I’m Speaking…with Elizabeth West - #85: Ep 85 I'm Not Supposed To Be Here

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1. Ep 85: The Struggle of Feeling Out of Place and Overcoming It 2. Ep 85: Listening to Your Inner Voice in a World That Silences You 3. Ep 85: When Your Job Isn't Home: Seeking Where You Belong 4. Ep 85: Breaking Barriers as a Woman of Color in the Workplace 5. Ep 85: The Extra Mile: Hard Work and Invisibility for Women of Color 6. Ep 85: Embracing Your Side Hustle: Transitioning to Passion Full-Time 7. Ep 85: From Ignored to Empowered: Leaving Unappreciative Work Environments 8. Ep 85: Not Meant to Fit In: Building Your Own Path for Success 9. Ep 85: Harnessing Oprah's Wisdom: Letting Your Inner Voice Lead 10. Ep 85: Creating Comfort Zones: When to Walk Away and Thrive

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1. Elizabeth West, 2. feelings of not belonging, 3. work ethic, 4. women of color, 5. societal expectations, 6. societal barriers, 7. success in the world, 8. Oprah, 9. listening to inner voice, 10. ignoring inner voice, 11. negative consequences, 12. hard work, 13. workplace challenges, 14. feeling unappreciated, 15. feeling undervalued, 16. side hustle, 17. gratitude for employment, 18. comfort and ease, 19. sense of belonging, 20. mother's advice, 21. positive connections, 22. transitioning careers, 23. speaking up, 24. seeking welcoming environments, 25. leaving unwelcoming situations, 26. five-star ratings, 27. podcast reviews, 28. Apple Podcasts, 29. Spotify, 30. rating a podcast.

ℹ️ Introduction

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[Opening Music] [Elizabeth West’s voice, warm and inviting]: Hi everyone, and welcome back to another episode of "I’m Speaking…with Elizabeth West." This is episode 85, and it’s titled, "I'm Not Supposed To Be Here." Today, it’s personal. We're diving deep into that nagging feeling of being out of place. It's something I've been battling in my day job, feeling like a square peg in a round hole in a society that often seems like it wasn't made with women—especially women of color—in mind. From the work ethic instilled in me since childhood to the challenges I face in the workplace, we're looking at what it means to feel seen and valued. You know, Oprah always talked about listening to that inner voice before it turns into a scream. I'll share how I almost forgot to listen to mine, and it led me down a path of feeling unappreciated and undervalued. But not anymore. As tough as it is, we'll talk about the power of moving on from places where we don't belong and how acknowledging our worth is the first step towards finding environments that celebrate us. As we journey through this episode, I'm sharing a piece of wisdom my mother gave me—a reminder that while not everyone will see our brilliance, it's our focus on the positive connections that truly matters. All of this is funneling into my decision to finally transition my side hustle into my main hustle, to a place where my voice isn't just heard but echoed. Before we dive in, a quick reminder to help support the podcast by dropping a five-star rating and review on platforms like Apple Podcasts and Spotify. If you're unsure how, I've got a step-by-step guide for you in a special episode. Now, if you've ever felt like you're not supposed to be somewhere—to the ones who stick out rather than blend in—this episode is for you. Let's talk about the courage it takes to not only speak up but to walk away. Are you ready? Because I’m Speaking… [Transition Music]

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00:00 Work ethic ingrained since childhood, extra effort.

05:37 Discussing societal barriers and internal struggles, personal ancestry.

07:26 Intersectional identity creates imposter syndrome and inequality.

12:57 Struggle with rewards for accomplishing tasks.

14:22 Double standard; non-white face scrutiny at work.

17:38 Grateful for day job and health, seeking change.

20:26 Embrace calm, comfort, ease, and belonging.

23:51 Known for speaking up, not always seen.

27:49 Please rate my podcast five stars.

❓ Questions

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1. How have Elizabeth West's early life experiences and upbringing influenced her perspectives on work ethic, especially as a woman of color? 2. In what ways does Elizabeth believe societal structures are not built to support the success of women, particularly women of color, and how does this realization affect her career decisions? 3. What are some of the barriers and expectations Elizabeth has faced in her career, and how has she managed or confronted them? 4. Elizabeth discusses the importance of listening to one's inner voice. Can you recall a time when you ignored your inner voice and faced negative consequences? 5. How does Elizabeth's story of feeling unappreciated and undervalued resonate with you, and what steps can individuals take when they find themselves in similar work environments? 6. Elizabeth is planning to transition her side hustle into her main hustle. What considerations do you think are important when making such a significant career change? 7. The quote from Elizabeth's mother suggests focusing on positive connections rather than negative ones. How do you practice this philosophy in your own life? 8. Elizabeth emphasizes the importance of speaking up and being heard, especially in unsupportive work environments. How can one find the courage to do so, and why is it crucial? 9. In what ways can listeners apply Elizabeth's encouragement to seek welcoming environments and leave unwelcoming situations or relationships? Can you share a personal example? 10. Elizabeth asks for podcast ratings and reviews. How do these ratings impact a podcast's success and visibility, and why might a listener decide to leave a positive review?

