuine climate of trust and responsiveness. We reflected on the drama scenarios where the “ally” is created not in name, but through trusting relationships and courageous conversations. One curiosity I’m left with: If there’s no playbook for every scenario, how do we ensure people not only say the right thing, but do it at the right moment? How might we equip leaders with practical scripts or safe words—like “not cool”—to disrupt toxic banter and set new standards? Inclusive cultures rely on these micro-moments, yet so often, the silent bystander does more harm than open disagreement.


3. Trust and Integrity in Leadership: The Pillars of Inclusive Cultures

We dived into how trust and integrity power the most authentic forms of leadership, especially in moments where employees’ lived experiences are hidden beneath the surface, like icebergs. I shared my frustration with executive rhetoric around “culture”—is it just an excuse to force commutes? Why do some leaders see flexibility as a threat, when it’s the very thing that enables people to flourish as their best selves? Pippa’s stories of leadership gone wrong and right were poignant reminders: Trust isn’t just given; it’s compounded by thousands of decisions where leaders show, not tell, their values. Here’s a thought—perhaps a truly inclusive culture begins when personal, team, and organisational “cultures” find space to co-exist, not compete.


4. Generational Change and Unseen Barriers: From Accessibility to Age Dynamics

One theme that surfaced frequently was the need to acknowledge the different generational journeys within our workplaces. Pippa spoke about designing for a workforce with an average reading age of 11, where top-down, text-heavy training would inevitably fail. By using immersive drama and real conversations, she’s boldly breaking down barriers to engagement. I’m left wondering: How might hidden forms of exclusion—like literacy levels or differing generational values—be invisibly eroding inclusive cultures, even in well-meaning organisations? With Gen Z, millennials, and an increasing older workforce converging, are we really ready to reimagine the future of work to meet everyone’s reality?


5. Wellbeing and the Flexibility Dividend: The Case for Human-Centred Work

Our dialogue about lockdowns, remote work, and the competing pulls of work versus life was both timely and personal. The so-called “culture” that organisations cling to can sometimes come at the expense of wellbeing and personal identity. Pippa shared how edicts about “returning to the office” are often rooted in the norms and privileges of a dominant demographic—but are these the voices we want dictating the rules of engagement? I posed the challenge: How might we pivot towards inclusive cultures that treat work as something personalised, portable, and harmonious with family and community life? Isn’t that the kind of world—not just workplace—we all deserve?


6. Growth Against the Odds: The Lifelong Journey of Inclusion for Leaders and Learners

Bravery isn’t just for motivational posters; it’s at the heart of every story of career growth against the odds. Pippa’s own path, from chef through to learning leader, is illuminated by moments of imposter syndrome, unorthodox routes, and the immeasurable impact of a single mentor who took a chance on her. Her message is as relevant today as ever: Organisations must nurture inclusive cultures not only through broad strategies, but by unlocking the potential in every “ordinary” employee. Curiously, what if every leader saw themselves as the person who could spark someone else’s defining moment? Would we, perhaps, see inclusion for what it really is—a daily act of courage, humility and innovation?


Conclusion: Forging Truly Inclusive Cultures, One Brave Conversation at a Time

As I wrapped up my exchange with Pippa, I was struck by the extraordinariness of “ordinary” people and stories in shaping inclusive cultures. From storytelling and allyship to trust, generational understanding, wellbeing, and personal transformation, every thread comes back to the human urge to belong—and the bravery it takes to lead change. If you’re curious about building workplaces where inclusion isn’t an initiative, but an instinct, start with the questions we raised. Because, after all, inclusive cultures flourish when everyone—no matter how quiet or contrary—has space to speak, learn, and grow.


Discover more about inclusive cultures, brave learning, and bold leadership at Inclusion Bites. If you have thoughts, stories, or a vision to share, reach out to me at jo.lockwood@seechangehappen.co.uk—let’s keep the conversation alive.

TikTok Summary

How brave is your learning? How bold is your leadership? 💡✨

In this episode of Inclusion Bites, Joanne Lockwood and Pippa O’Brien serve up real talk on inclusion, drama-based learning, and the power of compassionate leadership. From immersive storytelling to safe words for banter, discover how to spark real change in your workplace—and why trust and integrity matter more than ever.

Ready for fresh perspectives on creating belonging? Hit play, get inspired, and join the movement for a more inclusive world. 🌍❤️

🎧 Dive into the full episode here: https://seechangehappen.co.uk/inclusion-bites-listen

#InclusionBites #BraveLearning #BoldLeadership #InclusionMatters #PodcastTaster

Slogans and Image Prompts

Certainly! Here are some memorable slogans, soundbites, and quotes drawn directly from the "Brave Learning, Bold Leadership" episode of The Inclusion Bites Podcast. Each is accompanied by a detailed AI image generation prompt for merchandise, as well as suggested hashtag uses.


1. "Ignite the Spark of Inclusion."

Image Prompt:
A dynamic, modern illustration of a radiant spark or flame, glowing in vibrant rainbow hues, set in the centre of a clean, white mug. The words “Ignite the Spark of Inclusion” curve above and below the flame. The background evokes warmth and positivity, with subtle icons representing diversity—such as abstract figures of varied shapes, colours, and genders—encircling the spark.
Suggested Hashtag: #IgniteInclusion


2. "Brave Learning, Bold Leadership."

Image Prompt:
A powerful and minimalist design showing a stylised, courageous figure standing on a book, holding a torch aloft. Behind, a vibrant, abstract sunrise symbolises new beginnings. The text is bold, modern, and inspiring. Use strong primary colours with gold accents to signify bravery and leadership, ideal for t-shirts or notebook covers.
Suggested Hashtag: #BraveLearning #BoldLeadership


3. "Transforming Everyday People into Empowered Learners."

Image Prompt:
A transformative scene where a diverse group of individuals is stepping through a door of light from grey monochrome into full colour, visibly growing more confident and empowered. Subtle visual metaphors—e.g., butterflies emerging, books opening—add depth. Warm, optimistic colour palette. Ideal for mugs or tote bags.
Suggested Hashtag: #EmpoweredLearners


4. "Turn Up. Be Human. Be Heard."

Image Prompt:
A group of hands, each of a different skin tone and ability, in the “raise your hand” gesture. Each arm has unique bracelets or tattoos symbolising individuality. The background is a vibrant, inclusive rainbow gradient, and the message is set in bold letters, encouraging active participation and authenticity. Perfect for stickers or t-shirts.
Suggested Hashtag: #BeHumanBeHeard


5. "Culture is Something I Borrow While I'm Here."