❇️ Key topics and bullets

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**Introduction to the Feeling of Not Belonging** - Elizabeth discusses her current emotional state regarding her job - Exploration of the host's background and work ethic - Discussion on the societal barriers for women of color **Inspirations and Inner Voice** - Mention of Oprah as an inspiration for self-awareness - Importance of listening to inner voice before it escalates - Personal reflection on the consequences of ignoring her inner voice **Workplace Experiences and Challenges** - Elizabeth’s perspective on giving extra effort in her job - The feeling of not being appreciated or valued at work - Struggles unique to women of color in a professional setting **Plans for Professional Transition** - Decision to leave her current job for mental well-being - Gratitude for her current job enabling her side hustle - Aspirations to turn the side hustle into a primary career **Advice to Listeners on Self-Advocacy** - Encouraging listeners to listen to their inner voice - Advice on seeking places where they feel they belong - Importance of finding comfort and ease in environments **Influence of Personal Growth** - Reference to mother’s wisdom on interpersonal relationships - The significance of nurturing positive connections - The reflection on the speaker’s assertive nature despite feeling unseen **Listener Engagement and Podcast Support** - Request for listeners to leave five-star ratings and reviews - Instructions on rating the podcast on platforms like Spotify and Apple Podcasts - An invitation to check out a specific previous episode for further guidance on supporting the podcast

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Welcome to "I'm Speaking...with Elizabeth West," where we embrace the power of our stories and the strength in our voices. In today's heartfelt episode 85, "I'm Not Supposed To Be Here," I dive deep into my journey of feeling like an outsider in my own career. As a woman of color, I've faced barriers that demanded I work twice as hard to barely get half as far. We unpack society's blueprint that isn't sketched with us in mind but discuss how we can redraw the lines. I share personal anecdotes, like ignoring my inner voice—until it raged for change. I'm taking a stand to transform my side hustle into my main focus, and I encourage you to listen closely to your inner compass too. If you're grappling with belonging, tune in, take my mother's advice, and find people and places that appreciate you. Let's create spaces where we're seen, heard, and fully supported. Remember to rate and review, empowering more voices like ours to be heard. Your five stars pave the way for a louder, prouder tomorrow. Keep speaking up, because your story matters, and you definitely belong right here with us.

🎞️ Clipfinder: Quotes, Hooks, & Timestamps

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Elizabeth West 00:06:20 00:06:23

The Struggle of Overcoming Societal Barriers: "this world, this society, was meant for us to fail."

Elizabeth West 00:07:59 00:08:24

The Impact of Race and Gender on Career Advancement: "You have to work extra hard, right? And then if you're a woman of color, you have even more to, quote unquote, prove yourself, right. Which there's never a such thing as really proving yourself because the goal line is not the same. So it's not balanced. It's not the same."

Elizabeth West 00:12:57 00:13:10

The Struggle with Self-Reward: "I'm always getting things done, getting things accomplished, which is, there's pros and cons to that as well because I never, and I'm not going to go off on a tangent, but I never reward myself for what I've accomplished."

Elizabeth West 00:14:22 00:15:03

Workplace Inequality Exposed: "And they will not get dinged for it. They will not have any repercussions. Now, me, on the other hand, or someone that looks like me, we would be called out half a second like, what are you doing? Are you working? What are you accomplishing? You know what I mean? But if I was not of color, you have that opportunity to shoot the breeze and, yeah, just kind of like, take it easy."

Elizabeth West 00:16:57 00:17:16

Gratitude in the Workplace: "I am grateful. I should have started off with that. I'm grateful for a to, number one, to have health, to be able to have health, to be able to go to a job, and also to have a job, because a lot of people don't have those two things. So I'm grateful for those things."

Elizabeth West 00:17:38 00:18:13

Gratitude and Change in the Workplace: "So I am very grateful and thankful for my day job because I have one, I have the health. I have my health, many other things to be grateful for. And so I'm very grateful for it. And that it is angel investor. And I just keep reminding myself of these things, and it keeps me humble, and I'm grateful. With that said, the universe will also let us know when it's time to leave somewhere when our energy is done."