Image Prompt:
A suitcase covered in colourful stickers of world flags and family crests, symbolising personal and borrowed cultures. The case sits open, with light flowing in, representing openness and adaptability. The phrase is inscribed in playful, travel-inspired lettering—ideal for water bottles or journals.
Suggested Hashtag: #BorrowedCulture


6. "Trust is the Foundation of Inclusion."

Image Prompt:
A stylised architectural foundation stone, etched with the word “TRUST”, holding up an abstract, interconnected community of diverse individuals. Use architectural grey and blue tones with a pop of unity—perhaps a rainbow or golden arch. The words wrap around the base, signifying stability. Great for mugs, desk plaques, or laptops.
Suggested Hashtag: #TrustInInclusion


7. "The Only Way to Change Minds Is Through Stories."

Image Prompt:
A series of open books transforming into speech bubbles, which then morph into intertwined hearts and lightbulbs. Each stage shows progression—knowledge to conversation to empathy and ideas. Warm, inviting palette. This design works well on notebooks, bookmarks, and wall art.
Suggested Hashtag: #ChangeThroughStories


8. "No Room for the Whack-a-Mole Culture."

Image Prompt:
A cartoonish, tongue-in-cheek depiction of a classic whack-a-mole arcade game, but with cheerful moles confidently holding “Idea!” signs above their heads, dodging the mallet. Emphasise fun and resilience, using bold primary colours, for a memorable, humorous mug or t-shirt graphic.
Suggested Hashtag: #NoWhackAMoleCulture


9. "Not Cool: The Power of the Safe Word."

Image Prompt:
Two diverse colleagues share a knowing look across a casual workspace, both holding “Not Cool” paddles. Around them, dialogue bubbles with light-hearted, positive expressions. The text “Not Cool” is clear and prominent, acknowledging the importance of respectful boundaries. Perfect for stickers and laptop decals.
Suggested Hashtag: #NotCool


10. "Inclusion: Disrupt the Status Quo."

Image Prompt:
A sleek graphic showing a domino chain of grey, faceless figures interrupted mid-fall by a colourful, radiant character who halts the sequence. The figure shines brightly, symbolising courageous disruption. Clean monochrome background with brilliant accenting, ideal for statement tees or banners.
Suggested Hashtag: #DisruptForInclusion


Feel free to remix these with your brand imagery. They encapsulate the spirit and practical wisdom of the podcast, ready to ignite meaning and dialogue wherever people see them!

Inclusion Bites Spotlight

Pippa O’Brien, our guest on Brave Learning, Bold Leadership—this month’s feature on The Inclusion Bites Podcast—invites us to reimagine what learning and leadership mean in the context of workplace inclusion. As a learning innovator and founder of Proda, Pippa has carved a path disrupting traditional models of diversity education by immersing frontline teams in authentic, experiential drama. Her approach centres on the principle that real transformation occurs when everyday individuals are empowered to become active learners, not passive participants in a classroom.

Pippa’s methodology is grounded in storytelling, using lived experiences to humanise abstract concepts and challenge deeply rooted biases. With intuitive awareness of the barriers faced by those with different literacy levels or from marginalised backgrounds, she rejects formulaic, slide-driven sessions in favour of interactive scenarios, role-play, and safe, real dialogue. The result? Powerful “lightbulb” moments where learners see beyond labels, look beneath the surface, and gain the tools—and confidence—to be true allies in a complex world.

During this episode, Pippa unpacks the necessity of trust and integrity in leadership, drawing on her own journey of overcoming imposter syndrome and the impact of mentorship. She explores why flexibility, both in leadership and organisational culture, is fundamental to nurturing a genuine sense of belonging. And, crucially, she illustrates that creating a safe space for courageous conversations can turn even sceptics into advocates—proving that bold learning can spark bold change.

Whether you’re an HR professional, leader, or passionate advocate for inclusion, this conversation with Pippa O’Brien is sure to challenge and inspire. Tune in to Brave Learning, Bold Leadership and discover the art—and impact—of transformative inclusion in action.

YouTube Description

Breaking the Status Quo: Why Inclusion Demands Brave Learning & Bold Leadership

Are you still clinging to tick-box training and expecting real change? It’s time to disrupt old paradigms! In Episode 175 of The Inclusion Bites Podcast, “Brave Learning, Bold Leadership,” host Joanne Lockwood is joined by learning innovator Pippa O’Brien to challenge the limitations of conventional diversity and inclusion approaches.

Pippa shares her groundbreaking work using immersive drama and real-world storytelling to shatter bias, ignite allyship, and foster genuine psychological safety—especially among frontline and executive teams. This episode reveals why storytelling alone isn’t enough; interaction, trust, and integrity must underpin true inclusion at all levels.

What Can You Expect?

  • A candid exploration of how lived experience, storytelling, and interactive learning create impactful, emotionally resonant change.

  • Fresh perspectives on dismantling assumptions, labels, and echo chambers—enabling people to show up authentically.

  • Real strategies for confronting banter boundaries, allyship, and challenging workplace norms without policing or shaming.

  • Inspiring reflections on leadership, psychological safety, and embracing the full spectrum of backgrounds—including age, gender, and social class.

How Will You Think, Feel, or Act Differently?

Listeners are encouraged not just to reflect but to act:

  • Lead with trust and integrity, not by enforcing sterile rules or outdated culture.

  • Dismantle labels and confirmatory bias—recognise the unseen “icebergs” beneath the surface.

  • Embrace flexibility; respect personal and community values, not just corporate cultures.

  • Call in, not just call out—use gentle challenge to win hearts and minds.

  • Foster environments where every voice, regardless of label or background, can spark innovation.

Take Action Now
Join the movement to create workplaces where everyone can thrive and belong. Challenge yourself: How will you move beyond surface-level allyship? Who will you empower, and how will you rewrite your own leadership narrative?

Watch now, subscribe, share, and step up as the brave learner and bold leader our world needs.

#InclusionBites #Inclusion #Belonging #Diversity #Allyship #Leadership #PsychologicalSafety #BraveLearning #BoldLeadership #SEEChangeHappen

Connect with us for more:
Listen to all episodes: Inclusion Bites Podcast
Reach out to Joanne: jo.lockwood@seechangehappen.co.uk

10 Question Quiz

Quiz: Brave Learning, Bold Leadership with Joanne Lockwood (Inclusion Bites Podcast, Host Perspective)


1. Why does Joanne Lockwood emphasise the importance of lived experiences and storytelling in inclusion training?

a) Because they guarantee permanent change in attitudes
b) Because hearing stories alone is enough for learning to occur
c) Because they create powerful emotional connections, but require interactive engagement to create real change
d) Because stories are easier to remember than facts


2. According to Joanne, what is a common reaction she observes when delivering inclusion training sessions?

a) Everyone is instantly enthusiastic and engaged
b) Some attendees are openly resistant or sceptical
c) Attendees mostly remain silent
d) People usually leave early


3. Joanne notes that people who initially resist inclusion training often experience what outcome by the end of the session?

a) Reinforcement of their initial beliefs
b) No change at all
c) The greatest positive transformation in perspective
d) Increased hostility towards inclusion


4. What key element does Joanne identify as essential for an effective inclusive culture, particularly around flexible working?

a) Mandatory office attendance
b) Adherence to the organisation’s traditional culture
c) Trusting people to do a great job and explaining the ‘why’ behind decisions
d) Providing more office perks


5. In discussing organisational culture, what metaphor does Joanne use to illustrate the value of personal versus corporate culture?

a) Culture as a finished painting
b) Culture as a pension you take with you
c) Culture as a rulebook
d) Culture as a meal to be consumed


6. When reflecting on difficult conversations around inclusion, Joanne advocates for what approach?

a) Calling people out harshly in public
b) Creating echo chambers
c) Gentle, friendly, and empathetic calling in
d) Avoiding confrontation entirely


7. Why does Joanne express frustration about inclusion and diversity training participants?

a) Not enough handouts are provided
b) Training rooms are never big enough
c) Frequently, only those already supportive of inclusion attend
d) Too many people talk over each other


8. Joanne identifies which concept as being fundamental to effective leadership and organisational change?

a) Unlimited resources
b) Meticulous rules and documentation
c) Trust and integrity in leadership behaviours
d) Perfection in implementation


9. How does Joanne describe her own approach to problem-solving and learning?

a) Prefers pre-set, step-by-step instructions
b) Needs all plans detailed before starting
c) Comfortable in chaos, trusts her experience and brain to assemble solutions as needed
d) Refuses to take risks


10. As the podcast draws to a close, what does Joanne urge listeners to do to further inclusion?

a) Keep their ideas to themselves
b) Subscribe and share the podcast to amplify voices and drive change
c) Focus only on personal advancement
d) Avoid difficult conversations about inclusion


Answer Key and Rationales

  1. c) Because they create powerful emotional connections, but require interactive engagement to create real change
    Rationale: Joanne discusses that while stories and lived experience are powerful, genuine learning comes when stories are paired with interaction and engagement.

  2. b) Some attendees are openly resistant or sceptical
    Rationale: Joanne observes participants coming in with folded arms, declaring the session ‘woke nonsense’, highlighting initial resistance.

  3. c) The greatest positive transformation in perspective
    Rationale: She notes that the most resistant participants often show the most considerable positive change after the training.

  4. c) Trusting people to do a great job and explaining the ‘why’ behind decisions
    Rationale: Joanne emphasises that effective inclusive culture requires trust and transparent communication rather than inflexible policies.

  5. b) Culture as a pension you take with you
    Rationale: Joanne compares personal culture to a pension, suggesting it’s something people should take with them and value above corporate culture.

  6. c) Gentle, friendly, and empathetic calling in
    Rationale: She prioritises “calling in” over “calling out”, stressing a gentle, understanding approach to inclusion-related conversations.

  7. c) Frequently, only those already supportive of inclusion attend
    Rationale: Joanne voices her frustration that diversity conversations often occur among those who are already convinced, instead of those who most need exposure.

  8. c) Trust and integrity in leadership behaviours
    Rationale: Trust and integrity are identified as fundamental for leaders seeking real impact in inclusion and wider organisational change.

  9. c) Comfortable in chaos, trusts her experience and brain to assemble solutions as needed
    Rationale: Joanne reflects on her comfort working without complete order and her ability to handle last-minute changes due to trust in her own abilities.

  10. b) Subscribe and share the podcast to amplify voices and drive change
    Rationale: She closes by encouraging broadened participation, sharing, and amplification of inclusion narratives.


Summary Paragraph

Joanne Lockwood's approach to brave learning and bold leadership is rooted in the transformative power of lived experiences and storytelling, yet she is quick to highlight that real change demands interactive engagement rather than passive listening. She notes that initial resistance is common during inclusion training, but those who start off most sceptical often experience the most profound shifts in perspective. At the core of fostering an inclusive workplace, Joanne repeatedly returns to the necessity of trust—between colleagues, within leadership, and in organisational culture—explaining that empowering people to do great work, and understanding the ‘why’ behind actions, is paramount. She champions the personal over the corporate, likening personal culture to a portable pension, and insists that leaders must prioritise integrity and trustworthiness above rigidity. Joanne believes in engaging people with empathy, advocating for gentle ‘calling in’ rather than punitive ‘calling out’, and expresses her frustration that inclusion efforts too often address only the already converted. Her own leadership style is distinguished by confidence in managing ambiguity and improvising solutions. Ultimately, Joanne calls on everyone to actively participate in broadening the conversation—by subscribing, sharing, and amplifying voices—to build a truly inclusive world.

Rhyme Scheme and Rhythm Podcast Poetry

Brave Learning, Bold Leadership

In workplaces cold or open skies,
Where quiet fears and bias rise,
The need for trust runs deep and wide—
A place where every soul’s supplied.
No playbook marks the struggles seen,
Beneath the waves, the truth’s unseen:
Each worker brings an iceberg’s mass—
Their stories hidden as they pass.

Immersive drama shapes the day,
Where stories spark new thought and sway;
Banished are countless, lifeless slides—
Instead, real conversation guides.
With manual hands in every trade,
Yet hearts and minds are not dismayed.
When reading’s hard, the drama calls,
Empowering all within these walls.

Assumptions fade when voices share;
A label dropped can clear the air.
Bias, like rust, corrodes our sight
Until we challenge it with light.
So actors take on senior roles
To show how allyship unfolds.
In safe embrace, the truth reveals,
While laughter, learning gently heals.

To challenge up is rarely ease,
Yet courage grows when trust can please.
Remote or present, at the core
We long for life that offers more.
Personal cultures fuse and flow,
When values guide the ships we row.
Innovation needs a chance to speak—
Let not the whack-a-mole critique.

From kitchens bright with chef’s resolve,
To learning’s rooms where problems solve,
A mentor’s faith can shift the ground—
Emerging strengths at last unbound.
Though setbacks haunt the paths we tread,
Great leaders lift our hearts and stead.
With every challenge faced anew,
Empowered teams break through and do.