Elizabeth West 00:20:09 00:20:23

The Power of Belonging: "When we belong, when we belong somewhere, there's a sense. It could even be when we belong. It doesn't even have to be somewhere. But when we belong, there's a sense of calm and comfort and ease."

Elizabeth West 00:20:26 00:21:25

Embracing Inner Peace and Knowing When to Move On: "We should feel a sense of calm, a sense of comfort, a sense of welcoming, a sense of invitation, and a sense of ease."

Elizabeth West 00:21:25 00:21:52

Seeking Positive Connections: "There will always be people that do not mesh with you. Look for the ones that do. Look for the ones that do mesh with you. And she would always say this, like, don't focus on the ones that are not meshing with you. Focus on those that do want to be your friend or that are friendly to you, that are welcoming to you."

Elizabeth West 00:24:24 00:24:33

Voicing Opinions in the Workplace: "if you're not seeing me, it doesn't matter how much I speak up, you're not going to see me anyway, you're not going to see me anyway because I'm just not in your vision."

👩‍💻 LinkedIn post

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🎙️ New Episode Alert on "I'm Speaking...with Elizabeth West" 🎙️ Ep 85: "I'm Not Supposed To Be Here" - a raw, heartfelt reflection on finding where you truly belong. In this episode, I dive deep into my personal journey of questioning where I belong, especially in a professional landscape that feels like it wasn't built for someone like me. I shed light on the struggle of feeling undervalued and the power that comes from listening to your inner voice. Key takeaways from this powerful episode: - 💡 Inner Voice: Learn why tuning into and acting on your inner voice is crucial for personal and professional fulfillment. - 🚀 Overcoming Barriers: Explore the additional hurdles that women of color face in the workplace and life – and how I am turning my side hustle into my main hustle to overcome them. - 🤝 Positive Connections: Gain insights into the importance of fostering relationships where you are seen and appreciated, rather than fixating on those that don't align with your values. Don't miss this episode if you've ever felt like an outsider looking in – because this conversation is about breaking down the barriers that make us feel that way. Tune in to gain the courage to step into your own power. Remember, your voice matters, and you deserve to find the place where you feel seen, valued, and heard. 🌟 And if my words resonate with you, I would be deeply grateful for your five-star rating and review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Need help doing so? Check out the guide in a previous episode on the podcast feed! #ImSpeakingPodcast #ElizabethWest #CareerGrowth #DiversityInclusion #PodcastRecommendations #SelfEmpowerment Listen to Ep 85: "I'm Not Supposed To Be Here" now 🎧 [Include link to the episode]

🗞️ Newsletter

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Subject: 🎙️ Ep 85 Unveiled: Elizabeth's Candid Reflection on Belonging + A Message to Heed Your Inner Voice Hello I’m Speaking Family, We're back with a powerful new episode that resonates with the core of who we are and where we find ourselves in society. In episode 85, titled "I'm Not Supposed To Be Here," Elizabeth West delves deep into a personal narrative that's both reflective and inspiring. Have you ever felt like you don't fully belong? Elizabeth knows that feeling all too well. As a woman of color navigating through a world that was not designed for her to succeed, she brings to light the societal expectations and barriers that push people like her to work even harder for recognition and equality. She shares how the whispers of her inner voice went unattended for too long, shaping a journey that many of you may find familiar. But there's power in listening to that voice—just ask Oprah. Elizabeth recalls the importance of tuning in before those whispers become screams, urging us to seek change. She admits ignoring her intuition in the past, with consequences that reinforced her commitment to self-advocacy. Raised to never feel bored and always be accomplishing tasks, Elizabeth opens up about the grueling work ethic instilled in her. She unpacks the additional challenges she faces in the workplace, often feeling unappreciated and undervalued, echoing the experiences of many. But with her health and work supporting her side hustle, she's planning a bold move that speaks to the dreamer in each one of us. For Elizabeth, it's all about transitioning her side hustle into her main hustle. She conveys the subtle art of focusing on positive connections and gracefully stepping away from the ones that don't feel welcoming. Her message is clear: pay attention to your inner voice, prioritize environments that bring you comfort, and don't be afraid to walk away from spaces that offer neither. This episode isn't just about sharing experiences; it's about empowering you to act. Elizabeth invites you to join her in this conversation for realignment and to find solace in spaces where you are seen, heard, and valued. And if you're loving the content and the courage encapsulated within our podcast, Elizabeth has a small favor to ask. Please consider leaving a five-star rating and review on platforms like Apple Podcasts and Spotify. Not sure how? No worries—she’s got you covered with instructions laid out in a specific episode dedicated to guiding you through the process. It's time to heed that inner voice and join Elizabeth on this journey. Tune in to episode 85, "I'm Not Supposed To Be Here," and let's keep speaking up, speaking out, and speaking loud. Thank you for being a part of the I’m Speaking family. Your support means the world. Strive to belong where you are celebrated, The I’m Speaking Team P.S. Don't forget to subscribe and follow us on our social platforms for behind-the-scenes content and updates! --- Listening Links: - Spotify: [Insert Link] - Apple Podcasts: [Insert Link] - Our Website: [Insert Link] Follow Us: - Instagram: [Insert Link] - Twitter: [Insert Link] - Facebook: [Insert Link] Want to share feedback or suggestions for future episodes? Write to us at [Email Address]. We're all ears!