So honour difference, prize the blend,
Keep curiosity your friend.
Old labels shed, new trust embraced,
A braver, bolder world is chased.
For learning, leading, hearts in hand—
Together standing, strong we’ll stand.

Let stories stir, let drama spark,
And take inclusion to the heart.
Subscribe to hear new voices rise,
And share the change that never dies.

—with thanks to Pippa O’Brien for a fascinating podcast episode

Key Learnings

Key Learning and Takeaway:

The episode "Brave Learning, Bold Leadership" underscores the transformative power of authentic storytelling and immersive, experiential learning in fostering genuine inclusion within organisations. Most crucially, it emphasises that bold leadership is not about having all the answers or rigidly applying a rulebook; true inclusion is created when leaders foster trust, act with integrity, and empower individuals—especially those on the frontline—to become active participants in their own learning journey. Creating safe spaces for honest dialogue, enabling challenges to bias, and making room for diverse voices to shape organisational culture are central to sustainable, impactful inclusion.


Point #1: Storytelling Moves Inclusion Beyond Policy

Inclusion cannot be tick-boxed with policies or compliance slides alone. Pippa’s work demonstrates that storytelling, particularly involving real lived experiences, allows people to see themselves—and others—in the narrative, breaking down stereotypes and assumptions. Immersive scenarios encourage empathy, prompting deeper reflection and ultimately changing hearts and minds.

Point #2: Experiential Learning Engages Reluctant Participants

Experiential and drama-based training is particularly effective in reaching those who might otherwise resist traditional D&I workshops. By involving learners directly—inviting them to ‘feed lines’ to actors or share their perspectives—resistance is transformed into engagement. This interactive approach not only surfaces hidden biases but facilitates open dialogue, making everyone feel part of the change.

Point #3: Leadership Trust and Integrity Are Non-Negotiable

Trust emerges as a foundational value in inclusive leadership. Leaders must show integrity by following through on what they say and by handling individuals’ truths with respect. When people trust their leaders, they are more willing to be vulnerable and to challenge biases, which paves the way for meaningful, organisation-wide transformation.

Point #4: Challenge Bias and Embrace Safe Language

The episode highlights the importance of normalising constructive challenge—calling in, not simply calling out. Whether using safe words for ‘banter’ or challenging stereotypes, the focus should be on gentle but firm interruption of bias to encourage reflection rather than defensiveness. Inclusivity thrives where colleagues hold one another accountable in a climate of mutual respect.


These takeaways from Inclusion Bites episode 175 illuminate why brave learning and bold leadership are essential for moving beyond gestures towards lived, practical inclusion that empowers every individual.

Book Outline

Certainly! Here is a structured book outline derived solely from the guest’s perspective in the “Brave Learning, Bold Leadership” episode, following publishing best practice and your detailed instructions.


Working Title Suggestions

  1. Brave Learning, Bold Leadership: Transforming Teams Through Authentic Conversation

  2. Immersive Inclusion: Empowering Change on the Frontline

  3. Stories at Work: Everyday People, Extraordinary Inclusion

  4. Beyond the Playbook: Real-World Learning for Modern Leaders


Book Outline

Introduction

  • Set the tone for brave, real-world learning in inclusion

  • The power of authentic storytelling and immersive drama

  • Aims of the book and what readers should expect


Chapter 1: My Journey to Brave Learning

Subheadings:

  • Overcoming Early Barriers

  • Gaining Perspective through Real-Life Challenges

  • How Adversity Fuels Empathy in Leadership

Chapter Summary:

Exploring the beginnings—navigating a difficult home and school life, overcoming imposter syndrome, and progressing through male-dominated sectors. This chapter sets the foundation for a learning innovator's resilient mindset and the empathy required for bold leadership.

Example/Quote:

“As a youngster, I was repeatedly told, ‘you’re rubbish, you’re useless, you’ll never be any good at that.’ That created a massive imposter syndrome, but also helped me understand the barriers others face.”

Reflection Prompt:

  • List a time an early setback unlocked later strength or empathy.


Chapter 2: The Limits of Traditional Learning

Subheadings:

  • When the Classroom Fails Frontline Teams

  • Why Two-Dimensional Storytelling Falls Short

  • Bridging the Gap: From Policy to Practice

Chapter Summary:

Dissects why classroom-based and slide-heavy training often fails to resonate, especially for skilled workers with lower literacy or challenging backgrounds. Argues for the need to move learning beyond passive consumption towards active ruminative experience.

Example/Quote:

“Putting them in a classroom environment with ‘here’s slide 199—Equality Act 2010’ probably wasn’t going to work for this audience.”

Suggested Visual:

  • Comparison chart: Passive vs. experiential learning outcomes


Chapter 3: Immersive Drama as Change Catalyst

Subheadings:

  • The Power of Live Scenarios

  • Engaging Resistant Audiences

  • Real-World Storytelling: The Iceberg Beneath the Surface

Chapter Summary:

Details how immersive, acted scenarios draw in sceptical participants, uncover hidden biases, and make the invisible visible, especially in teams with complex life experiences or workplace challenges.

Example/Quote:

“People show up for work and do their best, but what’s under the surface is a massive iceberg you don’t see. That comes out through behaviour—what they say and do gives clues.”

Exercise:

  • Observe workplace behaviour: What “icebergs” might be present beneath the surface?


Chapter 4: Breaking Down Bias and Building Allyship

Subheadings:

  • Labels, Bias, and the Power of Lived Experience

  • Driving Allyship: From Awareness to Action

  • The Role of Social Media and Generational Assumptions

Chapter Summary:

Explores how drama and storytelling unearth everyday bias and labels, with strategies for challenging both internal and external stereotypes. Presents the role of social and traditional media in perpetuating polarisation and the importance of cultivating ally behaviours, especially in challenging upwards.

Example/Quote:

“The label is the bias. Data that sticks is data that confirms what we already believe, unless we actively challenge it.”

Interactive Element:

  • Group dialogue: Challenge a label you hear at work. What conversation emerges?


Chapter 5: Leading with Trust and Integrity

Subheadings:

  • Leadership Beyond Policy

  • The Integrity Trust Equation

  • Creating Psychological Safety for Challenge

Chapter Summary:

Discusses the centrality of trust and integrity for leaders aiming to cultivate inclusion. How authentic, trustworthy leadership—not just policy adherence—creates space for difficult conversations, vulnerability, and innovation.

Example/Quote:

“If you want people to accept what you say because of facts you can’t share, you have to prove you are trustworthy. If they trust you have integrity, they’ll buy in—even if they don’t fully understand.”

Reflection Prompt:

  • How do you show you are trustworthy in your daily leadership behaviour?


Chapter 6: The Reality of Banter, Boundaries, and Belonging

Subheadings:

  • Redefining Banter in Modern Teams

  • The Safe Word Principle

  • Managing Lived Tensions: Being Human, Not Policing

Chapter Summary:

Unpacks the pros and cons of workplace banter, and the importance of boundaries that adjust to context and relationships. Offers practical interventions (e.g., team-agreed safe words) for balancing camaraderie with psychological safety.

Example/Quote:

“Who doesn’t like a bit of banter?… The line is fluid, depends who’s present, and what else they’ve got going on. Teams can use a safe word—‘not cool’—to pause things.”

Exercise:

  • Team workshop: Agree and practise using a safe word for banter boundaries.


Chapter 7: Adapting for a Changing World

Subheadings:

  • Navigating Disruption: Lessons from Lockdown

  • Technology, Learning Styles, and Reflective Practice

  • Cultivating Agility in Culture and Work

Chapter Summary:

Reflects on the upheaval of COVID-19 and the collective shift in how learning, work, and connection happens. Emphasises the importance of flexibility—organisational and personal—and tailoring learning methods to audience needs, including digital, experiential, and reflective practices.

Example/Quote:

“We had £250,000 worth of cancellations in a day. We had to change everything overnight, learning which platforms would stick and what people actually wanted.”

Visual:

  • Diagram: “Composting Time” – how ideas percolate from reflection into action


Chapter 8: The Value of Lifelong Learning and Age-Inclusive Leadership

Subheadings:

  • Embracing Experience at Every Age

  • Rethinking Retirement and Legacy

  • Bridging Generational Gaps in the Workplace

Chapter Summary:

Addresses the societal and organisational need to move beyond ageism, capitalise on the experience of older workers, and create workplaces where everyone can thrive across a multi-generational spectrum.

Example/Quote:

“I’m 64. As long as I’m still relevant, I’ll be continuing… Nothing disappoints me more than people burning years in jobs they hate, waiting to retire rather than finding passion and purpose.”

Reflection Prompt:

  • What legacy do you want to leave through your work and leadership?


Conclusion: Bringing it All Together

Subheadings:

  • Brave Voices, Bold Actions

  • Your Next Steps as a Learner and Leader

Summary:

Resynthesises the key takeaways—a call for practical courage in learning, allyship, challenging biases, and leading with heart and integrity. Reinforces that inclusion is a journey of ongoing, everyday choices, not one-off sessions or slogans.

Call to Action:

  • Challenge yourself to adopt at least one immersive practice, initiate a difficult conversation, or introduce a new inclusive ritual within your team in the week ahead.

Resource List:

  • Further reading and resources on immersive learning, culture change, workplace inclusion


Additional Features

  • Quotes and Anecdotes: Key insights and vivid anecdotes enliven chapters, offering authenticity and relatability.

  • Visuals: Diagrams for the “iceberg” analogy, composting/reflective practice, and the safe word concept.

  • Interactive Elements: Reflection prompts, team exercises, and action steps in each chapter to maximise engagement and practical application.


Process for Refinement

  1. Beta Reader Feedback: Circulate the outline to diversity & inclusion leaders and managers for input.

  2. Expert Review: Workshop with learning and development professionals for accuracy and relevance.

  3. Iterative Edit: Reorder and refine based on structural clarity, narrative pacing, and thematic emphasis.


This outline reimagines the guest’s podcast contributions as a holistic, readable, and actionable book – preserving anecdotal life, expert voice, and the spirit of brave learning to empower readers well beyond the podcast episode.

Maxims to live by…

Certainly! Here is a set of maxims distilled from the episode themed around "Brave Learning, Bold Leadership" and the content explored throughout the conversation:


Maxims for Brave Learning and Bold Leadership

  1. Lead with Trust and Integrity
    Cultivate trust through authentic actions. Integrity is demonstrated by consistently doing what you say you will do and treating others’ confidences with respect.

  2. Create Space for Every Voice
    Value the lived experience of all individuals. Ensure that every person feels safe to share their perspective, knowing their story has power and significance.

  3. Foster Environments for Experiential Learning
    Real, lasting learning happens when people engage interactively and emotionally, not purely by observing or reading. Make inclusion tangible by involving others in authentic scenarios.

  4. Challenge with Curiosity, not Judgment
    When confronted with disagreement or bias, approach it with curiosity and openness. Ask questions, listen, and seek to understand rather than to admonish.

  5. Acknowledge the Iceberg of Lived Experience
    Remember that what people present outwardly is only a fraction of their reality. Assume there is always more beneath the surface—show empathy and seek understanding.

  6. Be Humble in Leadership
    Admit what you don’t know, seek out multiple perspectives, and accept that the best ideas can come from anywhere within the team.

  7. Prioritise Connection Over Correction
    Instead of policing, encourage gentle, respectful accountability within teams. Implement shared safe words or phrases that allow everyone to signal their boundaries.

  8. Champion Flexibility and Autonomy
    Recognise that individuals thrive under flexibility and trust. Allow people to design how they work best, measured on outcomes rather than presenteeism.

  9. Tackle Stereotypes Head-On
    Name and confront labels and biases—whether subtle or overt—with measured challenge. Use inclusive language and actively refute harmful tropes.

  10. Encourage Critical Thinking and Reflection
    Learning deepens when individuals are encouraged to reflect, compost ideas, and question assumptions. Make time and space for thought as part of problem-solving.

  11. Embrace Diversity in All Its Forms
    Talent and contribution are independent of age, gender, background, or traditional qualifications. Build teams where diverse thought and approaches are celebrated.

  12. Innovate with Courage and Openness
    Be willing to try new approaches, even if they seem unconventional. Trust in the collaborative process and be prepared for constructive surprises.

  13. Cultivate Cultures, Not Cults
    Value personal cultures as much as organisational ones. True belonging emerges when individuals don’t feel pressured to erase their identity for a workplace 'fit'.

  14. Confront Echo Chambers
    Actively seek out dissenting opinions and invite sceptics into the conversation. Sometimes, the greatest transformation comes from those who initially resist.

  15. Treat Boundaries with Respect
    Banters and jokes must be fluid and context-sensitive. Respect when someone signals discomfort—no explanation required.

  16. Live Values Daily
    Organisational values must be lived, not laminated. If innovation, empathy, or inclusion are espoused, ensure every level of leadership displays them in action.