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🧵1/ Have you ever felt like you're in a place where you don't quite fit? A space where your voice and your vision just don't sync up with the world around you? Elizabeth West knows the feeling all too well. In her latest episode, she takes us on a journey of reflection, resilience, and revolution. 🌟 #FindingYourSpace 2/ Born into a world that sets the bar unfairly high, Elizabeth opens up about her experience as a woman of color in a society teeming with glass ceilings and invisible barriers. 💼🚧 #WomenOfColor #BreakingBarriers 3/ Like fitting a square peg into a round hole, society has sent a clear message - it wasn't designed for women, especially not women of color. But Elizabeth stands undeterred, echoing Oprah's wisdom, "Listen to your life. The answers are all there." 📣 #OprahWisdom #InnerVoice 4/ How often do we silence our inner voice until it becomes an unbearable scream? 🙊 Elizabeth confesses times when ignoring her intuition only led to regret. But no more. It's time to listen. #TrustYourGut 5/ Driven by a powerful work ethic, instilled by her upbringing, Elizabeth never knew boredom—only the relentless pursuit of excellence. Still, she found herself in workplaces that left her unappreciated. Unseen. 😔👩🏽‍💼 #WorkingWhileWoman #WorkEthic 6/ "Birds of a feather flock together," they say, and Elizabeth's mother knew it well. In this episode, she shares a pearl of wisdom - surround yourself with those who uplift you. 🕊️ #PositiveConnections 7/ With her side hustle gleaming with potential, Elizabeth gears up to embark on a new path, buoyed by her own grit and bolstered by the unwavering support of her listeners. 🚀 #SideHustleGoals 8/ An unignorable force drives Elizabeth - the need to speak up, claim her space, and be truly heard. Her day job may overlook her, but in her own realm, she reigns supreme. 🗣️👑 #SpeakUp 9/ If Elizabeth's words resonate with you, if you've felt the sting of invisibility, she extends a hand and invites you to step into a world where you are welcomed and seen. 👋🌍 #YouAreSeen 10/ At the heart of the conversation is a call to action: Tune into your inner voice, find your tribe, and make that leap from the sidelines to the spotlight of your own life’s stage. 🎭 #MakeTheLeap 11/ And as Elizabeth signs off, she doesn't just ask for your ears; she invites your voice, urging listeners to share their support through five-star ratings and reviews. 🌟💬 #RateAndReview 12/ For those wondering how to champion Elizabeth's message, she has meticulously crafted a guide detailing how you can rate her podcast on Spotify and Apple Podcasts. 📲📝 #SupportThePodcast 13/ Thread inspired by Elizabeth West's heartfelt testament to inner strength and the quest for inclusion. Listen, absorb, and engage. Your inner voice is your compass; let it guide you to where you belong. 🧭💖 Join Elizabeth’s conversation and let's amplify our collective journey to find where we truly belong. Tap on that inner voice and watch the dominoes of change cascade. #InnerVoice #ChangeMakers 🧵/ Thanks for following this thread! If you found value in these words, share them with someone who needs to hear this message today. Elizabeth and the world await your story. ✨

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Post 1: "Struggling to belong at your day job? You're not alone. Elizabeth opens up about the extra effort as a woman of color and the courage to listen to her inner voice. It's a wake-up call we all need to hear on this week's podcast episode." Post 2: "Ever felt undervalued at work? Elizabeth shares her painful yet inspiring journey on fighting the status quo. Tune in as she talks about making her side hustle her main hustle. A must-listen for anyone feeling invisible." Post 3: "Elizabeth's mother once said, 'Don't force connections.' True to these words, this week's episode dives into the power of positive relationships and walking away from those that dim your light. Join the conversation." Post 4: "Feeling unheard? Elizabeth shares her struggle with speaking up in an unsupportive environment. Listen to her story and get inspired to find spaces where your voice matters. Let's create a world where we're all heard." Post 5: "Need a sign to make that big change? This episode might be it. Elizabeth discusses leaving her day job for her passion project and the importance of following your inner voice. Plus, find out how to support the podcast with a 5-star review!"

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