  17. Commit to Lifelong Learning
    Regardless of age or background, remain open to growth. Stay relevant by seeking new ideas and engaging enthusiastically with change.

  18. Passionate Purpose Above Passive Employment
    If you find yourself disengaged in your role, either reignite your passion or seek a new path—life is too valuable to be spent marking time.

  19. Balance Technology with Humanity
    Whilst technology can enhance connection and learning, recognise the irreplaceable value of human-to-human interaction in fostering empathy and inclusion.

  20. Decide to Be Part of the Change
    Inclusion is not passive. Make the choice each day to act bravely, learn boldly, and inspire those around you towards a more inclusive world.


Let these principles guide your actions as you strive for inclusive, meaningful, and courageous leadership.

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Brave Learning, Bold Leadership | Inclusion Bites Podcast Ep. 175
Leadership | Inclusive Cultures | Workplace Belonging | Experiential Learning


🔥 Ready to transform your approach to inclusion and leadership? Join Joanne Lockwood and guest Pippa O’Brien as they explore how brave learning and bold leadership can ignite genuine change in today’s workplaces!


Timestamps
00:00 – Introduction & Welcome
01:14 – Meet Pippa O’Brien: Learning Innovator and Founder of Proda
02:41 – Experiential Learning: Real Stories, Immersive Drama
05:39 – Inclusive Training for All Reading Levels
11:42 – Storytelling vs Traditional Diversity Training
16:52 – The Changing Nature of Workplace Culture
28:54 – Banter, Safe Words & Team Accountability
35:27 – Breaking Stereotypes: From Chef to L&D Leader
43:24 – Adapting Inclusion to Technology and Modern Work
53:15 – Ageism, Future of Work, and Lifelong Passion
57:58 – Get Involved & Stay Connected


Description

Step into Episode 175 of the Inclusion Bites Podcast – Brave Learning, Bold Leadership, hosted by inclusion advocate Joanne Lockwood with special guest Pippa O’Brien, founder of Proda.

In this thought-provoking episode, you’ll unlock practical strategies for building inclusive workplace cultures, hear compelling real-world stories of frontline inclusion, and discover how immersive drama-based learning can transform both hearts and minds.

Key themes covered in this episode include:

  • Experiential Diversity Training: Move beyond traditional 'tick-box' sessions with inclusive storytelling and live drama, shown to influence behaviour at every level, from manual workers to executives.

  • Allyship and Challenging Bias: Real examples and actionable advice for confronting stereotypes, understanding the hidden ‘iceberg’ of lived experience, and fostering cultures of trust and integrity.

  • Design for Every Learner: How to adapt training for different literacy levels and roles, ensuring nobody is left behind.

  • Leadership that Enables Belonging: Insights on how effective, values-driven leadership can bridge personal and organisational cultures, embrace flexibility, and nurture belonging—especially in a hybrid or remote era.

  • Safe Spaces and Banter Boundaries: Innovative tools such as team-agreed safe words that help maintain psychological safety whilst preserving human connection.

  • Personal Stories of Growth: Pippa shares her inspirational journey from the pressures of the chef’s kitchen to becoming a learning leader, exploring resilience, imposter syndrome, and the impact of a good mentor.

  • Adapting Inclusion to Modern Work: Practical guidance on leveraging technology, virtual learning, and agile methodologies.

Who should watch?
This episode is a must for HR professionals, DEI leaders, L&D specialists, team managers, and anyone passionate about positive workplace culture, building truly inclusive teams, and leading with purpose. Whether you’re designing training, managing change, or striving for personal growth, these insights will supercharge your daily practice and long-term impact.


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By listening, you’ll gain actionable takeaways you can use today—from reframing banter in your team, designing accessible training, to leading courageously when it matters most. Let’s foster cultures where everyone belongs, thrives, and shapes the future.

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Brave Learning and Bold Leadership: Turning Stories into Change

How do you move from “raising awareness” to creating real, lived change in workplace culture? It’s a question I’m hearing more and more—whether from senior leaders, HR professionals, or learning and development teams. Many of us know that storytelling and lived experience have impact, yet far too often people nod, empathise, and return to their day unchanged. If you’re wondering how to light the spark that moves hearts and minds towards inclusion, this episode of the Inclusion Bites Podcast is one you won’t want to miss.


Immersive Learning Beyond the Bullet Points

In this episode, “Brave Learning, Bold Leadership,” I welcome Pippa O’Brien: learning innovator, founder of Proda, and a true pioneer in bringing immersive drama and authentic conversations to the heart of inclusion work. Pippa’s superpower, as she beautifully describes it, is turning everyday people into empowered learners through the power of real-world storytelling.

We delve into why a tick-box approach to diversity simply isn’t enough. Together, we reveal why the “deeper iceberg” of individual experience is so often missed—and how drama, role-play, and interaction can help unearth what’s truly beneath the surface in teams and organisations.

This isn’t just a conversation for DEI officers or senior leaders wrestling with policy; it’s an episode for anyone responsible for learning, talent, recruitment, or developing workplace culture. Pippa’s unconventional approach—immersing frontline teams in drama and unscripted dialogue—lays a practical roadmap for engaging even the most resistant learners.


From the Kitchen to the Boardroom: Why Embodiment Matters

If you’ve ever felt that conventional training leaves people untouched, listen in as Pippa shares how her own journey began in a male-dominated kitchen, fighting against low expectations and imposter syndrome, and emerged into a career designing brave new pathways for learning. We confront why lived experience and storytelling, though powerful, often need to be actively scaffolded—inviting room for dialogue, discomfort, and, crucially, transformation.

This is about more than just theatre: it’s about learning that actually sticks.


Tools to Change the Temperature of the Room

Through our lively discussion, several actionable lessons emerged that I encourage you to take away and share with your team, whether you’re responsible for rolling out inclusive leadership or sparking change from the grassroots up:

  1. Make Learning Immersive and Embodied
    Pippa’s approach replaces dry PowerPoints and legalese (goodbye, “slide 199 of the Equality Act 2010!”) with live drama, real scenarios, and actor-facilitated sessions that bring allyship and inclusion alive. Participants step into the shoes of colleagues, tackling real situations—not just hypotheticals.

  2. Meet People Where They Are
    Not every learner enters the room at the same reading level, life stage, or comfort with formal learning. Pippa highlights the need to design for accessibility, acknowledging that traditional education may not have served everyone. She builds environments where every team member, regardless of background, can contribute—and feel psychologically safe to do so.

  3. Promote Healthy, Self-Managed Accountability
    Instead of playing “inclusion police,” Pippa empowers teams to set their own boundaries—for example, coming up with “safe words” for banter when energy runs high or tolerance runs low. This hands the reins to the group, creating a collective sense of responsibility for climate and culture.

  4. Flip the Focus from Labels to Lived Humanity
    We unpack the pitfalls of labels and the biases they reinforce, whether about gender, age, or roles—from the “old guard” wanting office culture back, to Gen Z’s different values. Pippa’s drama-based programmes invite discussion of these assumptions in the open, giving air to difficult conversations and allowing stereotypes to be gently, but firmly, challenged.

  5. Lead with Trust and Transparency
    As we navigate shifting norms—from work-from-home debates to generation gaps—Pippa and I emphasise that trust is the true currency of leadership. When leaders demonstrate integrity, explain the “why,” and show they care about both work and person, inclusive workplaces follow.


Have a Taste—Before the Main Course

Curious to hear this brave approach in action? I’ve chosen a highlight from our conversation and captured it in this short portrait video audiogram.

👉 [Watch the audiogram here for a moment that brings the episode’s heart to the fore.]

In this snippet, you’ll hear us discuss how teams can gently challenge each other—moving beyond call-out culture. It’s a perfect teaser of what you can expect from the full episode.


Eager for More? Here’s Where to Listen

For those ready to break free from the echo chamber—or simply to spark bold conversations with your team—tune in for the whole episode. You’ll come away with a toolkit you can bring straight into your next team meeting, leadership training, or 1:1 with staff.

🎧 Listen to the full episode here: https://url.seech.uk/ibs175

If something resonates (or challenges you!), please do share the link with colleagues, HR partners, or in your professional networks. Spreading these conversations is how we water the seeds of lasting change.


What Next—And Who Gets to Decide?

As you head into the week, I’ll leave you with a thought that continues to echo for me long after the microphones are turned off:

When was the last time you created space for discomfort, dialogue, and discovery in your workplace?

Could your team benefit from a braver, bolder approach to learning—one that moves beyond awareness, and truly changes hearts, habits, and culture?

If you’re ready to swap tick-boxes for transformation, this episode is a call to action. And I’d love to hear your stories, reflections, and next steps.

Here’s to making inclusion a lived experience—one bold conversation at a time.

Until next time,

Joanne Lockwood
Host of the Inclusion Bites Podcast
The Inclusive Culture Expert at SEE Change Happen


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Let’s make brave learning and bold leadership the new norm.

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Brave Learning, Bold Leadership: How Real Conversations Transform Inclusion

“I’ve lost count of the workshops where the real change didn’t come from a PowerPoint slide, but from the moment someone’s story cracked open the entire room. Leadership isn’t about having the answers; it’s about creating the space where the unsaid can finally breathe.”

There’s a kind of electricity that pulses through a room when difficult truths are spoken openly, and people dare to go beyond surface-level platitudes about culture, belonging, and inclusion. It’s not comfort that moves us—it’s candour mixed with empathy, and the courage to experiment, even (especially) when the stakes feel highest.

That’s the theme underpinning my recent conversation with Joanne Lockwood on her podcast, Inclusion Bites—a show that does the rare thing of making inclusion visceral, uncomfortable and deeply practical. Inclusion Bites, led by Joanne—who brings the gravitas and warmth of a founder, inclusion leader, and passionate advocate—never tiptoes around the real issues. Her work at SEE Change Happen isn’t just about culture statements; it’s about rewriting the unwritten rules that hold teams (and industries) back.

More than [INSERT_VIEW_COUNT] people have already watched our interview on YouTube, with many more tuning in via Spotify and Apple Podcasts.

If this conversation sparks something for you—questions, pushback, or agreement—I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments below. I read every one.


Making Inclusion Tangible: The Power of Experiential Learning

The failure of traditional diversity training is not a theoretical debate for me; it’s personal. I’ve spent my career inside organisations where “inclusion” was a tick box rather than a lived reality—and felt, time and again, the weight of the status quo on people who needed true allyship, not just gestures.

Joanne and I quickly cut to this frustration: “The only way we could do that was to create a really safe environment where people felt they could genuinely say what they believe, and to be prepared to be challenged by others,” I reflected. “Okay, yeah, we’re really pleased with that one. It landed well. And you can see from my face we actually really enjoyed doing it as well.”

But enjoyment is a by-product of something more fundamental: relevance. Too often, high-concept inclusion workshops lose their power in translation, especially for frontline and operational staff. With an average reading age of eleven in a recent programme, I knew slides about the Equality Act wouldn’t cut it. We swapped lectures for immersive drama and scenario-based dialogue. People arrived to find themselves “inside the story,” the actors drawing them into a meeting where biases played out with uncomfortable realism. Suddenly, the abstract became personal—team members weren’t discussing “inclusion”, they were reacting to situations built on their own lived experiences.

Joanne nailed the point: “We try to take a two-dimensional story and create rumination, creating firing points in our brains. And that’s where the experiential, the storytelling with interaction, kicks in, isn’t it?” That’s exactly it. A Netflix drama might make you feel, but rarely compels you to act. In the right setting, though, a personal narrative—especially one you’ve helped shape or disrupt—sticks with you long after the handouts are recycled.


Learning Isn’t Watching; It’s Wrestling With the Messy Bits

A recurring theme in our exchange: learning happens not when people are told what to do, but when they’re drawn into the ambiguity and discomfort of real situations.

Joanne shared, “Sometimes you walk into the room and you can see people with their arms folded. You know, I don’t want to be here. This is all a bunch of woke nonsense.” Yet, paradoxically, the very people most resistant at the outset often experience the most profound shifts. When the stories are honest—drawn from real tensions, and not painted with corporate brushstrokes—the transformation is palpable. Those initial sceptics, as Joanne observed, “enlighten the rest of the room as to the importance of why we’re here today… and their change is far greater than the change in people who actually get it.”

This isn’t accidental; it’s by design. Our programmes force a kind of productive friction. We don’t just let people sit as spectators. They contribute lines for the actors, challenge assumptions, and—crucially—see their own thought processes played back to them, raw and unfiltered.

We explored why teams attach so tightly to their biases, seeking out only information that reinforces their preconceptions. Technology and the media—especially social media—make these echo chambers even smaller. But when you recreate the “unsafe” conversations in a safe environment, you can surface those prejudices, name them, and negotiate what happens next, together.


Allyship, Power, and Challenging Upwards

It’s one thing to speak about allyship for those experiencing overt bias; another to operationalise it at every level of the hierarchy. Joanne pushed me: “Do you find it’s easier to get people in the room when you’re doing the storytelling and role playing, than through traditional training?”

The answer, from experience, is a resounding yes—at every rung, up to the executive suite. Story-based interventions make the abstract painfully concrete: it’s no longer “someone else’s problem.” At the exec level, I centre these sessions on why diversity, equity, and inclusion must be treated as a strategic imperative—not a compliance exercise. Everyone has a role to play, not merely as a “leader” by title, but as an ally with power, able to shape norms and call out what’s silent.

We dove into the perennial tension of “return to office” versus flexibility. For some leaders, their ideal workplace was built on routines dependent on invisible domestic labour. For others, especially those juggling young children or multiple responsibilities, lockdown offered a glimpse of the flexibility long denied them. I conducted focus groups post-lockdown that revealed exactly this split—not ideology, but lived experience. The power to choose—when informed by trust and genuine empathy—enabled people to thrive at work and at home.

As I put it on the show: “It’s a fundamental of flexibility. You trust people to do a great job, you explain the why, and you’re the leader they need in order to be the best they can be. It’s quite simple in my opinion.” Yet, as we see time and again, organisations get stuck offering inflexible, one-size-fits-all answers under the cloak of “culture.” The real task is letting personal and organisational cultures meet, not compete—and ensuring the latter doesn’t extinguish the former.


Living Values and Whack-a-Mole Cultures

Culture, as we discussed, is not what gets written on the wall. It’s how people behave when no one’s watching—and especially when someone brave says something that’s hard to hear. In too many rooms, innovation is a stated value until the moment a new idea disrupts the comfort of hierarchy. I likened these cultures to “whack-a-mole” at the fun fair—the moment someone sticks their head up with a novel suggestion, it’s swiftly knocked back by a leader unwilling to engage. The result? A culture of silence and risk-aversion, where the one idea that could pivot an organisation is never spoken aloud.

Joanne and I shared a deep frustration with leaders who prize their own “certainty” above dialogue. “If you tell me the why, I can challenge your why with, huh, how about this? And maybe that’s what people don’t want. They don’t want the debate, do they?” she observed. We both recognised the difference between disagreement and debate grounded in trust. When “the why” is withheld—whether for strategic, practical, or even political reasons—trust is eroded. People need to know their leaders act with integrity, even when complexities can’t be fully shared.


Gen Z, Lived Experience, and the Mechanics of Safe Spaces

So much of this comes back to the mechanics of safe spaces—not safety defined by overbearing HR policies, but by the willingness to risk real feelings and authentic challenge. I am keenly aware that banter—so closely tied to belonging in many teams—can become exclusionary or even harmful if left unchecked. In sessions with operational teams, we’ve helped them develop “safe words” for the days when banter crosses the line or simply hits the wrong tone. No shame, no explanations demanded—just a pause and a reset.

Joanne was quick to point out that none of us want to be the “inclusion police.” We want workplaces where people can enjoy the richness of banter and camaraderie without stumbling into harm—where accountability and empathy grow side by side. Calling out stereotypes—even the so-called “benign” ones—matters. I told the story of my husband, Gerry, being typecast as the stingy Scotsman in English pubs: a persistent trope that, while supposedly playful, still stings. When these are left unchallenged, nothing changes.

These micro stories add up to the culture, for better or worse. When people have permission to say, “not cool”, and be heard rather than dismissed or mocked, trust grows. When leaders model self-reflection—“Actually, no, I shouldn’t have said that”—the effect ripples.


The Courage to Change and a Life Beyond Checklists

Reflecting on my own career pathway—beginning as a chef in aggressively male-dominated kitchens, transitioning into hospitality management, facilities, and ultimately learning and development—my journey has been marked by impostor syndrome, setbacks, and the critical intervention of leaders who saw potential in me before I saw it in myself.

Critical here is the point that learning isn’t linear and is often catalysed by others’ belief in our capacity. “He recognised that I had something a bit more than just get the coffees in, Pippa, or do this or do that,” I recalled of a key mentor. “He recognised that I had potential and he so challenged me every single time that he gave me insight.”

Too often, organisations cling to checklists or formal credentials (how many of us have “embellished” a qualification for a role we knew we could excel in?). But the real work happens in two zones: in the cultivation of trust between people willing to challenge and support; and in the self-acceptance that comes from finally applying lessons learned, even if the route in was unorthodox.

What does work look like when you no longer crave the approval of the old guard, or let the risk of embarrassment slow you down? For me, the answer came when I took the leap to start my own business, betting on my ability to make workplaces braver, messier, and more genuinely inclusive.


Flexibility, Age, and the Future (Not Just of Work, but of Meaning)

Joanne and I found ourselves reflecting on age, retirement, and the shifting contract between employer and employee. The world has changed beyond recognition since I started out—digitally, culturally, demographically. Millennials will soon tip into their fifties, and with a shrinking birth rate, the workforce will skew older than ever. The notion of “retirement” as a decades-long denouement is not only unrealistic for most, but also deeply unsatisfying for many of us who thrive on purpose and learning.

“I couldn’t imagine retiring really… as long as I’m still relevant, I’ll be continuing,” I shared. For me, keeping sharp isn’t just a financial choice. It’s a statement about finding joy, continuing to test boundaries, and remaining useful to the teams and individuals I work with. If work is going to stretch later into life, let it be because we’re energised by it, not trapped by inertia or habit.

And I see the same with those I train, coach, and work beside: people stay animated when there’s room to grow, challenge, and change. Burnout isn’t just about hours worked, but about staleness—going through the motions without meaning or recognition.


Trust the Composting

Throughout this conversation, the idea that resonated strongest for me was the permission to trust our process—even when it looks idiosyncratic to others. I call it “composting”: letting ideas stew, combining old learning with new, and drawing on lived experience until the right answer bubbles up.

Whether you reflect before acting, or tinker as you go, the vital thing is to move from insight to activation. That, ultimately, is the test of inclusion—for a session, a team, an organisation, or a life: Are we prepared to sit with discomfort, draw in a bigger circle, and let ourselves and others change?

The brave leader, I’ve realised, is not the one who shouts loudest, but the one who makes bravery contagious. I want to enable that in every space I influence: a legacy not of impeccable knowledge, but of courage shared.


If something in this journey speaks to you—a challenge you’re facing, a story you want to share—I invite you to add your voice below. Change is always collaborative. And as long as there is someone willing to share honestly and another person brave enough to listen, there’s no ceiling on what we can build together.

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